We issue ultimatums in relationships when we want someone to change or do something we want, like move in together, get married, or have kids. The problem is, ultimatums don’t work. In this solo episode, I share what an ultimatum is, why people think they’re a good idea, and a more effective strategy for getting what you want in your relationship.

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