The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce Club

Should You Stay or Leave? How to Navigate a Marriage Crisis with Dr. Becky Whetstone


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What really happens when a marriage begins to fall apart? In this episode, Dr. Becky Whetstone—author of I Think I Want Out—reveals the 5 predictable stages of a marriage crisis and how to know if you should stay, or move on with clarity.

Whether you’re unhappily married, newly separated, or years post-divorce, this conversation offers validation, strategy, and hope.


🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways

  • The 5 stages of marriage decline (and how to spot them)

  • The roles of the “decider” vs. the “leaning in partner”

  • Why calming your nervous system is step one in a crisis

  • Practical tools for separation, co-parenting, and resilience

    • How self-care turns heartbreak into healing


    ⏱️ Episode Timestamps

    00:00 Intro
    04:03 Understanding Marriage Crisis
    07:31 The Five Stages of Marriage Deterioration
    14:05 Roles in Marriage Crisis: Decider vs. Leaning In Partner
    22:18 Understanding the Leaning In Partner's Instincts
    26:03 The Importance of Managed Separation
    29:51 Finding Strength in Self-Discovery
    35:14 Embracing Authenticity in Relationships
    40:50 Final Thoughts and Resources


    🌟 Resources & Links

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    Connect with Dr. Becky Whetstone:

    • Website: marriagecrisismanager.com

    • Instagram: @doctorbecky

    • Facebook: Relationship Crisis Manager

    • Book: I (Think) I Want Out

    Connect with The Crazy Ex-Wives Club:

    • Instagram: @thecrazyexwivesclub

    • Facebook: The Crazy Ex-Wives Club

    • Website: thecrazyexwivesclub.com

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