Dr. Jenn Kennedy joins Dr. Rob to explore a rarely discussed topic – sexuality for the more seasoned. Dr. Kennedy tackles the two main ‘D’s’ of sexuality that bring couples into therapy after 50, considers what ‘better’ sex really looks like, and shares some of the main talking points that should be discussed in any conversation about sexuality as we age. Because like it or not, these are issues that every person has to face as they get older.

TAKEAWAYS:

[2:23] Dr. Kennedy’s third career tackles the topics that many therapist avoid.

[4:50] Generalities in sexuality expectations and roles over 50.

[8:35] Women over 50, their relationships and their sexuality.

[10:42] Presenting problems that bring couples to Dr. Kennedy.

[12:30] Dissatisfaction in a committed couple’s sex history.

[18:50] Do men know how to ask for what they want?

[24:05] Dysfunction is the greatest motivator for couples sex therapy.

[28:38] What does ‘better sex’ really look like?

[31:12] How body image impacts sexuality as we age.

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QUOTES:

● “The bedroom is a microcosm of the larger life.”

● “50 and beyond, more and more men are going to start having erectile dysfunction.”

● “The quality of the relationship has to feel work the tradeoff of the objectification of youth.”

● “When they’re able to articulate it, men say they want to be wanted.”

● “Your motivation to having sex matters.”