Some people pleasing beliefs include, "Other people's opinions and happiness are more important than mine," "It's selfish to take care of my needs" and "If good things or bad things happen to me, it's luck." Are your beliefs keeping you from being more assertive at the expense of our own needs and happiness? Discover how to break free from a passive mindset and the beliefs you need to change. Tune in to this episode to:

✔️Transform a people-pleasing mindset to an assertive one

✔️Find out the core beliefs of an assertive mindset: a blueprint for success

✔️Compare assertive, passive, and aggressive beliefs

✔️Discover psychological roots of a people-pleasing mindset and how it's affecting your life.

 

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