May 20, 2025

Stefani Gets Real About Dog Phobias, Kids, and Mental Health Wins

34 minutes

In this special episode, we sit down with Stefani Cohen, a clinical social worker and author of Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs. Together, we explore the often-overlooked anxiety surrounding dog phobias, especially in children, and how these fears can shape emotional development and resilience.

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Quote of the Episode

"You can't always control fear, but you can control how you respond to it — and that's where real growth happens."

– Inspired by Stefani Cohen’s journey

What This Episode Is Really About:

Fear, Healing, and the Power of Understanding

In this heartfelt conversation, Stefani Cohen, LCSW, shares her insights on how childhood fears—especially the fear of dogs—can deeply impact mental health. Drawing from her extensive work as a clinical social worker and her personal experience as a parent, Stefani discusses how these fears often stem from a sense of lost control and how exposure therapy can help children rebuild confidence.

Listeners will discover how fear develops, the role parents play in shaping emotional responses, and how learning about animal behavior can promote emotional intelligence and resilience. This episode blends humor, expert advice, and vulnerability to open up meaningful dialogue about mental health and fear.

Meet Our Guest: Stefani Cohen, LCSW

Clinical Social Worker | Author | Educator

B.A. in Sociology, William Smith College

Master of Social Work, New York University

Over 30 years helping parents and children manage anxiety, fear, and emotional regulation

Specializes in exposure therapy for children afraid of dogs through her unique OFOD protocol

Book: Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs

Website: https://overcomefearofdogs.com/

Instagram: @overcomefearofdogs

Facebook: OvercomeDogFear

LinkedIn: Stefani Cohen, LCSW

Key Takeaways

Phobias Are Real Mental Health Issues: Dog phobias in children are valid and often misunderstood.

Parental Influence Matters: Children can absorb anxiety from their environment, especially from their parents.

Understanding Can Replace Fear: Teaching kids to understand dog behavior can build emotional confidence.

Actionable Tips

Model Calm Behavior: Your reactions around dogs influence how your child feels.

Use Gradual Exposure: Help children slowly become comfortable with dogs in safe settings.

Respect Emotional Signals: Encourage awareness of body language in both people and animals.

Chapters & Time Stamps

[00:01:12] – How Stefani’s daughter’s fear inspired her mission

[00:02:41] – Four primary ways phobias develop in children

[00:08:22] – Why boys ages 5–9 are statistically more prone to dog bites

[00:13:19] – The role of control in childhood fear

[00:24:18] – Understanding dog consent and the "three-second petting rule"

[00:28:18] – Rapid-fire: resilience, favorite words, and self-care

[00:33:31] – Where to find Stefani’s work and connect

References & Mentions

Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs by Stefani Cohen – overcomefearofdogs.com

DSM-5 classification of specific phobias

Child bite prevention research and statistics

School-based humane education programs and therapy dog visits led by Stefani

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Stefani Gets Real About Dog Phobias, Kids, and Mental Health Wins

34 minutes

We’d love to hear your thoughts. Leave us a voice message or written feedback at:

https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a

Quote of the Episode

"You can't always control fear, but you can control how you respond to it — and that's where real growth happens."

– Inspired by Stefani Cohen’s journey

What This Episode Is Really About:

Fear, Healing, and the Power of Understanding

Meet Our Guest: Stefani Cohen, LCSW

Clinical Social Worker | Author | Educator

B.A. in Sociology, William Smith College

Master of Social Work, New York University

Over 30 years helping parents and children manage anxiety, fear, and emotional regulation

Specializes in exposure therapy for children afraid of dogs through her unique OFOD protocol

Book: Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs

Website: https://overcomefearofdogs.com/

Instagram: @overcomefearofdogs

Facebook: OvercomeDogFear

LinkedIn: Stefani Cohen, LCSW

Key Takeaways

Phobias Are Real Mental Health Issues: Dog phobias in children are valid and often misunderstood.

Parental Influence Matters: Children can absorb anxiety from their environment, especially from their parents.

Understanding Can Replace Fear: Teaching kids to understand dog behavior can build emotional confidence.

Actionable Tips

Model Calm Behavior: Your reactions around dogs influence how your child feels.

Use Gradual Exposure: Help children slowly become comfortable with dogs in safe settings.

Respect Emotional Signals: Encourage awareness of body language in both people and animals.

Chapters & Time Stamps

[00:01:12] – How Stefani’s daughter’s fear inspired her mission

[00:02:41] – Four primary ways phobias develop in children

[00:08:22] – Why boys ages 5–9 are statistically more prone to dog bites

[00:13:19] – The role of control in childhood fear

[00:24:18] – Understanding dog consent and the "three-second petting rule"

[00:28:18] – Rapid-fire: resilience, favorite words, and self-care

[00:33:31] – Where to find Stefani’s work and connect

References & Mentions

Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs by Stefani Cohen – overcomefearofdogs.com

DSM-5 classification of specific phobias

Child bite prevention research and statistics

School-based humane education programs and therapy dog visits led by Stefani

Subscribe, Rate, and Review

Stay connected for more insightful conversations on mental health.

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Your feedback fuels our mission to make mental health conversations more accessible, honest, and empowering.

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American Red Cross – Wildfire Relief: https://www.redcross.org/about-us/our-work/disaster-relief/wildfire-relief.html
California Community Foundation – Wildfire Recovery: https://www.calfund.org/funds/wildfire-recovery-fund/
California Fire Foundation – Wildfire & Disaster Relief: https://www.cafirefoundation.org/what-we-do/for-communities/disaster-relief/
GoFundMe – California Wildfire Relief: https://www.gofundme.com/c/act/wildfire-relief/california
Los Angeles Fire Department Foundation: https://supportlafd.org/

Your support, big or small, can help relieve those in need. Thank you for making a difference! 💛

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