Are you saying yes when you want to say no? Struggling with people-pleasing and feeling unsafe in social situations? You are not alone. Weak boundaries keep social anxiety in place. In this episode...

I talk with Dr. David Lake, medical practitioner and psychotherapist, about building inner security, setting clear boundaries, and using tapping to calm fear, anxiety, and old emotional hurt. We cover what healthy boundaries look like in real life, how to say no without guilt, and simple ways to use EFT in everyday situations. You will also hear when one-to-one therapy adds power and how to start strengthening your limits today.

What you’ll discover: 🔹 Why clear boundaries reduce social anxiety 🔹 How emotional strength makes social situations feel safer 🔹 Practical ways to use EFT to handle fear and old hurt 🔹 When to seek face to face support and why it helps 🔹 First steps to set limits without guilt

💡 Quote from Dr. Lake: “It is life-changing. The results are very compelling.”

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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Feeling stuck or demotivated?

In this episode...

I share a simple way to make real progress with social anxiety. We keep it small and doable with short daily tapping sessions (start with 15 minutes a day) that build momentum. I show what to do when you do not feel like tapping: tap on the resistance first. You will hear practical examples you can try today, like loosening old beliefs, easing the emotion on tough memories, and testing old triggers again when you feel ready. No pressure. No perfection. Just steady steps toward feeling more at ease being yourself. Take one step today.

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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😰 Still anxious after CBT, exposure, or affirmations? You are not broken. You may be missing a few little-known social anxiety hacks that calm the nervous system and remove inner blocks. In this episode...

I talk with Greg Carpenter, licensed marriage and family therapist and intention tapping trainer. We dig into intention tapping, how it pairs with EFT tapping, and how sound therapy and neurotech can help you regulate quickly and gently.

You will learn:

• What intention tapping is, and how it differs from EFT

• Simple statements that release emotional attachments and reduce resistance

• How to combine EFT and intention tapping for faster shifts

• Sound therapy basics, drum circles, singing bowls, flutes, and a short guided journey

• Nervous system tools that help in real life, including Apollo wearable, AVE goggles like DAVID Delight, and PEMF headbands like Neorhythm

Resources:

• Intention Tapping training: intentiontapping.com

• Greg’s music and sound baths: gregcarpenter.bandcamp.com

• Greg’s YouTube: youtube.com/@GregCarpenter

• Greg’s blog: gcarpenter.net

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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Are you stuck in self-doubt, always worrying you’re not good enough? You’re not alone. Low self-respect is one of the hidden drivers of social anxiety. In this episode...

EFT Master Andy Bryce explains how painful past experiences shape your self-image and what it really takes to build lasting self-respect. You’ll learn how to stop people-pleasing, release shame, and finally create the kind of self-respect that makes social situations feel safe and natural.

What you’ll discover: 🔹 Why self-respect matters more than self-esteem 🔹 How childhood memories fuel self-doubt today 🔹 The trap of confusing confidence with arrogance 🔹 Practical steps to build self-respect that lasts

💡 Quote from Andy: “No one can love you more than you love yourself. And no one can respect you more than you respect yourself.”

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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In this episode...

Do you constantly worry about being rejected? Feel anxious when people ignore you, disapprove, or don’t respond the way you hoped?

I guide you through a powerful EFT tapping session to reduce your fear of rejection fast. You’ll learn how this fear gets wired into your system, how it stems from painful past experiences, and why it keeps showing up even when you logically know you’re safe.

I also show you how tapping on the right targets can bring emotional relief in minutes and help you feel more calm, safe, and grounded in social situations.

You don’t need to push through your fear. There is a better way, and it starts here.

🎁 Free Mini Course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence 👉 https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast

Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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In this episode...

Are you afraid of what other people think of you? Worried they’ll judge you negatively?

You’re not alone. In this episode, I share my personal journey with the fear of judgment and how it shaped my social anxiety for years. You’ll hear how constantly seeking approval and avoiding disapproval becomes a rigid pattern, and why that pattern becomes your prison.

I also explain where this fear really comes from, how it’s often rooted in early emotional wounds, and the deeper reason it feels so hard to be your authentic self in social situations.

Then, I walk you through the ultimate solution and what real freedom looks like when you no longer fear their judgment.

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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In this episode... Tried EFT tapping and didn’t get results? You might think you’re a “tough case” or that nothing works for you, but there’s usually a deeper reason why tapping seems to fall flat. I talk with EFT Master and psychotherapist Carol Look about what really causes tapping to “fail” and how to turn it into lasting change. We explore the hidden upsides of staying stuck, the downsides your subconscious sees in getting better, and the role of subconscious resistance in blocking progress. You’ll discover: ✅ Why your brain might not feel safe letting go of your problem ✅ How to identify the real root behind procrastination, anxiety, or self-sabotage ✅ Simple tapping sequences to address resistance and unlock breakthroughs ✅ Why persistence, not perfection, is the secret to lasting transformation Whether you’ve tried tapping before or you’re brand new to it, this conversation will help you make it work for YOU, even if you’ve been stuck for years. 🎁 Get my free mini course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence → https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast

Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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In this episode... 😣 You’ve tried therapy, affirmations, exposure, and still feel stuck with social anxiety. What if the real problem isn’t you, but something hidden running in the background? I speak with Lindsay Kenny, one of the 29 EFT Founding Masters and a pioneer in emotional healing. She introduces the concept of subconscious resistance, a quiet but powerful block that prevents lasting change, even when you're doing all the right things. You’ll hear stories of transformation, discover how this hidden resistance works, and learn a simple tapping routine to start letting it go. 🎧 You’ll learn: 🔹 What subconscious resistance is and how it fuels social anxiety 🔹 Why your brain sees socializing as dangerous, and how to shift that response 🔹 How EFT tapping helps calm your nervous system and build emotional safety 🔹 A guided tapping exercise to reduce inner resistance 🔹 Why forcing yourself to face your fears often backfires, and what works better instead 🧠 “If you haven’t been able to overcome your problem, you have a subconscious resistance to change.” Lindsay Kenny 🎁 Want to feel calmer and more confident in social situations? Get my free “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” mini course: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast

Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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In this episode... Why does blushing feel so humiliating? It’s not just the redness. It’s what you believe that redness means about you. I share a powerful insight from a live coaching session inside my Social Confidence Club. You’ll discover: • Why blushing is often linked to deeper emotional wounds • How self-judgment and non-acceptance make it worse • How to break the shame cycle and feel more at ease • What to focus on first if you want real relief (and it’s not “stopping the blush”) If you’ve ever blushed and then felt ashamed, judged, or humiliated, especially in front of family, coworkers, or groups, this episode is for you. 🎁 Want to take the next step? Get my free mini course, The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence: 👉 https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast

Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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In this episode... Think your boss, that confident guy, or a certain social group is what triggers your anxiety? Think again. Seb shares a powerful shift that helped him stop blushing, feel confident around others, and finally feel safe in social situations. It’s not people that are the problem. It’s how you perceive them. And once you change your inner perception, your entire experience changes, fast. • Why others don’t actually make you anxious • How to uncover your hidden threat perception • How EFT tapping rewires your nervous system and creates real emotional freedom 🎁 Want to start shifting your perception and releasing anxiety? Download the free mini course: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast

 

Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect!

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All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb