Viewer Erica K writes, “Hi Susan. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us:) I have been dating a guy from Tinder for 8 months now and he recently asked to be exclusive and ”more serious”. I asked him if he still uses Tinder, he said no.(I deleted my profile a long time ago) Yesterday I found out that he still is on Tinder and it really is bugging me and I feel really sad. How do I confront him without being needy?”