Before we met, we had a pretty gnarly list of who we wanted to attract into our lives. Both our lists were specific in what the person looked like, what they had, how old they'd be and more. What both our lists didn't have was the essence of the person we wanted to be with and what the energy of our relationship felt like.

Steve and I were friends and sought one another for dating advice. We couldn't even see that the person our hearts were seeking was right in front of us because we were list focused at that time.

In today's episode we share what was on our lists, who we attracted in as a result and the wound that kept creating those lists to keep our hearts safe. We also speak about how we both shifted from our heads and into our hearts, and how that led to us being together.

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Prior to most work engagements, I have self talk that says, "I can't be bothered." It's a lazy, meh kinda energy I'm carrying around and I watch and observe it. 

What I've realised and accepted over the last nine years of business is that no matter how on path I am or how epic an opportunity may be, there's a part of me (the ego) that resists the work. But why?

In today's episode I share what's beneath my CBF vibes prior to events, speaking engagements, coaching, recording podcasts, THE LOT! and how I manage it. There's an underlying narrative that is running, looking to convince me that this is not my path, "because if it was your path Kat, you'd be stoked all the time!" 

Don't let it fool you out of doing what you love at the level of your heart. 

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When I started my business I wanted to succeed really quickly. This was driven by the fear of and looking like a failure. I wanted overnight wealth,  overnight engaged community and overnight full books. I guess that's kinda normal to want these things but when I was informed by trusted people and professionals that ...

• it'll take three years to build your brand and to build a solid, engaged community
• it's not a business if it can't support your life; it's a hobby
• it'll take ten years to be highly regarding in your field 

... I wanted to give up. Ugh, who the hell wants to wait this long for this? 

Recently, my online community grew from 32K to 529K in a matter of four months. I wasn't doing anything new and applied no new strategy. I'd been plugging away for nine years, sharing my message, tweaking it, doing the inner work and showing up a little more each time as my authentic nature. 

Today's episode shares how grateful I am for past Kat who played the long game, delayed gratification, put her head down and bum up and stayed with what felt good, right and true. Because now, I am reaping the hard work she (past Kat) put in, even when she wondered if what she was doing was a waste of time. 

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I'm at that stage in my life where leaving the vacuum cleaner out after I make the house all shmick, isn't cutting it.

I'm at that stage in my life where folding the washing and leaving it downstairs, when it belong upstairs and I'm going upstairs but refuse to take it with me, isn't cutting it.

I'm at that stage in my life where leaving my clean underwear in the laundry, even though I need it every morning yet still don't bring it back into my bedroom, isn't cutting it.

People, the one-percenters are ready to be addressed and I'm kinda liking how I feel when I follow through. It's actually quite amazing! Today's episode will offer much laughter and relatability as I share the many one-percenters I am in the practice of following through on. Keen to hear how this lands for you.

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I've been pulling out the phrase, "this too shall pass", more and more recently, but different reasons. 

Typically I'd use this phrase when times are tough and less that ideal. Instead, I've been using this amidst an awesome moment that's full of connection, joy or celebration. And it's not because I'm being a Debbie Downer. 

It's been a habit of mine to live for the epic-ness and feel bummed when life returns back to "normal". I noticed myself being annoyed at the mundane-ness after something amazing took place either personally or professionally and felt the need to balance this out. I could see myself judging life, people or situations, looking for why it or they were not as good as yesterday.

We often use the term, "this too shall pass", for tough times, but often when times are good, we cling onto the good feelings and feel underwhelmed when life returns to normal. I have been reminding myself that even the good times pass and it's to remind me that the beige-ness of life is okay. 

I hope you enjoy today's share.

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If you've had those pangs of jealousy in your relationship that results in you being controlling, withholding of your love and distrustful, please, listen to today's episode.

If you are in a relationship where your partner is insecure and acts out in controlling, withholding and distrustful ways, listen too.

If you are single and are thinking, "shit, I think this was me in my last relationship", listen.

Steve and I share two examples from our relationship where our security in self, the other and the relationship were challenged. We share how we handled those situations powerfully and with integrity, even though our ego's wanted to control the other in order to feel safe.

We believe this share is important as many relationships end prematurely when one (or both) people are insecure in themself, therefore acting out and punishing the other. We hope you find this episode helpful for you and your relationship.

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In today's episode, I share that after 6 years of navigating the complexities of blended families, I feel I have found my place and grown to be truly grateful for my step-daughters. Through this experience, I have discovered new depths to my heart that I never knew existed until I met these two beautiful girls. 

As I watch them shift from little girls to teenagers, I see them becoming their own humans in the world. I enjoy hanging out with them, chit-chatting and really feel that we can be ourselves with one another. 

It's a tough road blended families and I'm sure glad I didn't give up or give into the stories in my head, because deep down in my heart, I've always known that they are my people. 

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As you embark on the journey of pursuing your dreams and desires, it's important to remember that it's completely normal to self sabotage and cock-block yourself. In fact, it's often in the pursuit of our goals that we are forced to confront our deepest wounds, limiting stories, and ego-driven beliefs. This can be uncomfortable and even painful at times, but it's an essential part of the process. 

It's important to recognise that this is not a sign of failure, but rather an indication that you are growing and expanding beyond your current limitations. So, be kind and compassionate with yourself as you navigate old wounds and beliefs. Remember that you are not alone, and that this is a natural part of the journey towards fulfilling your next layer of potential. 

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For the last three years of our relationship, I have been sexually inhibited and it's been an area of mine and Steve's relationship that has been strained. As I ventured in and sought professional guidance to help me, a new layer of healing and liberation unlocked. And with that, layers of pain released.

In past relations, I gave my body but not my heart. With Steve, I gave my heart and withheld my body. Why? To feel a sense of control and safety. But, it started to take a toll on us, so it was time to look deeper.

For the first time in 37 years, I feel sexually liberated, safe in my body AND with Steve, allowing myself to actually experience pleasure without the shame story shutting down my body. To finally be present in this area of my life without making it mean something is truly something I am celebrating.

Today's episode shares the lessons I've learned, the healing that's taken place and  the journey over the past three months that has been hard, but worth it.

**Please note, today's episode makes mention of sexual abuse. If right now listening to this episode may be triggering, skip it or come back to it when the time feels right.

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Steve and I made an agreement at the start of our relationship. An agreement that we both contributed to in order to help us stay connected and move out of shitty states when in disagreement.

We agreed that when one of us  is acting up, talking with a sharp tone, being care-less with out words or cold shouldering, that the other would remind us of our true intentions and what mattered more than the need to be right or in control.

As time has gone on in our relationship it's helped us shift out of holding grudges and death staring the other far more rapidly, because we both know the true feeling and intention that we predominantly want to be in.

Today's episode shares a simple tool we used that has proved to serve us time and time again.

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