How often do you experience two competing desires at once? Maybe you want to eat the cake, but you also want to reach your physique goals. Do you make either one of those desires wrong for existing?

This internal tug-of-war between immediate pleasure and long-term progress is something I see consistently in my coaching practice. Having competing desires around food and body goals doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you – it makes you human. 

In this episode, I break down how to hold space for competing desires without shame or self-judgment. I share practical mindset tools for making intentional food choices, including how to slow down, create awareness, and choose from a place of empowerment rather than restriction. We’ll also explore why resentment develops and how to shift from feeling deprived to feeling in control of your decisions.

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Content warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide, which may be sensitive for some listeners. If you are experiencing difficult emotions, please know that help is available.

Mental health is just as critical as physical health, yet we rarely give it the same attention. In my conversation with Dr. Michelle Chestovich this week, we dive into the reality that many of us are falling apart inside while appearing perfectly functional on the outside. This paradox affects countless high-achieving women who feel pressured to hold everything together, even as they're drowning.

In this raw and honest conversation, we explore why asking for help feels so difficult, especially for high-achieving women. We break down what real self-care actually means (hint: it's not just bubble baths), how to honor your needs without guilt, and practical steps to take when you're not okay.

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Confused about how to maintain or build muscle during perimenopause and menopause? You’re not alone. With so many conflicting messages from experts, social media influencers, and research articles, it's hard to know what approach actually works.

In this episode, I dive into what's actually happening in your body during perimenopause and menopause, particularly how declining estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone affect your muscle mass, bone density, and overall health. I break down the biology in simple terms so you can understand why these changes matter and what you can do about them.

Listen in this week as I explore evidence-based approaches to exercise during this life stage, including strength training, cardio, HIIT, and SIT.

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Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the constant flood of conflicting health and fitness advice? After 150 episodes of the podcast, I've noticed certain truths that consistently rise to the surface—truths that could transform your relationship with nutrition, fitness, and yourself.

In this milestone episode, I'm stepping back to reflect on what I've learned from coaching hundreds of women and creating 150 podcast episodes. These aren't just random tips or trendy advice—they're the fundamental principles I wish I could bottle up and send to every woman struggling to change her life.

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Do you feel like you're constantly thinking about your fitness, food choices, and whether you're on track with your goals? I've been there, and I know how exhausting that mental load can be.

Today, I pull back the curtain on the systems that have allowed me to maintain my physique without the constant mental gymnastics. Join me this week to learn both the tactical aspects of my approach and the mindset shifts that make these systems stick long-term.

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Have you been hiding behind self-compassion as a way to avoid discomfort?

Many of us use "being kind to myself" as an excuse to bail on our own goals and commitments. But this isn't true self-compassion—it's self-sabotage in disguise.

If you're repeatedly not following through on your commitments under the guise of being gentle with yourself, and you're not making progress as a result, we need to have an honest conversation about what self-compassion actually means and how to practice it in a way that moves you forward instead of keeping you stuck.

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“Why can I manage a career, run a household, and keep everyone's life on track, but still struggle to take care of myself?” If you've ever asked yourself this question, you're not alone.

As high achievers, we excel in so many areas of life—meeting deadlines, exceeding expectations, being the reliable one everyone counts on—yet when it comes to our own wellbeing, we often feel like we're failing.

Tune in this week to challenge the narrative you've been telling yourself about motivation and consistency. I'll explain why you can't hustle your way to wellness and why lowering the bar might actually be the key to sustainable self-care.

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When you say things like "Hopefully I can stick to my plan" or "We'll see what happens," you're subtly distancing yourself from responsibility and creating an escape route. This language keeps you in a passive position, waiting for life to happen to you rather than actively creating the life you want.

I'm offering you something better than hope or trying – I'm offering you ownership. By the end of this episode, you'll understand how to recognize when you're giving away your power through your language, why taking full responsibility feels scary (but is ultimately liberating), and how to shift from "We'll see" to "I've got this." This mindset shift is the key to becoming someone who creates her life on purpose, even when things get messy or imperfect.

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Have you ever found yourself mindlessly munching on chips or cookies, only to justify it with "I just wanted it?"

Or maybe you've told yourself, "I deserve this" after a long day at work?

These seemingly innocent thoughts might actually be keeping you stuck in patterns of mindless eating without you even realizing it.

In this week's episode of Strong Is a Mindset, I'm breaking down the most common justifications we use for mindless eating and why they're more powerful than you think.

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Are you feeling frustrated because you're eating healthy, and yet the scale won't budge?

You're doing all the right things - lean proteins, whole grains, lots of veggies - but somehow, nothing's changing.

I get it. It feels unfair, and it might even make you want to give up altogether.

But here's the truth: If you're eating healthy and not seeing results, it's not because you're doing something wrong - it's because there's something else going on that we need to uncover, and in this episode, I break down the sneaky reasons your healthy diet might not be working.

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