Beyond Success

Terrific at Tinder, but Terrible at Relationships?


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There are 3.9 billion women in the world.

And trying to attract every single one of them is damn near impossible. But when men optimize their Tinder profile for short-term hookups, that’s what they’re trying for — they’re making themselves “mass-market” to attract women.

And this never works.

Instead, they become a commodity — “just another player.” And when their potential soulmate sees them…

She’s physically repulsed — and doesn’t want anything to do with them.

So, if being “mass-market” doesn’t work, then what does?

I propose you “niche down” your personality to attract the ONE girl that truly matters. And in today’s episode, I reveal how to create a loving long-term relationship by being more of who you already are.

Listen now!

Show Highlights Include:

  • The “always growing” lie propagated by the so-called “self-help” world (and how it cripples your ability to be unconditionally loved) (1:36)
  • Why “shrinking the pool” of women you speak to amplifies your chances of finding “the one” (8:08)
  • How clicking pause on an Andrew Tate video ensures a beautiful future with your wife, children, and grandchildren (9:52)
  • Why Tinder feeds your inner beast (and makes your soulmate seem irrelevant) (12:28)
  • The sobering reality behind your chances of success on Tinder, as explained by The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast (14:00)
  • How to get your ex back with the “Intense Connect” strategy (18:15)
  • The “Long Tail” method Amazon uses to be positioned as the most successful option (and how you can copy this exact approach to find the love of your life) (22:26)
  • Why appealing to every woman’s innate sexual desires is the best way to ruin your chances with the one that truly matters (23:36)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ 

Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

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