How can you rebuild trust when a relationship has hit rock bottom? My podcast guests, Joanna and Matthew Raabsmith, have lived to tell the tale. They are sought-after relationship experts, speakers, and authors who help high-achieving couples rebuild trust and create deeply connected relationships after betrayal. They co-lead The Raabsmith Team, a coaching collective offering transformative coaching, programs and community support.

In this episode:

• How to rebuild trust and connection after infidelity or trauma when you feel hopeless
• How couples misunderstand how to begin healing after hitting rock bottom
• What is meaningful honesty in relationships?

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• Grab your free Couples Honest Connection Guide to help you better connect both with yourself as you grow in personal awareness and with your partner as you increase your relational closeness.

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Why should you go no-contact after a breakup? Here are five powerful reasons to cut ties after a breakup, no matter how it ended.

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Katherine and Shawn are a couple in their mid 50s who met online and recently became engaged. I coached Kat to find love again after her second divorce, and once she met Shawn, I coached the two of them to help their relationship thrive. Their story is inspirational!

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• What makes a relationship work

• How to design a healthy partnership

• Obstacles that come up in relationships and how to work through them

• How to go on your last first date

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When you’re a woman over 50, momentum in early dating matters. Not pressure, not urgency…momentum. That sweet spot where you’re signaling, “I’m interested,” while still honoring your time, energy, and your value.

Too many women confuse showing interest with over-functioning. And too many men mistake your graciousness for indifference. The magic is found in between: asserting yourself without being aggressive, opening the door without dragging him through it.

Here are five powerful, grounded ways to create momentum in early dating without chasing, nudging, or managing the experience.

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How do you become more emotionally available in dating? My podcast guest, Brooke Bralove, has the answers! She is a Psychotherapist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Master Accelerated Resolution Therapy Practitioner. She helps women and men let go of perfectionism and move toward greater authenticity, joy, pleasure, and connection. She has been in private practice in Bethesda, MD for over 20 years.

In this episode:

• What is ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy) and how does it work in relationships?
• What are some common emotional blocks people carry into dating, and how do they show up?
• How can past experiences or trauma impact someone’s ability to connect emotionally with a partner?
• What are practical steps or exercises listeners can try to become more emotionally available?

Connect With Brooke

• Website: www.brookebralove.com 
• FB: https://www.facebook.com/brookebralovepsychotherapy/ 
• IG, TikTok, Threads:: @brookebralovepsychotherapy   
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brookebralovepsychotherapy/

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Compatibility on a first date is not just about shared laughter or common interests. It’s about the unspoken chemistry, the way your energies interact with each other. This intuitive feeling, almost like a dance of non-verbal cues and emotional responses, speaks volumes about potential compatibility. Here are five ways to assess compatibility early on in dating.

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I don't believe in dating rules, because there is no one-size-fits-all in dating. In this episode, I share the outdated bad advice in the "10 COMMANDMENTS OF DATING" that I found posted online. Then you'll hear my 10 DATING PRINCIPLES that will help you go on your last first date.

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Feeling obsessed with someone who isn’t truly available? Discover 5 surprising ways to overcome limerence, especially for women over 50, so you can break the cycle of longing and reclaim your emotional freedom.

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Wendy Valentine reinvented her love and life after 40. She’s the author of Women Waking Up: The Midlife Manifesto for Passion, Purpose, and Play and the host of The Midlife Makeover Show, a top-rated podcast for women in midlife. After her divorce at 45, she learned to “marry herself” first—rebuilding her life from the inside out. Now she empowers women to embrace self-love, rediscover joy, and attract relationships rooted in authenticity and alignment.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• What it means to marry yourself before dating after divorce
• The FREEDOM Framework for transformation, and how to use it to heal from heartbreak
• How to design your ideal relationship and have an amazing life after 40
  

Connect With Wendy Valentine

• Website: https://wendyvalentine.com 
• Media: https://wendyvalentine.com/media-kit 
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Have you ever pulled back just when a relationship began to feel real? You want connection, but part of you also wants to bolt. That tug-of-war is what many people over 50 experience when it comes to fear of commitment in dating.

Commitment fears aren’t a sign that you’re “not ready.” They’re a sign that your nervous system is trying to keep you safe. And that’s something you can gently rewire.

Here are five surprising ways to overcome your fear of commitment and open yourself to secure, lasting love, without losing your independence or sense of self.

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