Single Mother Survival Guide

In this final episode of the Single Mother Survival Guide podcast, I'm sharing a heartfelt goodbye as I close this chapter after 10 incredible years. It's a moment to reflect on the journey, the community we've built together, and the privilege of supporting thousands of single mums through some of life's most challenging seasons.

This episode is a celebration of everything we've shared, the lives that have been touched, and the strength, resilience, and hope I've witnessed along the way. Whether you've been here from the beginning or found the podcast more recently, thank you for being part of this journey. It has truly been an honour to walk alongside you.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I'm reflecting on the biggest lessons I've learned after 10 years of coaching and supporting single mums through separation, divorce, and rebuilding their lives. While every woman's journey is unique, certain patterns, insights, and truths have come up time and time again.

These lessons don't come from a textbook; they come from real conversations I've had, lived experiences, and walking alongside hundreds of women through some of the hardest chapters of their lives. Whether you're at the beginning of your journey or well into creating your next chapter, I hope these reflections encourage, reassure, and inspire you.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we explore the powerful shift that happens when you move beyond simply surviving separation and begin asking, "What do I want to create now?" While divorce or separation may always be part of your story, it doesn't have to define the rest of your life.

We talk about how to start building a future that's richer, more meaningful, and centred on who you're becoming (not what you've been through). If you're ready to move from getting through each day to creating a life you love, this episode will encourage you to take that next step with hope and purpose.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I'm talking about one of the questions I'm asked most often: How do I know if I'm actually healing? After separation or divorce, it's easy to feel like you're making progress one day, only to be triggered the next and wonder if you're back where you started.

I explore why healing is rarely a straight line and how setbacks don't erase the progress you've already made. If you've been questioning whether you're moving forward, this episode offers reassurance, perspective, and reminders to help you recognise the quiet signs of healing that are often easy to miss.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I'm talking about what it means to date with intention after separation or divorce. Whether you've found yourself jumping into relationships too quickly, avoiding dating altogether, or feeling unsure about what you're actually looking for, this conversation is for you.

We explore the importance of understanding your values, being clear about your goals, and making conscious decisions rather than reacting out of fear, loneliness, or old patterns. Dating with intention isn't about finding someone as quickly as possible; it's about approaching relationships in a way that aligns with the life you want to create.

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Continue the conversation with these episodes:

• Episode 148 - Let's talk dating!
• Episode 156 - Speed dating; what you need to know
• Episode 365 - 11 dating tips for single mums
• Episode 371 - 15 red flags for single mums to be aware of when online dating
• Episode 418 - Ten dating red flags you need to know about
• Episode 493 - Dating again as a mum - What's different (and how to stay true to you)
• Episode 503 - Dating after divorce: Are you actually ready?

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I'm sharing eight things I wish every single mum knew. These are the lessons, truths, and reminders that have come up again and again throughout my own journey, my coaching work, and nearly a decade of conversations with single mums through this podcast.

If you've ever felt overwhelmed, questioned yourself, or wondered whether you're doing enough, this episode is for you. Consider it a friend-to-friend conversation over a cup of tea filled with encouragement, perspective, and the reminders I believe every single mum deserves to hear.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I'm sharing five decisions that profoundly changed the course of my life. Inspired by a conversation with my daughter about "sliding door moments," I reflect on the choices that shaped who I am today and the life I've built.

It's easy to think our lives are changed by luck, timing, or circumstances, but when I look back, it's the decisions made at pivotal crossroads that stand out the most. Many of those choices felt uncertain, uncomfortable, and even scary at the time, yet they ultimately led me in the direction I needed to go. This episode is an invitation to reflect on the power of your own decisions and the role they play in shaping your future.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I'm exploring what actually creates happiness after divorce, and why it's often not what we think. Many of us believe we'll finally be happy when the divorce is finalised, the finances are sorted, the co-parenting settles down, or a new relationship comes along. While those things can certainly help, lasting happiness doesn't have to wait until everything in life is fixed.

I share what I've observed from working with single mums over the years and why the women who find happiness sooner are often the ones who learn how to create it alongside life's challenges, rather than after them. This episode is an invitation to rethink where happiness comes from and how you can begin cultivating it right now.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I'm talking about what I believe is one of the biggest mistakes women can make after separation - staying emotionally stuck in the story of what happened. While it's easy to focus on the practical challenges of separation, the emotional patterns we hold onto can have an even greater impact on our healing, confidence, and future.

I explore what emotional stuckness can look like, why so many of us fall into it, and how it can quietly keep us from moving forward. Most importantly, I share practical steps you can take today to begin reclaiming your power, shifting your focus, and creating space for the next chapter of your life.

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Check out the following episodes:

• Episode 289 - Six biggest mindset mistakes when getting divorced
• Episode 301 - Four biggest mindset mistakes that can affect your decision making
• Episode 389 - Navigating divorce with kids: 3 mistakes to avoid as a mum
• Episode 504 - When your ex still controls your mood

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I shift the focus to parenting toddlers as a single mum, a stage that can feel incredibly demanding and overwhelming. Alongside the tantrums, big emotions, and constant needs, you're also carrying the full load of daily life, often while feeling exhausted and stretched thin.

I introduce the Circle of Security approach, which centres on one powerful idea: your child needs you as both a secure base to explore the world and a safe haven to return to when things feel too much. We explore how this simple framework can help you better understand your toddler's needs, create emotional safety, and feel more grounded in your parenting even when things feel chaotic.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.