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TAM+ EP12: Stuck at a Crossroads? The Only Four Choices You Really Have


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Welcome to an eye-opening episode that could change how you face life's big moments. Today, we're exploring the idea that when you hit a tough spot, you actually only have four choices. Sounds simple, right? But it's a game-changer. Imagine feeling stuck, like you're at a crossroads with no clear direction. It happens to all of us. We overthink, get overwhelmed, and just feel more and more stuck. But what if you could see your options clearly and make a choice that really fits? We dive into solving the problem, changing how you see the problem, accepting what's happening, or, yes, even choosing to stay stuck for a bit. These options can lighten the load of decision-making, giving you a clear path forward. It's not just about the tough times; it's about knowing you have the power to choose your next step. So, ready to see what those four choices are and how they can help you? Let's get into it!


Download the worksheet: THE FOUR CHOICES CHEAT SHEET: NAVIGATING LIFE'S CHALLENGES


Key Topics:

- The concept of having only four choices in problematic situations

- Strategies for effective decision-making and problem-solving

- The importance of changing perception and acceptance

- The role of self-compassion in choosing to stay miserable

- Practical tools and frameworks for applying these concepts in real life


List of Key Moments:

- [00:01:25] Introduction to the four choices concept

- [00:03:24] Discussion on decision paralysis and overcoming challenges

- [00:04:18] Deep dive into solving the problem

- [00:07:09] Changing our perception of the problem

- [00:09:06] The difficult choice of acceptance

- [00:11:09] Exploring the choice to stay miserable

- [00:13:57] Summarization and resources for listeners


Download the worksheet: THE FOUR CHOICES CHEAT SHEET: NAVIGATING LIFE'S CHALLENGES



Additional TAM+ episodes that support this episode.


Episode 6 : Unstuck Your Thoughts: 7 Cognitive Distortions Sabotaging Your Recovery


Episode 9: Embrace the Now: How Radically Accepting Reality Can Transform Your Life


Supporting Resources:

If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center

NovusMindfulLife.com

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