Secluded Thoughts

Sweetheart, how long will you allow yourself to feel miserable, dreading plans you agreed to when you knew you didn't want to do? Why say yes to go and then constantly hope that they'll cancel or something crazy will happen to ruin the plans? Must you suffer every day leading up to that dreadful thing you committed to or is it time to start saying no? People pleasing isn't suiting you well; it's time to phase out of that.

EPISODES MENTIONED:

• EP #120: Honor your commitments

JOURNALS

• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
• Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships
• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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I used to wait for others to validate me and when I didn't get it it literally reflected in my performance because I stopped caring because no one was clapping. It was a tough lesson to learn so young.



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91. Revenge Success - Wanting success to prove a point to other people

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• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
• Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships
• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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Stop explaining your non-negotiables and entertaining people who want you to compromise and accept the bare minimum. You give people the blueprint on how to treat you. Stop allowing people who don't care about you to make you explain yourself.

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99. Stop nagging and justifying your NON-NEGOTIABLES

JOURNALS

• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
• Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships
• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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Sis, how long are you going to keep these things on your checklist undone? How long are you going to have the same fears or the same goals? Don't you think it's time you get these things out of the way? Stop going into every new year with the same goals.

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EPISODES MENTIONED:

• EP #86 - Don't settle for "what if.."

JOURNALS

• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
• Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships
• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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Sometimes when we get hurt after loving we close ourselves off to protect ourselves but that only lets you have shallow experiences with people.

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92. Honor your emotions and stop gaslighting yourself

JOURNALS

• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
• Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships
• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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We all have painful experiences in life but the real question is what are you going to do with it? Your pain actually isn't unique. You might think it is because you keep it to yourself but it will set someone free if you use it for good. So what are you going to do?

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97. What are you doing with your pain?

JOURNALS

• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
• Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships
• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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You gain nothing from being mediocre and giving life the bare minimum. What you can expect from that is stagnation and having to put the same things on your vision board year of year. It's time to start holding yourself to a higher standard and holding yourself accountable for where you are in life. It's the only way to actually start living the life you desire.

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TOPICS DISCUSSED:

• Have you been doing the bare minimum?
• Don't think you can slack off in one area and give your best in another
• Why you should set high standards for yourself
• The truth behind why you feel stuck in some areas of your life
• Stop rushing to point out your flaws

EPISODES MENTIONED:

• EP #35 - (Run your own race) This is why you think you're behind in life
• EP #9 - How you do one thing is how you do EVERYTHING
• EP #100 - It's time to upgrade your standard

JOURNALS

• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
• Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships
• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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Everything is connected. You can't hold yourself to a certain standard but be lenient with the people you don't. You can't focus on elevating but you also allow anyone to come into your life that isn't align with the lifestyle you're working towards. Let's get it together, sis.

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96. Do your relationships align with your core values?

JOURNALS

• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
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• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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Whatever it is you've been putting off, it's time to do it. If you're already miserable where you are right now what do you have to lose? You might be thinking, "well, what if I end up miserable?" but aren't you already?

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95. But what if it DOES work out?

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• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
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• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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A lot of people stay in a job or career because the title or company is prestigious but they're actually miserable. There are different reasons people hide behind titles. This was mine. What's yours?

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JOURNALS

• Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self
• Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships
• Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision
• Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing

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