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Do your relationships keep triggering old wounds? In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wife’s Club, therapist Melissa Lapides breaks down how anxious and avoidant attachment styles show up after divorce—and how to finally heal them.
Whether you’re newly divorced, co-parenting, or opening your heart to love again, this conversation will help you stop repeating painful patterns and reclaim your emotional power.
🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways
⏱️ Episode Timestamps
00:00 Intro
02:22 Understanding attachment wounds
05:28 Navigating separation & divorce
06:21 Healing through self-awareness in divorce
08:10 The role of mirroring in relationships
09:01 Communicating needs in relationships
21:27 Embracing acceptance in relationships
22:10 The power of communication & compromise
25:01 Nonviolent communication techniques
29:13 Building emotional resilience
30:48 Self-discovery & personal growth after divorce
33:34 Navigating new relationships post-divorce
🌟 Resources & Links
Join The Club: A Divorce Community to Help You Get Clear, Get Grounded & Move Forward
👉 Grab your spot now
Connect with Melissa Lapides (Licensed Psychotherapist & Founder of Securely Attached)
Website: getsecurelyattached.com
Instagram: @getsecurelyattached
Connect with The Crazy Ex-Wife’s Club
Instagram: @thecrazyexwivesclub
Facebook: The Crazy Ex-Wife’s Club
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By Erica Bennett4.9
2020 ratings
Do your relationships keep triggering old wounds? In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wife’s Club, therapist Melissa Lapides breaks down how anxious and avoidant attachment styles show up after divorce—and how to finally heal them.
Whether you’re newly divorced, co-parenting, or opening your heart to love again, this conversation will help you stop repeating painful patterns and reclaim your emotional power.
🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways
⏱️ Episode Timestamps
00:00 Intro
02:22 Understanding attachment wounds
05:28 Navigating separation & divorce
06:21 Healing through self-awareness in divorce
08:10 The role of mirroring in relationships
09:01 Communicating needs in relationships
21:27 Embracing acceptance in relationships
22:10 The power of communication & compromise
25:01 Nonviolent communication techniques
29:13 Building emotional resilience
30:48 Self-discovery & personal growth after divorce
33:34 Navigating new relationships post-divorce
🌟 Resources & Links
Join The Club: A Divorce Community to Help You Get Clear, Get Grounded & Move Forward
👉 Grab your spot now
Connect with Melissa Lapides (Licensed Psychotherapist & Founder of Securely Attached)
Website: getsecurelyattached.com
Instagram: @getsecurelyattached
Connect with The Crazy Ex-Wife’s Club
Instagram: @thecrazyexwivesclub
Facebook: The Crazy Ex-Wife’s Club
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If this episode resonated, don’t keep it to yourself—follow the podcast, share it with a friend, and join The Club for ongoing support on your healing journey.

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