Responding to Borderline Ex Only When Contacted or Hoovered is NOT No Contact Are you an Ex of someone suspected of having BPD or someone you know has BPD? Whether you know the relationship is over or not are you trying to not initiate contact first? Are you a stance now of only responding to contact (hoovers) from your Ex and thinking that means you have gone *no contact*? You are not in full no contact if your Ex with BPD can contact you in any way. You are not in full no contact if you have left even one avenue of contact open to be hoovered and then and only then you respond. What are you doing? Why? https://ajmahari.ca/Sessions

Responding to Borderline Ex Only When Contacted or Hoovered is NOT No ContactAre you an Ex of someone suspected of having BPD or someone you know has BPD? Whether you know the relationship is over or not are you trying to not initiate contact first? Are you a stance now of only responding to contact (hoovers) from your Ex and thinking that means you have gone *no contact*?You are not in full no contact if your Ex with BPD can contact you in any way. You are not in full no contact if you have left even one avenue of contact open to be hoovered and then and only then you respond. What are you doing? Why?https://ajmahari.ca/Sessions

Responding to Borderline Ex Only When Contacted or Hoovered is NOT No Contact Are you an Ex of someone suspected of having BPD or someone you know has BPD? Whether you know the relationship is over or not are you trying to not initiate contact first? Are you a stance now of only responding to contact (hoovers) from your Ex and thinking that means you have gone *no contact*? You are not in full no contact if your Ex with BPD can contact you in any way. You are not in full no contact if you have left even one avenue of contact open to be hoovered and then and only then you respond. What are you doing? Why? https://ajmahari.ca/Sessions

Responding To Borderline Ex Only When Contacted or Hoovered is Not NO CONTACT

A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.  <a href="https://ajmahari.ca/sessions" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://ajmahari.ca/sessions</a> <a href="https://ajmahari.ca/gottatalk" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://ajmahari.ca/gottatal</a>k - After Hours <a href="https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts</a> <a href="https://survivingaborderline.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://survivngbpdbreakup.com</a> <a href="https://survivingaborderline.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://survivingaborderline.com</a> <a href="https://codependency.ca" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://codependency.ca</a>

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A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more. https://ajmahari.ca/sessionshttps://ajmahari.ca/gottatalk - After Hourshttps://ajmahari.ca/podcastshttps://survivngbpdbreakup.comhttps://survivingaborderline.comhttps://codependency.ca

A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.&nbsp; <a href="https://ajmahari.ca/sessions" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://ajmahari.ca/sessions</a> <a href="https://ajmahari.ca/gottatalk" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://ajmahari.ca/gottatal</a>k - After Hours <a href="https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts</a> <a href="https://survivingaborderline.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://survivngbpdbreakup.com</a> <a href="https://survivingaborderline.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://survivingaborderline.com</a> <a href="https://codependency.ca" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://codependency.ca</a>

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