Waking Up to Narcissism

Tell Me About Your Mother": Untangling Childhood's Hidden Traps with "The Good Daughter Syndrome" Author Katherine Fabrizio


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Are you constantly trying to please your mother but never feeling good enough? Do you take responsibility for her emotional well-being? If you've ever found yourself stuck in these patterns, this episode is essential listening — and men, don't skip this one! Host Tony Overbay discovered he might have a little "Good Daughter Syndrome" himself.

In this illuminating conversation, psychotherapist Katherine Fabrizio https://daughtersrising.info/ shares her 35 years of experience working with daughters of difficult mothers, including her own journey breaking away from practicing therapy alongside her controlling mother. With refreshing candor and hard-earned wisdom, Katherine reveals:


  • The four psychological traps that keep "good daughters" stuck: the never good enough trap, the guilt trap, the self-doubt trap, and the mixed message trap
  • Why setting even small boundaries can provide crucial data about your relationship
  • How to break free without it being a "zero-sum game" where someone must lose
  • Why your mother's narcissistic defenses will protect her, even when you start setting boundaries
  • The paralyzing internal conflict of feeling selfish when you differentiate from mom

With multiple awards, including Gold Medalist for Parenting & Relationships from The Global Book Awards, Katherine's book "The Good Daughter Syndrome" offers hope to those caught in these destructive dynamics.


Whether you identify as a "good daughter" or simply want to understand the complex mother-daughter relationship, this conversation provides actionable insights for reclaiming your sovereignty and building a life that truly belongs to you.


"When you wake up and realize you've been ceding your sovereignty to somebody else... it's incredibly empowering." - Katherine Fabrizio


00:00 Introduction and Announcements

01:35 Emotional Immaturity Epidemic

03:32 The Good Daughter Syndrome

08:12 Interview with Catherine Fabrizio

11:03 Catherine's Personal Journey

17:37 Understanding Narcissistic Dynamics

26:40 Setting Boundaries with Narcissistic Mothers

27:35 The Never Good Enough Trap

28:40 The Guilt Trap

29:11 Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting

33:54 The Self-Doubt Trap

38:59 The Mixed Message Trap

46:23 Empowerment and Differentiation

48:53 Conclusion and Resources

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