How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

Snore No More: Saving Your Marriage by Saving Your Sleep with Hostage Tape’s Alex Neist


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How Snoring Can Lead to Divorce
In this episode of How to Split a Toaster, hosts Seth Nelson and Pete Wright explore the connections between poor sleep, snoring, and divorce. Their guest is Alex Neist, creator of Hostage Tape, which produces anti-snoring mouth tape. Alex shares how his snoring led to his divorce. The hosts dive into the impacts of sleep problems on relationships and solutions anyone can try.


Snoring as a Divorce Factor
Studies show links between sleep issues and divorce. Alex's snoring made his wife resentful, led to them sleeping in separate rooms, and is seen as a contributing factor in their divorce. Snoring often goes unaddressed, allowing resentment to build over time. Snoring arises from mouth-breathing during sleep. Alex discovered taping his mouth shut improved his sleep and energy. He launched Hostage Tape to inspire people to get better rest.


Sleep & Relationship Health
"Sleep divorce" – sleeping apart due to issues like snoring – is a growing trend. Even if not the direct cause, sleep problems create friction and emotional distance between partners. Alex believes resolving snoring can be a contributing factor in saving marriages.


Listener Question
Seth and Pete also tackle a listener question! Seth answers a question about disclosing cash income from dog breeding in divorce asset division. Cash must be documented like other business income when dividing marital assets.

Tune in for a fascinating episode!


Links & Notes

  • Visit Hostage Tape’s Website or follow it on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTube
  • CBS News’ Story on Sleep Divorce
  • #SleepDivorce on TikTok
  • Sleep Studies
  • The Gottman Institute’s “Magic Relationship Ratio”
  • Check Out James Nestor’s Book “The New Science of a Lost Art”
  • Schedule a consult with Seth
  • Got a question you want to ask on the show? Click here!
  • (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
  • (01:19) - Meet Alex Neist from Hostage Tape
  • (01:57) - The Concept of Sleep Divorce
  • (04:58) - Different Sleep Patterns
  • (06:35) - Developing Friction
  • (07:38) - Alex's Own Divorce
  • (10:17) - Separate Bedrooms
  • (10:58) - The Snore
  • (14:17) - The Germ of an Idea
  • (23:07) - First Time
  • (25:18) - Nose Strip
  • (26:39) - Women Snore Too
  • (27:12) - Improves Your Life All Around
  • (27:44) - The Resolution of Alex's Divorce
  • (30:21) - Resolving Marriage Issues
  • (31:22) - Loose Stats
  • (33:36) - Finding Hostage Tape
  • (37:09) - Listener Question
  • (40:16) - Wrap Up

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