Why do we continue to look past our standards even when we know that it’s a boundary we don’t want to cross?

This is an episode I know many of you will relate to.

Because even when we know our standards… sometimes we still catch ourselves thinking:

Maybe I could look past this

He has everything else I’m looking for, maybe this one doesn’t matter

Am I asking too much?

Maybe this is good enough…

This week I’m taking you inside a moment where this happened in my own life very recently - with a story about Mr. South America.

But this episode isn’t actually about him. It’s about what I noticed about myself and what it felt like to self-abandon. 

And more importantly, I want you to use my experience to reflect on the times you said yes, when really you meant no… and the times you've been tempted to look past what you know to be true for you. 

Here’s what I want you to listen for in this episode… 

What it sounds and feels like when you’re about to settle… and how to catch it next time the feeling comes up

How to recognise the very first red flag (and why it matters to pay attention to it)

What it feels like in your body when something isn’t aligned but your head doesn’t know it yet

How I’ve learnt to put myself out there without chasing or overgiving

Why so many women wait for a man to bring aliveness to their life… and what I do instead to build that feeling for myself

…and so much more.

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