Last First Date Radio

Did you know that jealousy can strengthen a relationship? That’s what my podcast guest, Ally Iseman, believes. She’s an award-winning creator, author, Certified Relationship Coach and Kink Aware Professional. Ally works with couples and individuals who are at transition points in dating and relationships. Whether they want to open their relationship to include more people, explore play parties together, or just open up more authentically to each other about their kinks and curiosities, Ally helps them open up without breaking up. 

In this episode:

• Is jealousy nature or nurture?
• How understanding jealousy can be beneficial to our relationships
• What jealousy tells us about ourselves and our partners
• Why some people get more jealous than others

Connect with Ally

• Website https://www.passport2pleasure.com/ 
• IG https://www.instagram.com/allyiseman 
• FB https://www.facebook.com/official.p2p 
• YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@passport2pleasure 
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• Free Jealousy quiz: https://Thejealousyquiz.com

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Ladies, men who waste your time tend to show the same five patterns. Once you can spot them early on, you’ll be able to save yourself time, frustration and heartache.

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What’s the science of betrayal, and what drives people to cheat? My guest, Dr. Glenn Hutchinson, is a clinical psychologist and behavioral researcher whose recently published book, Unfaithful Minds: The Science and Psychology of Infidelity, uses infidelity as a window into a much bigger question about human behavior.

In this episode:

• What people misunderstand about why people cheat
• The role of the unconscious mind in infidelity
• Why many happy couples cheat
• How and why people justify cheating
• Early warning signs of possible cheating and what to do about it
  

Connect With Glenn Hutchinson

• Website: https://glennhutchinson.net/ 

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Can you turn a situationship into a relationship? Sometimes. It depends. Here are five ways to make the shift from a situationship to a relationship!

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Wondering if you should stay or leave a relationship? My podcast guest Francesca Zoia, is a relationship and self-love coach that helps women in long-term relationships feeling confused and stuck in the "should I stay or leave" mental loop, figure out whether they're in the right relationship. 

In this episode:

• How to know if you should stay or leave
• Why it’s so hard to leave a relationship
• How to tell the difference if a relationship needs work or it’s over
• How to deal with family and friends who don’t support your decision to stay or leave

Connect with Francesca

• IG @lovewithfrancesca
• Website www.lovewithfrancesca.com 

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If you’ve been dating for a while, you’ve probably felt the pull of scarcity thinking. It can sound like “there’s no good people left to date” or “I need to lock this down before he loses interest.” 

Abundance thinking sounds more expansive and hopeful. When you date from a place of abundance, you believe there’s enough love, enough time, and enough good people out there, so you can slow down and make healthier choices.

Here are five places where the difference between scarcity and abundance shows up most clearly in real dating situations.

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How can you rewrite your love story so you end up in a healthy relationship? Owen Smithyman works with self-aware people who have done significant work on themselves – talk therapy, somatic work, plant medicine, coaching -- and still feel something running in the background, making decisions for them or making life difficult. As a Peak States Therapy Practitioner, he helps clients resolve emotional wounds permanently, relate more authentically, and live a more vibrant life.

In this episode:

• How past trauma shapes our choices in dating and relationships
• The relationship between beliefs and trauma
• What are peak states, and how are they relevant in dating?

Connect With Owen: 

• Website: https://optimize-consciousness.com
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/optimizeconsciousness/ 
• TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@optimizeconsciousness 
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@optimizeconsciousness 
• IG: https://www.instagram.com/optimizeconsciousness 
• Free Gifts: A 5-minute guided somatic process to eliminate resistance to change, to make self-care, diet, exercise, and engaging in the dating scene easier and a 30-minute guided, self-paced healing process to resolve fears around dating, relationships, or self-worth https://gift.optimize-consciousness.com/ 

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If you’re dating casually because you’re not ready for a relationship, that’s okay. I support you. But be careful not to make these five common mistakes.

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Which red flags in dating have you missed? Katharina is an Attachment-Based Specialist and an Emotionally Focused Individual therapist with over 25 years of experience helping couples and individuals build stronger, more resilient relationships. A graduate of Columbia University, she is the Founder and Clinical Director of Love Frontier Therapy Group and has dedicated her career to helping people understand the patterns behind conflict, repair emotional disconnection, and create lasting intimacy.

In this episode:

• The subtle red flags in dating many people miss
• Warning signs couples ignore early on
• Deal breakers that might be an opportunity for repair in disguise
• How curiosity can save your relationship

Connect With Katharina

• Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@LoveFrontierTherapyGroup 
• IG https://www.instagram.com/lovefrontiertherapy/ 
• Website https://lovefrontiertherapy.com/ 

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Learn how to break dysfunctional relationship patterns so you can finally go on your last first date! Here are five ways to begin...

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