Single Mother Survival Guide

This week, I'm sharing Part 1 of my powerful interview with Annie, a single mum who courageously opens up about her journey. Annie has faced more than her fair share of challenges. Today, she stands as a thriving, empowered woman who has reclaimed her voice and her personal power.

In this episode, Annie and I talk about:

• How she met her ex

• Navigating difficult times together

• Coping with his alcoholism

• Discovering he was gay and the grief that followed

• Living with the uncertainty around his sexuality

• His lack of support for their children

• Facing the ongoing impact of emotional and financial abuse

It's a story of strength, survival, and finding yourself again after deep hurt. Stay tuned for Part 2 of Annie's journey, coming next week.

**Please note this episode and topic may act as a trigger for some people, and this episode is unsuitable to listen to within earshot of children.**

Links mentioned in the episode:

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

For many single mums, Father's Day can feel less like a celebration and more like an emotional hurdle. It can bring up feelings of sadness, frustration, or even resentment (whether your children's dad is still in their lives or completely absent). In this episode, I share gentle, practical ways to navigate the day: supporting your children's emotions, caring for your own wellbeing, and finding an approach that works for your unique family situation. This is about allowing yourself to feel what you feel, while showing up in a way that feels aligned for you and your kids.

Links mentioned in the episode:

I've created a free resource guide to help single mums navigate Father's Day with confidence and compassion. It's filled with practical tips, thoughtful prompts, and ideas for making the day easier for both you and your children. Click HERE to download your copy and feel more prepared this year.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

This week, my podcast turns 9 years old – can you believe it?! When I started Single Mother Survival Guide, I hoped it might reach one or two single mums and help them feel less alone. Now, nearly a million downloads later, I'm pinching myself. This episode is extra special because it's also my first time recording in 2025, after taking some time off to welcome my beautiful baby boy, Sebastian, in February (on my birhday).

In this episode, I share big life updates – from moving back to Sydney and celebrating Christmas, to my baby shower, a trip to Tasmania, catching COVID, Sebastian's birth, the baby blues, and checking in on my mental health. I talk about parenting this time with a partner (and proving to myself I could still do it alone if I had to), relationship curveballs, postnatal anxiety, matrescence, and joining an anxiety group. I also reflect on moments that brought back single mum memories, co-parenting challenges, supporting my daughter through a big year of change, and the lessons I'm still learning.

It's a mix of celebration, honesty, and heartfelt gratitude – and I'd love for you to join me in this conversation. Press play, celebrate with me, and let's keep walking this journey together.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Check out Tresillian, Australia's largest not-for-profit early parenting service offering families guidance in the early years of their child's life.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

As single mums, life often feels like a balancing act. On one hand, you're the loving, nurturing parent your children need. On the other, you might feel pressure to become the "fun parent" they want. Throw co-parenting into the mix - especially with an ex who takes on the role of the Disneyland Dad, prioritising fun over routine - and that balance can feel impossible to maintain. But here's the truth: being the fun parent isn't all it's made out to be. In this episode, we dive into why competing to be the "fun parent" isn't the answer, how the role of a Disneyland Dad impacts co-parenting, and why providing stability is the ultimate gift you can give your children.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Click HERE to get our free resource guide for practical tips on maintaining balance and providing stability for your children. Let's help you focus on what truly matters: building a secure and loving environment for your kids.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Navigating life as a single mum can feel overwhelming, especially when dealing with the added complexities of a high-conflict relationship. Whether it's managing co-parenting with a difficult ex or processing the emotional toll of separation, it's easy to feel stuck. In this episode, we explore how therapy and coaching can empower single mums to reclaim control, build resilience, and create a more peaceful environment for themselves and their children. If you're curious about whether professional guidance could help you, this episode breaks down the transformative benefits it can offer.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Feeling stuck in a high-conflict co-parenting relationship? Click HERE to download our free resource guide to discover how therapy and coaching can help you regain control, build resilience, and create a more peaceful life for you and your children.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In a world dominated by social media and its endless stream of "perfect" parenting snapshots, the pressure on single mums to meet impossible standards can be overwhelming. Juggling work, parenting, and emotional well-being often leaves little room for anything else - and that's okay. This episode breaks down why the idea of the "perfect mum" is a myth and explores how letting go of perfectionism can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling life. Tune in for practical advice on embracing your imperfections and focusing on what truly matters: showing up for your kids and yourself with love and intention.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Feeling weighed down by the myth of perfection? Click HERE to download our free resource guide to help you release unrealistic expectations and embrace a more balanced, authentic approach to single motherhood.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Divorce and separation can leave us grappling with overwhelming emotions - hurt, betrayal, and anger being just a few. In these difficult moments, blame might feel like a natural reaction, providing a sense of clarity or closure. However, staying stuck in a cycle of blame - whether directed at your ex, circumstances, or even yourself - can act as a barrier to your healing. This episode dives deep into why blame keeps you from moving forward, how to release it, and how to replace it with a mindset focused on growth and resilience. Tune in for practical tips on embracing personal responsibility and thriving in your new chapter.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Ready to break free from the cycle of blame and move forward with purpose? Click HERE to download our free resource guide for actionable steps to let go of resentment and build a mindset focused on growth and healing.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Co-parenting can feel like an uphill battle, especially when communication with your ex is consistently tense or unproductive. Enter parallel parenting - a strategy designed to protect your peace, prioritise your children, and reduce direct conflict with the other parent. In this episode, we explore the core principles of parallel parenting, how it differs from traditional co-parenting, and practical steps to implement this method successfully. If you've ever felt overwhelmed trying to co-parent, this episode is for you.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Learn more about parallel parenting - what it is, how to implement it, and the benefits. Click HERE to download your guide and take the first step toward a more peaceful co-parenting experience.

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

The middle of the year can feel overwhelming. The initial excitement of new goals has faded, and the reality of juggling work, parenting, and healing from divorce feels heavier. You may even find yourself questioning how you'll get through the rest of the year. But here's the truth: a mid-year slump is the perfect moment for reflection and recalibration. In this episode, I share actionable steps to pause, reassess, and recharge your energy, ensuring you approach the second half of the year with clarity and strength.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Don't let the mid-year slump hold you back - click HERE to grab the free resource guide accompanying this episode! Take that first empowering step toward a stronger, clearer path forward.

Check out the following episodes mentioned in the podcast:

• Episode 307 - Asking for help
• Episode 462 - The top 5 things co-parents argue about and how to manage them

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Co-parenting can be both rewarding and challenging, especially after separation or divorce. While the shared goal is to provide a stable, loving environment for your children, differences in parenting styles, schedules, or communication can lead to conflict. In this episode, I delve into the five most common areas where co-parents often disagree and provide practical tools to manage these issues effectively. By the end, you'll feel more empowered to approach co-parenting with clarity, confidence, and a renewed focus on what's best for your children.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Ready to take control of co-parenting challenges? Click HERE to download your free resource guide that complements this episode. It's packed with practical strategies to help you manage conflicts and foster a healthier co-parenting dynamic.

Read the blog post - Making parallel parenting work for your family

Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE

Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.

Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.

Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.

Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE.

To contact Julia, email: [email protected].

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too.

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.