In this deeply intimate conversation, I sit down with Libby and Andy Drish, a couple who have mastered the delicate balance between devotion and freedom in their 15-year relationship. Starting young and admittedly anti-relationship, they've navigated through volatile beginnings to discover a level of harmony most couples never experience. What sets their journey apart is their extraordinary commitment to relationship mastery—they've dedicated years to studying with the world's most advanced relationship teachers, experimenting with cutting-edge frameworks, and developing their own maps for love's terrain. Their journey reveals how relationships evolve through distinct stages and how the thread of devotion can sustain you through the darkest moments when nothing else is working. Unlike most couples who rely on conventional wisdom, Andy and Libby have approached their relationship like relationship astronauts—venturing into uncharted territories, testing boundaries, and bringing back wisdom that few have access to.

What You'll Learn:

• The three stages of relationship evolution: codependence, independence, and interdependence
• How to navigate "death portals" in your relationship where old dynamics must die for new ones to emerge
• The Infinite Theory of Love - a powerful map for balancing freedom and safety
• Why devotion feels like death in the darkest times but becomes the most exquisite experience in the lightest times
• How to shift from exhausting stage two "processing" to the harmony and polarity of stage three
• The difference between conditional romantic love and unconditional love
• Why vulnerability and emotional expression are more effective than verbal negotiation
• The immense power of their weekly "ritual" practice and how it can transform your relationship

If you've ever felt lost in your relationship, questioning whether the struggles are worth it, or longing for a deeper connection that seems just out of reach, this episode offers a rare glimpse into what's possible. Andy and Libby share battle-tested wisdom from their 15-year experiment, revealing maps and frameworks they wish they'd had during their hardest moments. Their journey proves that with devotion as your North Star, you can create a relationship that continually evolves into something you wouldn't have believed possible.

Tools/resources mentioned here:

The Three Stages of Relationship- Inspired by David Deida

Connect with Libby and Andy:

Website: https://www.theartoflove.com/

Connect with Raj:

Instagram: @raj_jana

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22Hrw6VWfnUSI45lw8LJBP

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_jana

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This episode explores how to view your work, business, and creative projects through the lens of energy rather than conventional metrics. As I've grown in my spiritual journey, I've started to see everything as energy flows – when something isn't working between team members, I see stuck energy; when sales aren't flowing, there's likely a kink in the chain. In this conversation with Alex, we dive into how companies have souls born from the seed of an idea, how your consciousness gets embedded into every aspect of the business, and why aligning with "what wants to happen" rather than "what I want" can lead to quantum leaps in success.

What You'll Learn:

• How to connect with the soul of your company or creative project
• Why your level of consciousness directly affects the flow of energy in your business
• The profound difference between "what I want" versus "what wants to happen"
• How to identify where energy is stuck in your organization and how to release it
• The concept of "return on energy" as a more meaningful measure than return on investment
• How to become an "energy billionaire" rather than just pursuing financial success
• Practical ways to access intuitive leadership for better decision-making
• How creating safety is the fundamental role of conscious leadership

If you're experiencing friction in your work, team dynamics, or sensing that your business isn't flowing as effortlessly as it could, this episode offers a completely different perspective on your challenges. I'm not sharing concepts from business books (there aren't any on this topic!) – this is what's actually working for me. When you realize you're not the owner of your creations but rather a conduit for what wants to flow through you, everything changes. You'll make decisions from greater alignment, attract unexpected opportunities, and experience the kind of expansion that happens when you get out of your own way.

Connect with Raj:

Newsletter – Sign up here: https://www.rajjana.com/staygrounded/

Website: http://www.rajjana.com/

Instagram: @raj_jana

iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/rs/podcast/stay-grounded-with-raj-jana/id1318038490

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22Hrw6VWfnUSI45lw8LJBP

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_jana

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In this very special episode of Stay Grounded, Raj sits with the incredible Dr. Jack Saul. As the founding director of the International Trauma Studies Program, Jack has dedicated his life to enhancing the natural resilience and coping capacities of individuals, families, and communities that have endured or are threatened by traumatic events.

Jack's impressive background includes faculty positions at the New York University School of Medicine's Department of Psychiatry, the New School for Social Research Clinical Psychology Program, and the Columbia University Mailman School of Public Health. As a psychologist and family therapist, he has created numerous clinical and community-based programs in NYC and abroad for populations that have endured disaster, war, torture, and political violence.

Dr. Jack truly is one of the pioneering voices in empowering individuals to help each other heal in community settings.

What You'll Learn;

• How collective resilience can be accessed through community connection and shared experiences
• Why creativity and artistic expression are powerful antidotes to trauma
• The balance between personal modulation and community support in healing
• How to integrate arts and different therapeutic approaches to restore harmony in communities
• The importance of risk-taking in building trust and overcoming trauma's constricting effects
• Why safety and belonging are fundamental to our nervous system's regulation
• The powerful role of rituals, synchronization activities, and cultural practices in rebuilding community bonds
• How diverse perspectives and skills contribute to greater collective resilience
• Why feeling seen and accepted by others has such profound healing effects
• The limitations of individual approaches to trauma healing and the untapped potential of collective methods

This conversation offers practical insights into how you can lean into your communities, families, and social environments to create more liberation for yourself and others. As social creatures wired for belonging, we find our greatest medicine in connection with each other. When we reclaim this fundamental truth, we unlock profound possibilities for healing & transformation.

Tools/resources mentioned in this episode:

• Multifamily Psychoeducational Groups
• Family Systems Approach
• Parts Work

Connect with Dr Jack:

Website: https://internationaltraumastudies.org/ and https://www.jacksaul.org/

Book:https://www.jacksaul.org/new-page-3

Connect with Raj:

Instagram: @raj_jana

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22Hrw6VWfnUSI45lw8LJBP

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_jana

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Burnout isn't just prevalent in today's culture—it's practically glorified. We've been conditioned to believe that pushing harder, running faster, and sacrificing more is the only path to success. But I've discovered there's a fundamental flaw in this approach: when we're fueled by fear, anxiety, or scarcity, we're drawing from a finite energy source that inevitably depletes us.

Over the years, I've experienced a profound shift in my relationship with work. Despite working more hours than ever before in my entrepreneurial ventures, I feel less burnout and more alignment than at any previous point in my career. The secret? I've learned to source my energy from love rather than fear.

When we operate from unconscious patterns and limiting beliefs inherited from culture, family, or religion, we're constantly fighting against ourselves. This creates tension in our system and eventually leads to exhaustion. But when we can align with a more authentic way of being that's in congruence with love, we tap into an infinite energy source that fuels creativity, connection, and inspiration.

In this episode, Alex and I dive deep into what it takes to make this pivotal shift from being pushed by fear to being pulled by love.

What you'll learn:

• The fundamental difference between being pushed by fear versus being pulled by love
• How to identify when you're operating from unconscious patterns and fear-based belief systems
• Practical techniques to shift your perspective when facing challenging tasks
• Why traditional "hustle culture" leads to burnout and how to work intensely without depleting yourself
• The role of surrender in accessing deeper sources of energy and inspiration
• How to develop courage as a key ingredient for authentic living
• Techniques for raising your standards by lowering your tolerance for what doesn't serve you
• Why understanding your unique design and natural rhythms is crucial for sustainable success
• The transformative power of gratitude in shifting from resentment to appreciation

If you're tired of feeling exhausted, if you're questioning whether the hustle is worth it, or if you're simply seeking a more sustainable way to pursue your passions—this episode is for you.

I've walked the path from burnout to alignment, and I know firsthand that it's possible to do meaningful, impactful work without sacrificing your wellbeing. The frameworks and tools shared in this conversation aren't just theoretical—they're the exact practices that have transformed my relationship with work and allowed me to access a deeper, more sustainable source of energy.

Your life is in direct proportion to what you tolerate. If you want a better life, just tolerate less. By choosing to source your energy from love rather than fear, you can break free from the burnout cycle and discover what it truly means to work in flow.

Join Alex and I as we explore how courage, surrender, and self-understanding can help you tap into an infinite source of inspiration that makes even challenging work feel energizing rather than draining.

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* This episode was originally filmed the week after the October 7 attack in Israel. *

Last week on October 7th, there was a grueling terrorist attack on innocent Jewish people. Since then, there have been heartbreaking levels of carnage happening to innocent Palestinian people.

My heart breaks for humanity. This podcast is not about choosing a side. So much innocent bloodshed. There are no winners in this fight. 

What we need, now more than ever, is the capacity within us to relate with one another on a HUMAN level. To feel and recognize another’s pain while holding space for our own. To emotionally connect with people who look and act differently than us. With people who have differing opinions and differing life experiences from us. With people who see the world differently than we do. 

And I brought on my dear friend, Mr JP Newman, to help inspire the courage and give you the tools to do so effectively.

JP Newman is a dear brother of mine, a successful entrepreneur and investor, and a mentor inside of his local Jewish communities. We had this podcast scheduled to record days after the initial Israel attacks and decided to trust the timing of it all and record something incredibly relevant for the times we are in. 

JP Newman is a dear brother of mine, a successful entrepreneur and investor, and a mentor inside of his local Jewish communities. We had this podcast scheduled to record days after the initial Israel attacks and decided to trust the timing of it all and record something incredibly relevant for the times we are in. 

Key Topics Discussed:

• Why it's difficult yet essential to remain open-hearted in times of conflict
• How bearing witness to each other's pain can dissolve barriers
• The courage required to hold space for grief and disagreements with empathy
• Choosing happiness over "being right" in relationships and world affairs
• The power of listening with genuine curiosity about different perspectives
• The ultimate goal of recognizing our common bonds despite surface differences
• Faith in life's bigger picture as an antidote to getting lost in fear-based narratives & stories
• Centering our energy on what unites us rather than divides us as human beings
• The inner work and mindfulness needed to tap into empathy amidst outer turmoil
• Small acts of humanity that start ripples of peace: how we each play a part
• Finding inspiration in leaders who embody compassionate, heart-centered leadership

If you’ve been affected by these tragic events, I want you to feel my heart with you. I’m sorry that this type of darkness exists in the world. I hope this podcast offers you solace and grounding as you navigate a very complex emotional landscape. Sending you all of my love.

Connect with JP: https://jp-newman.com/

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I'm beyond excited to share this powerful conversation with my brother Michael Clark - one of my dearest friends, advisors, mentors, and someone I truly love and look up to. He’s a spiritual seeker, successful entrepreneur, and philanthropist who has devoted himself to a life of service. In this conversation, we talk about the why behind the work. Why devote yourself to ego dissolution? Why devote yourself to being in a relationship with somebody who triggers you? Why devote yourself to this path of service? How to actually get there and build the muscle of service so that we can be a kinder, more loving species? We went in so many directions, covering everything from the purpose of life to how laughter can be more powerful than fear, especially when healing trauma.

What You'll Learn

• Why true service begins with knowing yourself deeply
• How service is like a muscle that gets stronger with practice - "start small"
• The power of recognizing heroes in everyday life and uplifting them
• Why triggers and attractions are "treasure maps for your soul"
• How to find joy and humor even in the healing of deep trauma
• The paradox of surrender: how letting go often brings more abundance
• Why helping just one person matters more than trying to "end homelessness"
• How disconnection from self leads to disconnection from others and from the planet
• The importance of listening to life's "whispers" before they become "yells"
• Practical ways to incorporate service into daily life without burnout

This episode reminds us that spiritual growth isn't just about contemplation but about active engagement with the world from a place of love. When we serve others without expectation, we often find that what we need comes back to us in unexpected ways. By letting go of outcomes and focusing on serving the present moment with kindness and an open heart, we align with something greater than ourselves and discover that we're taken care of in return. Join Raj and Michael as they explore how the inner work enables us to show up more fully in service to others, and how finding joy in the journey transforms both ourselves and those around us.

Connect with Mike:

https://muse.io/clark

Connect with Raj:

Website: http://www.rajjana.com/

Instagram: @raj_jana

iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/rs/podcast/stay-grounded-with-raj-jana/id1318038490

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22Hrw6VWfnUSI45lw8LJBP

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_jana

Legal Disclaimer: The information and opinions discussed in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only. The host and guests are not medical or mental health professionals, and their advice should not be a substitute for seeking professional help. Any action taken based on the information presented is strictly at your own risk. The podcast host and their guests shall have neither liability nor responsibility to any person or entity with respect to any loss, damage, or injury caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly by information shared in this podcast. Consult your physician before making any changes to your mental health treatment or lifestyle.

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Dr. Zach Bush brings a unique perspective to understanding human emotions and healing, drawing from his 17-year background in academic medicine running ICUs and bone marrow transplant units, combined with his deep study of Chinese medicine, energy healing, and nature's intelligence. After leaving conventional medicine in 2010, he established an integrated medical center where he absorbed extensive knowledge of Chinese herbal medicine and acupuncture. His discovery that emotions are at the root of all diseases, backed by 5,000 years of Chinese medical science, led him to develop innovative approaches to emotional healing. Dr. Bush's current work with Project Biome involves studying nature's patterns and cycles, giving him unprecedented insights into how human emotional patterns mirror larger natural systems.

In this powerful episode, you'll learn:

• The crucial difference between emotions and feelings, and why this distinction matters for healing
• How our addiction to emotional patterns keeps us stuck in victim-perpetrator cycles
• Why nature has no purpose, and how this understanding can liberate us from emotional suffering
• The role of beauty in experiencing unconditional love and breaking free from emotional patterns
• How unprocessed grief and trauma manifest physically and can be released through feeling
• Ways to move from intellectual understanding to embodied feeling
• The importance of being witnessed in our authentic expression
• How natural cycles of death and rebirth apply to emotional healing
• Practical approaches to feeling more deeply and metabolizing emotions naturally

Key Takeaway: Our addiction to processed emotions - much like processed foods - keeps us disconnected from the natural flow of feeling that exists in nature. By learning to distinguish between conditioned emotional patterns and raw, authentic feelings, we can break free from this addiction. The path forward isn't about managing or controlling emotions, but rather allowing ourselves to feel more deeply and completely, just as nature does. When we can embrace this natural way of being, our emotional struggles begin to metabolize and transform on their own, leading to genuine healing and liberation.

Join Liber8’s upcoming Precision Emotional Healing group program and be equipped with tools to break free from unhealthy patterns of emotional addiction. Insert link. Use code RAJFAM10 for 10% off.

Connect with Dr. Bush:

Website: https://journeyofintrinsichealth.com/

Join Dr Bush’s Community: https://journeyofintrinsichealth.com/

Instagram: @zachbushmd

Connect with Raj:

Instagram: @raj_jana

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_jana

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Nasya Miller, a transition clarity coach and founder of Wide Open Spaces, brings years of experience helping people navigate major life changes with intention and purpose. Her unique approach combines practical frameworks with deep emotional intelligence, helping clients move from confusion to clarity during life's most pivotal moments.

Key Takeaways:

• The four crucial stages of transition and how to identify where you are in the process

• Why rushing through change creates more suffering and how to embrace the "in-between"

• The critical role of community support in accelerating transformation

• How to use periods of neuroplasticity to create lasting positive change

• Practical tools for staying grounded when everything feels uncertain

• The difference between chosen transitions and unexpected changes

• Why grieving is essential for creating new possibilities

• How to mine transitions for their hidden gifts

• The power of slowing down to speed up your growth

• Ways to build trust in yourself during periods of uncertainty

Whether you're contemplating a career change, processing a major life transition, or simply feeling called to make a change, this episode provides both practical wisdom and spiritual perspective for navigating transitions with grace. While many of us haven't been taught how to move through periods of change effectively, Nasya and Raj's conversation demonstrates how these challenging times can become gateways to deeper self-trust and alignment when approached with awareness and support. This episode offers a powerful reminder that it's not just about getting to the other side of a transition, but about who we become in the process.

Connect with Nasya:

• Website: wideopenspaces.co
• 60-day Transition Clarity Coaching program
• Free 15-minute connection calls available

Connect with Raj:

Newsletter – Sign up here: https://www.rajjana.com/staygrounded/

Website: http://www.rajjana.com/

Instagram: @raj_jana

iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/rs/podcast/stay-grounded-with-raj-jana/id1318038490

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22Hrw6VWfnUSI45lw8LJBP

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_jana

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In this powerful episode of Stay Grounded, host Raj Jana delves deep into the transformative power of inner work and its profound impact on our relationships, particularly with family. Joined by his friend Alex, Raj explores the concept of using life's challenges as mirrors for personal growth and the importance of healing generational patterns. This conversation offers a raw, honest look at the journey of self-discovery and provides practical insights on how to navigate the sometimes messy, always rewarding path of inner transformation.

Key takeaways from this episode include:

• Understanding what "inner work" really means and why it's called "work"

• The concept of life as a hall of mirrors and how to use triggers as data for personal growth

• Why healing our relationship with family is the most important work we can do

• The power of curiosity in facing our inner challenges

• How to shift from symptom management to true transformation in mental health

• The importance of reparenting our inner child

• Practical tips for doing inner work, even with a busy lifestyle

• The role of community and support in the journey of self-discovery

• How transforming ourselves can inspire change in our family dynamics

• The courage it takes to lean into discomfort and the rewards that follow

Raj and Alex's vulnerable sharing of their personal experiences with inner work serves as a powerful testament to the life-changing potential of this journey. Whether you're just beginning to explore personal growth or you're well along your path, this episode offers valuable insights and inspiration. By the end, you'll understand why healing our relationship with ourselves and our families truly is the most important work we can do. Tune in to be inspired, challenged, and equipped with tools to start or deepen your own transformative journey.

Connect with Raj:

Website: http://www.rajjana.com/

Instagram: @raj_jana

iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/rs/podcast/stay-grounded-with-raj-jana/id1318038490

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22Hrw6VWfnUSI45lw8LJBP

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_jana

Legal Disclaimer: The information and opinions discussed in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only. The host and guests are not medical or mental health professionals, and their advice should not be a substitute for seeking professional help. Any action taken based on the information presented is strictly at your own risk. The podcast host and their guests shall have neither liability nor responsibility to any person or entity with respect to any loss, damage, or injury caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly by information shared in this podcast. Consult your physician before making any changes to your mental health treatment or lifestyle.

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In this intimate conversation with Raj, Khalil Rafati, founder of SunLife Organics and author of the bestselling memoir "I Forgot to Die," shares his remarkable journey from addiction and homelessness to becoming a successful wellness entrepreneur and spiritual seeker. With 21 years of sobriety and 18 thriving juice bar locations across the country, Khalil brings raw honesty and hard-won wisdom to this conversation about transformation, authenticity, and the power of incremental change.

Key Insights:

• Why hitting rock bottom might be the greatest gift for true transformation
• The surprising truth about "losing everything" that most people miss
• How tiny daily habits can create monumental life changes
• What a near-death experience taught him about God and darkness
• The unexpected way nutritional healing sparked spiritual awakening
• Why authenticity requires peeling back painful layers of conditioning
• The counterintuitive approach to sustainable personal growth
• What building a multimillion-dollar business taught him about faith
• How relationships become our greatest mirror for growth
• The hidden gift in feeling completely worthless

This deeply vulnerable conversation offers hope and practical wisdom for anyone seeking genuine transformation. Whether you're struggling with addiction, building a business, or simply trying to live more authentically, Khalil's journey demonstrates that our darkest moments can become the foundation for extraordinary growth. His raw honesty about both his struggles and successes provides a roadmap for how small, consistent changes in how we think, eat, and relate to others can radically transform our lives.

Tools/resources mentioned in the episode:

Books: Psycho Cybernetics, Think and Grow Rich, The Power of Habit

Connect to Khailil:

Instagram - @khalilrafati

Book “Remembering to Live: Lessons I Learned Crawling out of Hell’

Khalil's bestselling memoir “I forgot to die”

Connect with Raj:

Newsletter – Sign up here: https://www.rajjana.com/staygrounded/

Instagram: @raj_jana

iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/rs/podcast/stay-grounded-with-raj-jana/id1318038490

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22Hrw6VWfnUSI45lw8LJBP

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_jana

Legal Disclaimer: The information and opinions discussed in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only. The host and guests are not medical or mental health professionals, and their advice should not be a substitute for seeking professional help. Any action taken based on the information presented is strictly at your own risk. The podcast host and their guests shall have neither liability nor responsibility to any person or entity with respect to any loss, damage, or injury caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly by information shared in this podcast. Consult your physician before making any changes to your mental health treatment or lifestyle.

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