In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:

1) I have been with my partner for 15 years – we got together at college. Our sex life is okay...ish, but I crave new experiences and I want to have them on my own. I have always wanted to sleep with another woman. I would never cheat on my partner with another man – that’s just wrong — but is sleeping with another woman so bad? I know a club where I could meet women and make this happen. I would make sure I was discrete and that my partner never found out.

2) Tracey, you talked about using a stroker to speed up a hand-job. Do you have any other shortcuts to keep husbands happy when you’ve been married a long time and sex gets tedious? Hints on how to speed things up a little?

3) My boyfriend (of six months) keeps trying to tell me how to dress and what to wear. I think it comes from the right place – he’s always telling me what an amazing body I have – but it’s ticking me off. If he had his way, I’d be permanently in heels, skinny jeans and a low cut top. I’m happy to dress sexily some of the time, but other times I just want to be comfortable. He’s making me feel bad for dressing down. Like I’m only attractive to him when I’m in tight, sexy clothes. I’ve told him to stop but he continues. I think he thinks he’s giving me a compliment: that I have a good body and should show it off.

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