Single Mother Survival Guide

Rebuilding confidence as a single mum after big life changes can be incredibly difficult. But here's the truth: confidence isn't something you're born with, it's something you rebuild, one small step at a time.

In this episode, I share five gentle yet powerful steps to help you reconnect with your confidence and sense of self. You'll learn how to acknowledge where you really are (without pretending you're fine), how to reconnect with what makes you you, and the importance of surrounding yourself with people who lift you higher. We also talk about how to shift your inner dialogue, and speak to yourself with the same kindness you give your children, and why taking imperfect action is the ultimate confidence-builder.

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To go alongside this episode, I've created a free Confidence Rebuild Guide to help you rediscover your spark and rebuild your confidence one day at a time. Download your free guide HERE and start your own confidence rebuild today:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

As single mums, it's so easy to start the new year feeling like we need to do more - being more productive, achieving more, earning more... But what if your "best year yet" wasn't about doing more… but feeling more? More joy, more peace, more confidence?...

In this episode, we'll take a step back and reflect before we reset. You'll be guided through gentle self-reflection questions to help you understand what's working in your life, what's draining your energy, and what truly matters most to you this year. Because creating your best year starts with clarity. Let's make this the year that feels good, inside and out.

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To go with this episode, I've created a free Design Your Best Year Yet Reflection Guide - a gentle companion to help you pause, reflect, and set intentions with clarity. Click HERE to download your free guide and begin shaping a year that feels balanced, meaningful, and aligned with the woman you're becoming.

Check out Episode 435 - Lessons learned in 2024 and how to apply them in 2025.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

This week, I'm inviting you to step out of the chaos, away from the never-ending to-do lists, court dates, and laundry piles, and to tune into that deeper part of yourself, the part that dares to want more, even after divorce or loss. In this epsiode, I talk about how to start dreaming again when survival mode has taken over, and why you're worthy of building a vision for the life you truly want.

If you've ever felt that dreaming is impossible after a major change, this episode will offer support, hope, guidance, and a reminder: your future can be so much bigger and better than your past.

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Ready to start dreaming again? Download your free guide HERE. This gentle resource is created to help you rediscover what's possible and start building a vision for brighter days ahead. Give yourself permission to want more, because you deserve it.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

As we welcome 2026, I want to take a moment to share from the heart what I truly wish for you this year. This isn't about setting resolutions, making lists, or creating strategies, it's simply about the hope I carry for you in the months ahead. This year doesn't need to be perfect. May you give yourself permission to make it your own, to choose yourself, and to step into the new year with gentleness and self-kindness. Here's to a year that's about you - because you deserve it!!

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

As this year comes to a close, I've been reflecting on the lessons it's brought me, and honestly, it's been a big one. A year of growth, surrender, unexpected changes, and a lot of learning. In today's episode, I'm sharing the top ten things this year has taught me - not because I've mastered them, but because there's something powerful in pausing, looking back, and acknowledging how far we've come.

These reflections aren't about perfection or ticking boxes; they're about self-awareness, compassion, and recognising the woman you've become through every challenge and every small win. And I'd love for you to do this exercise too. You might be surprised by how much strength, resilience, and quiet transformation this year has held for you.

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Check out Episode 435 - Lessons learned in 2024 and how to apply them in 2025

To go with this episode, I've created a free Year-End Reflection Guide to help you unpack your own lessons from the past year. It's filled with gentle prompts, journaling questions, and space to explore what you're proud of, what you're releasing, and what you want to carry into the new year.

Download your free guide HERE and take a moment to honour your own journey:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Christmas can look and feel so different for each of us. You might be waking up to squeals of excitement and wrapping paper everywhere, or you might be on your own, missing your children, holding back tears (or letting them flow). You might be somewhere in between. However this season finds you, I just want you to know that you are not alone. In this short episode, I share a gentle Christmas pep talk. This is your reminder that you are seen, you are supported, and you're doing an incredibe job.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

The holidays can feel complicated when Christmas is split between two homes. Whether it's your first year sharing custody or your fifth, it's normal for big emotions, tricky logistics, and even guilt to creep in. You might feel torn when you can't be with your children on certain days, and they might feel the same pull between two households. In this episode, I remind you that your best is enough, and share six practical strategies to help your children not just survive, but thrive, through a two-household Christmas.

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I've created a free resource guide to accompany this episode, filled with strategies to help you feel more grounded and confident during the festive season. Inside, you'll find gentle reminders, practical tips, and ways to make Christmas a meaningful time for your children, even when it's shared between two homes. Click HERE to get your free copy today.

Resources shared in the episode:

• Episode 327 - Developing new holiday traditions
• Episode 242 - Three common co-parenting styles
• Episode 353 - Four common co-parenting issues and effective strategies to set you up for success!
• Episode 356 - Ten practical tools for setting boundaries with your ex to nurture a healthy co-parenting relationship
• Episode 373 - How to handle co-parenting with a narcissistic ex
• Episode 375 - Five co-parenting challenges to work on for your child's well-being
• Episode 462 - The top 5 things co-parents argue about and how to manage them
• Episode 467 - Seeking professional help when dealing with a high-conflict ex
• Episode 484 - When Christmas Doesn't Feel Merry - Grief, Loss & Letting Go
• Blog Post: Ten strategies for single mums to navigate Christmas season sadness

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

If Christmas feels heavy this year, this episode is for you. Whether you're grieving a breakup, navigating your first holiday without your kids, mourning a loved one, processing a miscarriage, or simply feeling an ache you can't explain, know that you're not alone. The festive season can magnify both joy and pain, and it's okay if yours feels more tender than merry. I share my own experiences with loss and the reminder that grief and celebration can exist side by side—you can laugh with your children and cry in private, decorate the tree and miss the person who used to be there. This is your space to breathe, feel, and remember that however you show up this season, you're doing enough.

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I've created a free resource guide to help you navigate the holiday season when your heart feels heavy. It's filled with gentle strategies, reminders, and tools to help you care for yourself, even in the midst of grief or overwhelm. Click HERE to download it now and give yourself the gift of compassion this Christmas.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

The holiday season is often seen as a time of warmth and togetherness, but for many single mums, family gatherings can feel overwhelming. From navigating tense dynamics to addressing old conflicts, these moments can bring up anxiety or discomfort. In this episode, we'll share practical tips to help you approach holiday gatherings with grace, confidence, and strategies that prioritise your well-being and your children's happiness. Let's turn family time into an opportunity for connection, not stress.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Feeling anxious about upcoming holiday gatherings? Click HERE to download our free resource guide for practical tips on navigating tricky family dynamics with confidence and ease.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

The holiday season is a time for giving, but it's easy to get swept up in the hustle and lose sight of its deeper meaning. In this episode, we explore how single mums can foster gratitude and generosity in their children while creating cherished holiday memories. From charity work to community service, learn practical ways to encourage giving back and instilling important values in your family. Let's dive into how to make this season truly meaningful for you and your children.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Click HERE to download our free resource guide, filled with tips and ideas to inspire gratitude and giving in your household this festive season. Start spreading the holiday cheer today!

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.