If you've ever felt uncontrollable anger after being cheated on, or rage that lingers long after a betrayal or breakup—you’re not crazy. In this raw, faith-filled conversation, Amee and D. Widders dive deep into the emotions that come after infidelity: not just anger, but the pain, shame, and rejection hiding underneath. We unpack how to express your anger without letting it explode, how to invite God into your healing, and how to rebuild your identity when it feels like everything’s been ripped apart.

From screaming into pillows to praying through the rage, this episode is full of real-life tools, honest stories, and biblical truth. Whether you're fresh out of betrayal or still stuck in the aftershocks, this episode will meet you where you are—and help you breathe again.

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Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro: Rage is the Fire

00:38 - Why Anger After Cheating Is So Intense

01:21 - Managing Anger Without Losing Yourself

02:47 - “Your Anger Is Valid, But It Can’t Be in Control”

06:48 - Mourning Who You Were Before the Betrayal

08:14 - Placing Your Identity in God, Not the Affair

10:14 - Expressing Anger Without Exploding

12:33 - How the Unfaithful Partner Should Respond

14:09 - What Healing Looks Like Together

16:05 - Turning Fire Into Focus

17:10 - 7 Ways to Release Anger Resource

17:55 - Outro & Encouragement

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders dive into how to set boundaries after cheating in a way that protects your healing without becoming controlling. We break down why boundaries are essential after betrayal, how they can actually rebuild trust, and the mindset shifts needed to set them with confidence. This is a raw, honest conversation for anyone navigating infidelity recovery and looking for real tools to move forward with clarity and hope. ❤️‍🩹

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⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro & Why Boundaries Matter

02:30 – Are Boundaries Punishment or Protection?

06:45 – Access to Phones & Transparency

12:10 – What True Repentance Looks Like

17:00 – Setting Boundaries Without Being Controlling

22:15 – Healing Together & Final Thoughts

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, we dive deep into one of the most painful questions we get: how do you forgive a betrayal that shattered your heart, your trust, and your sense of safety? Amee opens up about what it was like to forgive D’s infidelity, how she found the strength to love like Jesus, and why forgiveness doesn’t mean being a doormat. Together, they break down the difference between forgiveness and trust, why betrayal feels like grieving a death, and how forgiveness is ultimately a gift you give yourself.

We also explore biblical insights, like the difference between Judas and Peter’s betrayals, the weight of carrying bitterness, and why forgiveness can transform you even when the other person doesn’t change. Whether you’re healing from infidelity, betrayal by a friend, or wounds from your past, this conversation will challenge, encourage, and give you tools to move forward. Stick around — you might just leave feeling lighter.

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📋 The Relationship Check-In: https://shopantd.com/products/antd-weekly-relationship-check-in-printable-pdf

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🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily (April) to offer support & Q&A – https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

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Timestamps:

00:00 Intro — How do you forgive betrayal?

02:15 Amee’s story: Forgiving after infidelity

05:00 Betrayal feels like grieving the living

08:30 Forgiveness vs. trust: Why they’re different

11:20 The Judas vs. Peter principle

14:45 How unforgiveness affects your body

18:00 Biblical truths about forgiveness

22:30 Can you really heal a shattered relationship?

25:15 How to ask God for help forgiving

28:00 Final thoughts + announcements

Welcome to The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders! In today’s powerful episode, we’re diving deep into a tough but transformational topic: how infidelity — the betrayal that almost destroyed us — actually became the catalyst that made our marriage stronger than ever. We’ll walk you through the five major ways that cheating shattered our old foundation, forced us into radical honesty, and ultimately led to a love deeper and more real than we ever thought possible. If you’ve ever wondered whether a relationship can truly heal after betrayal, or if lasting change is even possible, this episode is for you.

We also talk openly about how putting God at the center of our lives changed everything — not just our marriage, but who we are as individuals. Healing from infidelity isn’t easy, but we’re living proof that it's possible with humility, hard work, and faith. Stick around until the end for encouragement, real stories, and resources to help you on your own journey. This isn’t just about surviving infidelity — it’s about building something brand new and stronger than before.

Links & Resources:

✨ The Healing Journal: 30-Day Healing from Infidelity Devotional & Journal – https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

📋 The Relationship Check-In: https://shopantd.com/products/antd-weekly-relationship-check-in-printable-pdf

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🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily (April) to offer support & Q&A – https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

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Why do people cheat in relationships—even in marriages built on love and faith? In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders break down 8 real reasons people cheat that go way beyond lust or boredom. From unhealed trauma and emotional neglect to ego, revenge, addiction, and lack of identity, they explore how infidelity is often a symptom of deeper wounds, not just a moral failure. If you’re searching for answers, healing, or how to rebuild after betrayal, this episode will challenge you, comfort you, and guide you with both truth and hope.

Whether you've been cheated on, made mistakes in your past, or want to protect your relationship, this episode brings real-life experience and biblical insight into one of the hardest topics couples face. You’ll learn why communication breaks down, how emotional wounds turn into temptation, and what it takes to truly heal after infidelity. God doesn't just reveal wounds—He redeems them. 💔➡️❤️‍🩹

Links & Resources:

✨ The Healing Journal: 30-Day Healing from Infidelity Devotional & Journal – https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

📋 The Relationship Check-In: https://shopantd.com/products/antd-weekly-relationship-check-in-printable-pdf

🙏 The Anointed Affirmations: 7-Day Prayer & Affirmations for Strength, Healing & Letting Go – https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-day-prayer-affirmations-for-strength-healing-letting-go

🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily (April) to offer support & Q&A – https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

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🔗 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Opening: Manipulation, Pain & the Start of Healing

01:20 – “Do Most Men Cheat If Given the Chance?”

02:30 – Why This Episode Isn’t Justifying Cheating

03:40 – Reason 1: Unhealed Trauma & Emotional Baggage

06:50 – How Abandonment Shaped D’s Patterns

09:40 – What Finally Helped Him Heal

11:20 – Reason 2: Lack of Identity or Purpose

13:40 – False Identities: Culture, Careers, and Control

15:30 – Identity in Christ: The Real Shift

16:40 – Reason 3: Emotional Disconnection

19:30 – Why Many Women Cheat After Feeling Ignored

21:30 – Communication Fails & Emotional Withdrawal

23:00 – Reason 4: Entitlement & Ego (Pride in Disguise)

25:00 – Covenant vs. Convenience in Marriage

26:10 – Reason 5: Impulse, Opportunity & Weak Boundaries

28:10 – Strip Club Culture, Temptation, and Lost Values

30:00 – Reason 6: Lack of Accountability or Spiritual Covering

31:40 – Isolation, Weak Friendships, and No Guidance

33:00 – Reason 7: Addiction or Escapism

34:20 – How Lust, Porn, and Numbness Replace Intimacy

35:20 – Reason 8: Revenge or Resentment

36:10 – Final Word: Cheating Doesn’t Heal—God Does

Can trust ever be rebuilt after cheating? In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders get raw and honest about the exact steps they took to repair their marriage after betrayal. If you've ever been cheated on—or were the one who cheated—and you're wondering if it's even possible to fix things... this episode is for you.

We break down the 3 pillars of true accountability: Remorse, Reassurance, and Respecting Boundaries. Learn why apologies without action are meaningless, how to rebuild connection through daily habits, and how a faith-driven relationship can survive even the worst pain.

You’ll also hear how D overcame guilt, Amee dealt with constant fear, and what ultimately helped them both trust again. Whether you're in a relationship trying to heal or preparing for the future, this conversation will challenge you, encourage you, and remind you—you’re not alone.

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00:00 – Why Accountability Is Non-Negotiable

00:38 – Step 1: Take Ownership Without Excuses

01:45 – Why Blaming Makes Things Worse

02:47 – Breaking Complacency in Long-Term Relationships

04:03 – Rebuilding Emotional Connection Through Time

04:52 – The Compound Effect in Relationships

06:26 – Transparency: Sharing Passwords, Daily Check-ins

08:10 – The Power of Actions Over Words

09:04 – From Manipulator to Man of God

10:12 – What Real Heart Change Looks Like

11:18 – The 3 R’s: Remorse, Reassurance, Boundaries

15:03 – What Reassurance Actually Means

16:55 – Building a Relationship God Will Bless

18:00 – Why Vulnerability Is the Key to Deep Healing

19:51 – Healthy Boundaries After Infidelity

22:41 – Full Access vs. Control in Marriage

24:00 – Can God Really Restore a Broken Relationship?

24:51 – Shop Resources & Final Encouragement

In Episode 48 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders explore how the attachment styles we develop in childhood can sabotage our adult relationships and even lead to infidelity. They break down the four attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant) and reveal how each can influence a person’s likelihood to cheat. With personal stories, faith-filled encouragement, and even a little humor, Amee and D unpack why an unhealed inner child might drive someone to betray their partner. They emphasize that no attachment style is beyond healing – through self-awareness, God’s grace, and hard work, couples can break toxic cycles and rebuild trust after betrayal.

Links & Resources:

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When the trust is shattered, is love enough to stay—or is it time to let go? In this emotionally raw episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders open up about infidelity, betrayal, and the gut-wrenching process of deciding whether to rebuild or release a relationship. This conversation is for anyone struggling in the aftermath of cheating, wondering if the person who hurt them can ever truly change, or feeling stuck between heartbreak and hope.

With honesty, faith, and real-world wisdom, they unpack the emotional, spiritual, and psychological weight of staying—or leaving—after betrayal. You’ll learn the true signs your relationship might be worth fighting for: consistent accountability, real remorse, and transparent action. You’ll also hear when it’s time to stop holding on—especially if your partner keeps breaking promises, blaming you, or causing emotional damage. D vulnerably shares his own past of betrayal and what finally pushed him to change, while Amee brings clarity and strength to the voice of the betrayed.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “How did we get here?” or “Can we come back from this?”—this episode will help you answer it with truth and grace. Whether you choose to stay and rebuild or let go and heal, there is hope beyond heartbreak.

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00:01:03 – Lack of accountability & blame shifting

00:07:06 – Controlling or isolating behavior

00:16:23 – Dishonesty & secretive behavior

00:24:17 – Emotional or verbal abuse

00:29:00 – Inconsistent actions & broken promises

Top 5 Relationship Red Flags: Not Warnings — Stop Signs That’ll Break You

Love can make us blind, but ignoring the wrong signs can cost you everything. In fact, about 60% of people admit they’ve ignored major red flags early in a relationship — only to regret it later. 😮 In this episode of our couples podcast, we dive into the top 5 relationship red flags that are not just warnings – they’re stop signs that can break your heart. We set a funny, emotional, faith-based tone as we share deeply honest stories of infidelity, toxic behavior, and relationship trauma. You’ll hear how we faced cheating, found forgiveness, and discovered emotional healing and growth through faith in our relationship journey.

No more turning a blind eye – we break down each red flag with raw honesty and a dash of humor. 🚩 Learn how a lack of accountability (and constant blame shifting) poisons trust in a relationship. We reveal how controlling or isolating behavior can make love feel like a prison instead of a partnership. We expose the damage caused by dishonesty & secretive behavior, and shine a light on emotional or verbal abuse (yep, we talk gaslighting and all those toxic behaviors). And when it comes to those inconsistent actions & broken promises that leave you feeling crazy, we’re right there with you, sharing why they hurt so much. Expect to laugh at some cringe-worthy moments and maybe shed a tear, but most importantly, you’ll learn to spot these red flags early and protect your heart. 💔🚫

This raw, unfiltered discussion also doubles as Christian marriage advice filled with practical wisdom and hope. If you’re a woman seeking cheating recovery or a couple striving to rebuild trust after betrayal, you’ll find encouragement here. We highlight how to find redemption and healing through Jesus – showing that faith and relationships go hand-in-hand when it comes to forgiveness and personal growth. Stop ignoring red flags and start moving toward the healthy, loving relationship God wants for you. 🙏❤️

Timestamps:

00:01:03 – Lack of accountability & blame shifting

00:07:06 – Controlling or isolating behavior

00:16:23 – Dishonesty & secretive behavior

00:24:17 – Emotional or verbal abuse

00:32:07 – Inconsistent actions & broken promises

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Trust isn’t rebuilt with words—it’s earned through actions. In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders dive deep into how to be reliable after infidelity and prove you're committed to change. If you're wondering how to regain your partner’s trust, stay consistent, and truly heal your relationship, this episode is for you.

We break down the steps to rebuilding credibility, the importance of emotional consistency, and the role of faith in repairing broken trust. Amee shares her perspective on what it took for her to believe in D. again, while D. opens up about the daily efforts he made to prove his commitment. If you’re struggling with self-doubt, lingering resentment, or uncertainty about your partner’s sincerity, we provide actionable steps to rebuild trust—brick by brick.

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🔗 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

⏳ Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: The emotional weight of rebuilding trust

01:20 – How to prove you're serious after cheating

05:10 – The role of faith and accountability in healing

12:30 – What true consistency looks like in a relationship

18:45 – Overcoming insecurity and rebuilding confidence

24:00 – Why words mean nothing without action

30:10 – How social media impacts trust in modern relationships

💬 Have you or your partner struggled with trust after betrayal? Share your thoughts in the comments below. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode to help others on their healing journey!