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“Why has my sex drive dropped as I’ve aged?”

“How do I schedule sex with my partner?”

“What are some ways I can set the mood for sex?”

This episode of Sex, Love & Elephants is the seventh in a series about the rumored demise of long-term love. I'll be sharing my own expertise on the subject as well as interviewing experts in the field about love, sex, and communication.

When my hubby and I first got together, we were absolutely insatiable—I’m talking nonstop passion and desire. But a decade or so on? Not so much! Now that we’re both in our early 60’s, our sex life takes some extra TLC to maintain but we’re dedicated to making it happen. And today, I’m going to teach you exactly what our secret is. 

Ready to rate your relationship? Take Cheryl’s Passion Quiz today and see how you and your honey rank.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Curious about Become Passion? Check out testimonials HERE from real couples just like you who have saved their relationships!

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Listen to Dr. Cheryl on Jack Canfield’s podcast here.

Let’s Connect!  

Be the first to join the waitlist for Cheryl’s FREE couples workshop this May! Click here to join.  (You’ll also be notified when the doors to the next session of the Become Passion Program open!)

“I love my partner, but they don’t turn me on anymore… HELP!”

“We never have sex anymore, should we get a divorce?”

“Why am I never in the mood for sex?”

This episode of Sex, Love & Elephants is the sixth in a series about the rumored demise of long-term love. I'll be sharing my own expertise on the subject as well as interviewing experts in the field about love, sex, and communication.

It might be a familiar feeling: You’re not looking to leave your sweetheart or trying to have an affair, but your sex life is either totally non-existent or downright lousy. Today, I’m giving you some very important tools to help you and your long-term partner reignite the spark you once had and bring back that butterflies-in-the-belly, over-the-moon sexual desire for one another. 

Ready to rate your relationship? Take Cheryl’s Passion Quiz today and see how you and your honey rank.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Curious about Become Passion? Check out testimonials HERE from real couples just like you who have saved their relationships!

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Let’s Connect!  

Be the first to join the waitlist for Cheryl’s FREE couples workshop this May! Click here to join.  (You’ll also be notified when the doors to the next session of the Become Passion Program open!)

“Is long term sexual attraction a myth?”

“How can I be more attracted to my partner?”

“Why does my sex life slow down the older I get?”

This episode of Sex, Love & Elephants is the fifth in a series about the rumored demise of long-term love. I'll be sharing my own expertise on the subject as well as interviewing experts in the field about love, sex, and communication.

I encourage you to think back to you and your honey’s discovery of each other’s bodies, your hearts, your erotic pleasure… Do you still experience those same feelings? Or have those butterflies disappeared over the years? 

Today, I’m letting you in on a little secret to reignite the BIG spark with your sweetheart. 

Ready to rate your relationship? Take Cheryl’s Passion Quiz today and see how you and your honey rank.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Curious about Become Passion? Check out testimonials HERE from real couples just like you who have saved their relationships!

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Let’s Connect!  

Be the first to join the waitlist for Cheryl’s FREE couples workshop this May! Click here to join.  (You’ll also be notified when the doors to the next session of the Become Passion Program open!)

“Dr. Cheryl, what’s the secret to a long marriage?”

“Why are divorce rates so high?”

“How do I overcome conflict with my partner?”

This episode of Sex, Love & Elephants is the fourth in a series about the rumored demise of long-term love. I'll be sharing my own expertise on the subject as well as interviewing experts in the field about love, sex, and communication.

Today, I welcome relationship expert Bruce Muzik. Dubbed “The Couples Whisperer,” Bruce is a world-renowned relationship repair specialist and the founder of Love At First Fight, a company dedicated to helping couples transform their conflict-ridden relationships into thriving partnerships.

Discover more about Bruce’s work at LoveAtFirstFight.com or watch his powerful TEDx talk HERE.

Ready to rate your relationship? Take Cheryl’s Passion Quiz today and see how you and your honey rank.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Curious about Become Passion? Check out testimonials HERE from real couples just like you who have saved their relationships!

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Let’s Connect!  

Be the first to join the waitlist for Cheryl’s FREE couples workshop this May! Click here to join. (You’ll also be notified when the doors to the next session of the Become Passion Program open!)

“Dr. Cheryl, why do our arguments get so nasty?”

“We talk, but we never make progress. What’s the key to communication?”

“How can we argue without fighting?”

This episode of Sex, Love & Elephants is the third in a series about the rumored demise of long-term love. I'll be sharing my own expertise on the subject as well as interviewing experts in the field about love, sex, and communication.

“I can't stand you.” “I'm out of here.” “What are we even doing together?” 

If any of these sound familiar to you, you might just be wondering if long-term love is dead after all. 

Today, I'm going to dive into the fact that long-term kind speech, civility, and respect aren’t dead, but they may be on life support.

Ready to rate your relationship? Take Cheryl’s Passion Quiz today and see how you and your honey rank.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Curious about Become Passion? Check out testimonials HERE from real couples just like you who have saved their relationships!

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Let’s Connect!  

Be the first to join the waitlist for Cheryl’s FREE couples workshop this May! Click here to join.  (You’ll also be notified when door to the the next session of the Become Passion Program open!)

“Dr. Cheryl, help! Why don’t I feel as committed to my spouse as I used to?”

“Why am I so scared to commit?”

“How do I revive my commitment to my partner?”

This episode of Sex, Love & Elephants is the second in a series about the rumored demise of long-term love. I'll be sharing my own expertise on the subject as well as interviewing experts in the field about love, sex, and communication.

We believe that if we get married or move in together or make another human that we are committed: “Now we're a family and we're more committed than ever!” But the statistics and our own life experience don’t necessarily prove that to be true…

How committed are you to your long term relationship? At some point, you did choose to commit to your partner—whether you’ve said “I do” or not

Ready to rate your relationship? Take Cheryl’s Passion Quiz today and see how you and your honey rank!

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

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Be the first to join the waitlist for Cheryl’s FREE couples workshop this May! Click here to join.  

Curious about Become Passion? Check out testimonials HERE from real couples just like you who have saved their relationships!

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Let’s Connect!  

Be the first to know when Cheryl’s next FREE couples workshop is offered! Click here to join the waitlist.  

“Dr. Cheryl, how do I know when it’s time for a divorce?”

“Do people ever regret the decision to end their marriage?”

“Is divorce the right decision for me and my spouse?”

Is long-term love dead? Take a look at the number of divorces, the rate of affairs, younger generations talking about the lack of commitment… I’m not sure if it’s dead, but it’s definitely not looking good, is it? 

This episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants kicks off a series about the rumored demise of long-term love. I'll be sharing my own expertise on the subject as well as interviewing experts in the field about love, sex, and communication.

I’m not necessarily against divorce, but I do believe there are cases where it’s not the only answer. In one study, people who'd been divorced for two years were asked: “Do you feel you made the right decision to end your marriage?” As it turns out, a whopping 50% of those surveyed said they had post-divorce regret. 

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Let’s Connect!  

Want to Rate your Relationship and Learn the Three Keys to Long Term Love? 

Take the Passion Quiz Now! 

“Dr. Cheryl, how can I spice things up in the bedroom with my sweetheart?”

“Why has the heat left our sex life?”

“How can I get my lover to be adventurous in bed like we used to be?”

Think back to the beginning of your relationship… How spicy or adventurous or open or willing or playful or hot or uninhibited were you? And why aren’t you and your lover that way anymore? Often when we make deeper steps towards commitment, the stakes are higher. We're more vulnerable than in those first few months and we become more fearful of rejection.

On this Sex, Love, and Elephants rewind, I’m teaching you my biggest tips to bring the heat to your bedroom and the spice back to your long term relationship in 2025.

Are you willing to settle for “nice” as the benchmark for success for your sexual life? I know that’s not true for most of you, but maybe you’ve become a lazy lover. Do you wish you could be more inventive? That you could suggest things? That you could please your lover's body?

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Let’s Connect!  

Want to Rate your Relationship and Learn the Three Keys to Long Term Love? 

Take the Passion Quiz Now! 

“But Dr. Cheryl, don’t you know that romance is dead?” 

“How can I be as sexy as those guys my wife reads about in her steamy books?”

“Will I ever stop waiting for my rom com meet-cute whirlwind romance?!”

It's pretty easy to be cynical about modern love. We’re so misled by the media and romantic comedies and romance novels about what love should look like that it can be really dangerous to our relationships. We have this illusion that love and romance need to be a certain way, but the truth is that real life relationships are a whole lot different than what we see on the screen or read on the page. 

On this Sex, Love, and Elephants rewind, I’m teaching you my biggest tips to create and sustain romance between you and your partner through 2025 and beyond. 

When’s the last time you and your sweetheart really thought out of the box for a date night? What about exploring a whole new-to-you cuisine, stepping out of your typical movie genre box, or even learning to ice skate together (and sharing a laughing fit when you both end up on your bottoms!) It can be hard to get out of your comfortable rut, but branching out can bring some much needed spice and bonding time to a long term relationship. 

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Let’s Connect!  

Want to Rate your Relationship and Learn the Three Keys to Long Term Love? 

Take the Passion Quiz Now! 

“But Dr. Cheryl, shouldn’t the goal be not to have any arguments with my sweetheart?”

If you’re a human being who loves another human being, do you truly think it's healthy to never argue with your sweetheart? To never disagree, never have a tense conversation or one that leads to you feeling anxious or worried or hurt or angry? 

On this Sex, Love, and Elephants rewind, I’m teaching you why a long term relationship with no fighting or arguing is one giant red flag.

When you’re arguing with your partner, you literally cannot know their side of things. You can’t see their side of the clock, you can’t visualize what they're seeing—they have a different background, a different family upbringing, different hopes and dreams. It’s this simple, powerful idea that often becomes one of the most important teachings for couples in my Become Passion program. 

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

Let’s Connect!