Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg, Dr. Emily Upshur, and I talk about...

 

 

3:47 - "When something is challenging for you, watching a close counterpart (like a sister) breeze through it is very difficult."

 

4:39 - These reactions can be externalizing (like being mean to her sibling) or internalizing (like feeling bad about herself).

 

5:12 - To what extent is it the older siblings job to manage her younger sister's struggles?

 

6:32 - Conversations you can have individually with each child to understand their feelings and validate their experiences before your work to collaboratively problem solve.

 

10:55 - How to give them a path toward a resolution, so being an ally to each other isn't in direct conflict with their unique needs.

 

13:12 - Reminding yourself of what you can control and reframing your goal to be: "How can I help them each get their needs met without controlling their relationship with each other?"

 

21:14 - Dr. Sarah shares her personal experience of being bullied as a child.

 

 

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT PARENTING MULTIPLE CHILDREN?

🎧 How can I handle jealousy and sibling rivalry

🎧 Navigating sibling fighting

🎧 Transitioning from one child to two

 

 

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