By Sebastiaan van der Schrier
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In this episode… I’ll reveal 3 clear ways you can tell your social anxiety is improving—so you can track your progress and stay motivated on your journey to social confidence. Here’s what we’ll cover:
Progress is built on these small but meaningful steps. When you focus on these wins—reducing triggers, lowering intensity, or shortening duration—you’ll see how far you’ve come on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Resources to support your journey:
● Get my FREE mini-course, 7 Secrets to Social Confidence
● Check out my YouTube channel for powerful testimonials
Tune in to learn how to recognize your own progress and take actionable steps to overcome social anxiety! ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!
● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel
● X
● TikTok
All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb
In this episode… I share the first of 12 reasons why people often struggle to overcome social anxiety: Unrealistic Expectations. Discover why social anxiety isn’t an overnight fix and how understanding this can help you break free and build lasting social confidence. KEY POINTS COVERED: 👉 Social anxiety is complex and often tied to your identity, impacting friendships, relationships, and life quality. 👉 True progress takes time, effort, and small, consistent steps. 👉 With the right support and persistence, you can feel less anxious, more at ease, and move toward social confidence. Have you been expecting a quick fix? Share in the comments! Remember, overcoming social anxiety is a journey, not a sprint. Each small step brings you closer to lasting confidence. Stay tuned next week for the next reason people stay stuck!
______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!
● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel
● X
● TikTok
All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪🙌 Warm regards,Seb
In this episode… I’ll share powerful insights and techniques to help you shift from self-criticism to social ease. Drawing from personal experience with social anxiety and over a decade of coaching others, I’ll explain how EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) works to release emotional tension and reframe limiting beliefs. In This Episode, You’ll Discover:
✨ My journey from intense social anxiety to confidence✨ Why certain beliefs create fear in social settings✨ How EFT tapping works to reduce anxiety and improve self-acceptance✨ Practical steps for lasting relief from social anxiety ✨ Upcoming release of a new tapping video and live demonstration with a social anxiety sufferer on my YouTube channel. Stay tuned for more info!This episode provides a compassionate, effective approach to overcoming social anxiety. Start today to move toward feeling calm, confident, and at ease in social situations. 💬 If you feel comfortable sharing, let me know how this episode resonated with you or if there’s anything specific you’d like support with. 🩷 Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: 🔗 Free Mini Course: 7 Secrets to Social Confidence 🔗 Research Link 1 - Clinical EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Improves Multiple Physiological Markers of Health🔗 Research Link 2 - Clinical EFT as an evidence-based practice for the treatment of psychological and physiological conditions: A systematic review 🔗 Video testimonials: Full list here ✨ I enjoy being in groups for the first time ✨ He stopped suffering from social anxiety in 3 weeks ✨ FREE of Social Anxiety ✨I suffered since my teens. I’m 60. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!
● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel
● X
● TikTok
All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪🙌 Warm regards,Seb
In this episode… I’ll walk you through a gentle EFT tapping session to help reduce anticipatory anxiety. By following along, you’ll learn how to calm your emotions and prepare for social interactions with greater confidence. In This Episode, You’ll Discover: ✅ What EFT Tapping Is – A simple, powerful technique for emotional release✅ Guided Tapping Exercise – Tap along with me to ease pre-social event anxiety✅ Why Anxiety Appears – Understand the deeper roots of social anxiety and how tapping helps address them✅ Practical Tips – How using EFT ahead of social situations can help you feel naturally calm over time Link to studies as mentioned in the video:
Links to recommended YouTube testimonials:
If you find this helpful, practice regularly to gradually shift your response to social events. With time, EFT tapping combined with psychological insights can help you overcome social anxiety for good. 💬 Feel free to share your experience—how did this tapping session help you? ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?She massively reduces her social anxiety in 7 months! You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) If you’re ready to explore more, go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!
● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel
● X
● TikTok
All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪🙌 Warm regards,Seb
In this episode…
I’ll walk you through releasing self-judgment and easing the emotional tension that often shows up after social situations. Follow along as we tap on acupressure points to help you let go of self-criticism and make space for self-acceptance.
What You’ll Experience in This Episode:
✅ Guided EFT Tapping – Reduce self-criticism and feel emotionally lighter
✅ Process Emotions Gently – Shift from anxious thoughts to self-compassion
✅ Practice Anytime – Use this session after social situations that leave you feeling stuck
This session is just a taste of how EFT tapping can transform the way you handle post-social anxiety. With time and practice, you can start feeling more at ease in social settings—and let go of those lingering judgments.
💬 Share Your Experience: What shifted for you during this session? Let me know how it worked and what insights came up. I’d love to hear from you! 📺 Watch inspiring transformations from people who’ve overcome their social anxiety in our YouTube Channel here.
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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!
• SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel • Facebook • Instagram• X • TikTok
All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb
In this episode... I guide you through a step-by-step EFT tapping session to help you calm down in the moment and reduce the intensity of your social anxiety. 🌿 What You’ll Experience in This Episode:
A simple, guided EFT tapping session to release anxiety
How EFT works to calm emotional triggers
Practical tools to reduce the frequency and intensity of anxiety over time
This session is designed to give you immediate relief and introduce you to EFT tapping, a scientifically-backed method that combines acupressure and mindfulness.
✅ Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is an evidence-based self-help therapeutic method and over 100 studies demonstrate its efficacy. Read more here. ⚠️ NOTE: This is a generalized tapping session, so if you don’t experience relief immediately, that’s okay—deeper emotional blocks might need to be addressed first. Keep practicing, and you’ll begin to see progress!
⚠️ NOTE: This is a generalized tapping session, so if you don’t experience relief immediately, that’s okay—deeper emotional blocks might need to be addressed first. Keep practicing, and you’ll begin to see progress! Let’s hear from you. 🌟 What shifted for you during this session? Whether you felt calmer, lighter, or simply curious—your experience matters. Leave a comment, ask a question, or share your progress with me. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel • Facebook • Instagram • X
• TikTok
All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb
In this episode... I’m back with exciting, more powerful solutions to help you overcome social anxiety faster and with less stress! Here’s what you can expect:
● Weekly Videos: Starting every Thursday, with some episodes featuring animations to simplify key concepts for easier learning.
● Expert Interviews: Conversations with therapists, coaches, healers, and EFT masters, all focused on delivering effective solutions for social anxiety.
● Free Live EFT Tapping Session: Join me on Saturday, November 30th for a live YouTube session that will walk you through powerful tapping techniques.
● Fast Social Anxiety Relief: A new product designed for quick results – stay tuned!
● Social Confidence Club 6.0: Our most comprehensive program yet, guiding you from social anxiety to effortless social ease in 5 stages.
💡 These resources are designed to help you overcome social anxiety in a faster, more gentle way, and they’re just around the corner! Listen, Learn, and HealIf you find this episode helpful, please leave a review and share it with someone who could benefit from these insights. Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes to guide you on your journey toward social confidence. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb
In this episode... I break down the four worst pieces of advice I've come across regarding social anxiety—and why they can actually make things worse. I’ll explain why these approaches fall short and often lead to more anxiety in the long run. I also share my proven 5-step method to help you overcome social anxiety for good. What You’ll Learn: 1. Why "Fake it till you make it" leads to inauthenticity and worsens anxiety. 2. The problem with the "stop caring what people think" mentality. 3. How “avoiding everything” shrinks your life and makes anxiety stronger. 4. Why "just face your fears" isn't the solution you think it is. 5. A 5-step method to truly overcome social anxiety. Ready to start your journey to social confidence? Get my free course, "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" here. Check out these real-life social anxiety success stories here 👇👇👇 ✅ She Solved Lifelong Social Anxiety with a NEW Approach! ✅ She massively reduces her social anxiety in 7 months!
______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcastand receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb
In this episode... Have you ever wondered if you can be completely free of social anxiety? In this episode, I reveal what life after social anxiety really looks like and share my personal journey toward becoming social anxiety-free. I also discuss:
I also dive into what it truly means to be “social anxiety-free,” breaking down the common perfectionistic thinking trap that many fall into. Listen to the full episode to gain a deeper understanding. For more inspiration, explore success stories of people who have overcome social anxiety here. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcastand receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb
In this episode... In this inspiring interview, Seb talks with Mary Henderson, a former client who conquered lifelong social anxiety using a new approach. Hear how Mary went from crippling anxiety to confidently speaking on stage and enjoying social interactions. Key Points: • Mary's struggle with social anxiety and her turning point. • Why traditional self-help books didn't work for her. • Effective techniques like EFT tapping that changed her life. • How she started an Airbnb & event business and now loves hosting. • Insights on reframing social anxiety to empower growth. Quotes: • “Before I worked with Seb, I couldn't even go out to coffee with my best friend without feeling nervous for days.” • “I went from being completely terrified to even saying my name in a group setting to speaking in front of dozens of people confidently.” Watch the full interview to learn: • How to overcome social anxiety. • Practical steps for personal growth. • Real-life success stories and techniques. Resources: • [Free Mini Course] The 7 Secrets To Social Confidence: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow • VIP Coaching program: https://bit.ly/socialanxietycoach
PS: Seb rarely offers one-on-one coaching outside the Social Confidence Club, but there are currently two 6-month intensive coaching spots available. Details here: https://bit.ly/socialanxietycoach ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcastand receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb
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