Securely Attached

Q&A: How do I get my 3-year-old to stop screaming at me whenever she gets frustrated?


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Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg, Dr. Emily Upshur, and I talk about...

 

 

- How to incorporate the parenting knowledge you've acquired without losing sight of your own gut instincts. 

 

- Understanding what your job as a parent is when your child feels thwarted (and why making them stop yelling might not be your true end goal)

 

- Unpacking the underlying question of: What do I do if my child is screaming volitionally as a manipulation tactic?

 

- Whether your child is in a full-blown tantrum or just slightly dysregulated, the key strategies for addressing their underlying struggle.

 

- How to respond to the behaviors (like yelling, eating, spitting, etc.) that you have no true control over.

 

- How to find that middle space between not making your child feel responsible for your feelings without having to abandon all your own needs.

 

 

👉🏻 GET MY ON-DEMAND COURSE FOR COMBATTING TANTRUMS:

Learn exactly how to reduce the frequency, intensity and duration of your child's tantrums in my self-paced course, The Science of Tantrums.

 

 

📚 READ Rebecca's book on managing your child's tantrums, The Tantrum Survival Guide

 

 

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT DYSREGULATION:

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about the difference between a tantrum and a meltdown

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about parenting a "threenager"

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode with a step-by-step guide for changing your child's behavior

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode answering the question: does teaching my kid to punch a pillow when they're mad make them more aggressive?

 

 

WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:

Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions!

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