Felt the gut punch of betrayal? Deb Drummond did too—and what she discovered will give you goosebumps.

In this deeply personal episode, I sit down with Mission Accepted Media founder Deb Drummond to share the moment a whisper at 4 a.m. cracked open the truth about her marriage. What followed was a crash course in self-trust, healing from narcissistic abuse, and rebuilding life after uncovering infidelity.

Together, we dive into the rollercoaster of emotional collapse, crippling anxiety, the myth of the perfect family, and the unexpected ways our bodies store trauma. From realizing your relationship wasn’t what you thought, to finding unexpected peace through solo travel and movie dates, Deb’s story is equal parts heartbreaking and liberating.

If you’ve ever questioned your reality, doubted your strength, or felt ashamed for not seeing the signs—this one’s for you.

🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways:

• The moment that whispers louder than logic—learning to trust your inner voice

• How high-functioning partners can still hide deep betrayal

• Why ignoring the “little signs” often delays necessary endings

• The emotional and physical toll of living in a relationship misaligned with truth

• What narcissistic traits look like behind closed doors (and why it’s so hard to spot)

We talk about:

• 00:00 Introduction

• 02:00 Deb's Marriage: The Dream and the Reality

• 04:06 The Turning Point: Discovering the Betrayal

• 07:18 Coping with the Aftermath: Emotional and Physical Impact

• 12:14 Healing and Moving Forward: Tools and Techniques

• 16:07 The Long Road to Recovery: Personal Reflections

• 19:55 Uncoupling and Rebuilding: Final Thoughts

• 21:33 Navigating Firsts After Divorce

• 23:19 Finding Yourself Through Travel

• 25:08 Debunking Divorce Myths

• 26:42 Emotional Challenges and Healing

• 28:38 Practical Tips for Moving Forward

• 34:48 Building a Support System

• 37:05 Redefining Holidays Post-Divorce

• 39:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Learn More About This Week’s Guest: Deb Drummond

Deb is a trailblazing entrepreneur who has built seven international companies and inspired thousands worldwide. As the founder of the Show Up Stand Up Speak Up, Yes You! movement—broadcast to over 350 million viewers—she champions women's voices through her own televised women’s channel. With three decades in Top Performance, Deb is a renowned speaker, coach, and mastermind trainer who has worked with over 30,000 clients and moved audiences of 20,000 to their feet. She hosts the Mission Accepted podcast, interviewing entrepreneurs and creatives who share their paths to success, and leads Mission Accepted Media, producing anthologies and business books. Deb also created the Top Performance Day Planner and Tracker.

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• Website: www.debdrummond.com

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• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsnh0BsWjHS1aba4cItw4rw

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