Today's juicy episode is with an incredible couple that loves to make sex a topic you actually talk about. I imagine many of you listening have had the ups and downs in your sex life with your partner. We can remember the start of a relationship that was hot and heavy, passionate and alluring...then fast forward to a year or more into the relationship. Maybe sex isn't as frequent and maybe becomes less interesting. Well first and foremost to let you know this is more common than some might think it is...but that doesn't mean it needs to be this way. My guests today will share how to reignite the spark and the intimacy back in your relationship.

To welcome my guests, Vanessa and Xander Marin. A married couple her to help keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship.

Vanessa's a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander's a regular dude who gets to talk about sex with his wife all day. Together they share totally doable sex tips, relatable relationship advice, and honest and sometimes hilarious stories about what really happens behind closed bedroom doors. Their mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate, and they are the authors of the New York Times best selling book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life.

In this conversation you will learn:

• Acknowledging things where they are so you can take next step
• The common blocks that dim the spark in a relationship
• The 2 separate sex drives we have
• The golden rules before starting a conversation with your partner
• What chips away at connection
• What to do to create more connection
• The 5 sex talks we should be having

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