The Aware Parenting Podcast

This is another episode of the reparenting series, which is based on The Marion Method, not reparenting.

As parents, our relationships with our partners and exes can have a huge effect on our children.

I love supporting my mentees, either in 1:1, or them as a couple, to use The Marion Method maps and practices to bring about deeper connection, harmony, and healing in their relationships.

In this episode, I share the maps and practices which support that.

If you want to learn more about The Marion Method, you can do so on my Psychospiritual Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-psychospiritual-podcast/id1344385341

You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/

You can also find me here:

https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/

https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/

https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/

www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

In this episode, I talk with Katie Fusco, who is an Aware Parenting instructor in the UK.

Katie also works in perinatal mental health, and speaks a disclaimer that everything she shares on the episode is her own, based on her own experience.

We'd also love to say, before you listen, that Katie shares some of her experiences during and after giving birth that were extremely traumatic, so please listen in to yourself and whether you are willing to listen, or continue listening.

After Katie shares about those traumatic events, she then talks about (the descriptions are in her own words):

- My story of discovering Aware Parenting and then The Marion Method

- My initial uncomfortable thoughts/feelings/sensations in reaction to The Marion Method terminology

- My realisation of how guilt/shame/judgement are designed to block the grieving process and perpetuate cultural conditioning

- My rejection of the concepts of regulation, dysregulation, and window of tolerance

- My experience of how hard/confronting/agonising I can find the re-parenting and re-culturing process, how it is in no way linear for me, YET how it has given me access to hope/joy/love/connection/laughter when I was unquestionably convinced that I was shackled to a life sentence of self loathing in relation to how my motherhood journey began.

I found this to be an incredibly moving and powerful podcast, offering possibility for those parents who are going through deeply painful times at the moment, recognition for those who have gone through traumatic events in their birthing and parenting, and compassion for all of us.

Much love xoxox

In this episode, which continues the reparenting series, I describe terms and concepts from the Marion Method that are NOT used in Aware Parenting.

These include:

Soul

Messages from Life

Conversations with Life

Reparenting, Re-culturing

Disconnected Domination Culture

Love-Needs, Will-Needs, Love-Hurts, Will-Hurts

Needs-feelings, Healing-feelings, Thoughts-feelings

Inner Loving Mother, Inner Loving Father, Inner Best Friend, Inner Beloved

Reparative phrases

Inner Children

Listening to our yeses and noes

Aware Parenting invites parents to meet their needs, have their feelings heard, have support and community, and is a model of how we were affected as children, but doesn't in itself have any practices of processes for our own inner work, beyond suggestions such as journalling, receiving listening from another person, or being in nature, such as watching a sunset.

If you want to learn more about The Marion Method, you can do so on my Psychospiritual Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-psychospiritual-podcast/id1344385341

You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/

You can also find me here:

https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/

https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/

https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/

www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

This continues the reparenting series (and reculturing too). It's part of The Marion Method, not Aware Parenting.

In this episode, I talk about the process of change from Marion Method perspective, and how getting freer from Disconnected Domination Culture conditioning, and instead embracing lovingness and willingness, supports us to say no to what we don't want, and yes to what we do want.

I share about the difference between wanting and willing, and not wanting and not being willing, about the gifts of jealousy, and about why we might be scared to have, do, or be what we really want.

I include the metaphor of having one foot on the accelerator and one foot on the brake, and how we can support ourselves to know that we are safe while having, doing, or being what we really want.

I talk about Looking Back and Looking Forward with Lovingness and Willingness, which is a self-paced offering that includes audios, PDFs and Evernotes, so you can choose how you go about it.

If you're thinking of joining my Marion Method Membership, I recommend doing this first.

The link is here:

https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/looking-back-looking-forward-lovingness-and-willingness/

If you want to learn more about The Marion Method, you can do so on my Psychospiritual Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-psychospiritual-podcast/id1344385341

You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/

You can also find me here:

https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/

https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/

https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/

www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

This is another episode of the reparenting and reculturing series, and is based on The Marion Method, NOT Aware Parenting.

I talk about why many people find it hard to say yes to what they have a yes for and no to what they have a no for, having grown up in The Disconnected Domination Culture.

I share why this is particularly the case at this time of year.

And I offer tangible suggestions for experiencing more safety in expressing full-body yeses and full-body noes. As well as Loving Presence statements to support that.

If you're wanting to listen to past festive season episodes, you can do that here:

Episode 30: Festive challenges

Episode 120: Christmas feelings

Episode 163: The opposite of overwhelm this festive season

If you want to learn more about The Marion Method, you can do so on my Psychospiritual Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-psychospiritual-podcast/id1344385341

You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/

You can also find me here:

https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/

https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/

https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/

www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

I love this episode with Caitlin Jaspers, who has been doing mentoring with me for the last 4 months.

This episode includes both her practice of Aware Parenting, and also The Marion Method and Nonviolent Communication.

Caitlin starts off sharing her journey with Aware Parenting, which started when her 4-month-old son was waking very frequently.

Once she started practicing Aware Parenting, his sleep shifted.

However, she then saw how much of an effect her own inner work, including her exploration of her control patterns, her willingness to have her needs met, and her having her feelings heard, affected her son's ability to freely express his emotions.

I love how clearly Caitlin shares the direct and tangible effects of doing her own de-conditioning so she has been more and more willing to have her own needs met.

I'm so grateful to Caitlin for sharing her experience of how powerful we are as mothers, and what a difference we can make to our children's experiences and willingness to express their healing-feelings to us.

If you want to learn more about The Marion Method, you can do so on my Psychospiritual Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-psychospiritual-podcast/id1344385341

You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/

You can also find me here:

https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/

https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/

https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/

www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

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If you want to learn more about The Marion Method, you can do so on my Psychospiritual Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-psychospiritual-podcast/id1344385341

You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/

You can also find me here:

https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/

https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/

https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/

www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

I absolutely LOVE this episode with Linde Lambrechts, who has a Masters in Clinical Psychology, and is a Psychotherapist and Aware Parenting instructor.

You may recognise her from my trilogy of Aware Parenting books, where she shared her beautiful stories.

Linde talks about all kinds of topics in this episode, including reclaiming the beauty of our needs as parents.

However, it's the stories she tells half way through the episode that brought us both to tears.

She shares about what happened for her after being a beta reader of my latest book, 'All of Your Feelings are Welcome', and the incredible but very subtle and nuanced shifts she made in her presence as a parent, which led to some deeply moving and transformational effects.

The stories were in response to aggression, which can be the hardest place for us as parents to embody this quality of loving but powerful presence, when our child is lashing out at us, their sibling, or another child.

Hearing her share about what happened is one of the most moving experiences I've ever had on the podcast!

You can find out more about Linde and her work at:

https://www.lindelambrechts.be/ and

https://www.instagram.com/lovinglimits/

My book that we talk about in the podcast is coming out in the next 24 hours! You can find it on Amazon in all countries! It's called, "All of Your Feelings are Welcome!"

If you want to learn more about The Marion Method, you can do so on my Psychospiritual Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-psychospiritual-podcast/id1344385341

You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/

You can also find me here:

https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/

https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/

https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/

www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

In this episode, I talk about why our yeses and noes are so important, how we disconnect from them growing up in The Disconnected Domination Culture, and how we can reclaim their power and beauty, and the safety that they bring to our lives.

I'd love to emphasise again that this is NOT Aware Parenting. This reparenting series is based on The Marion Method.

Our yeses and noes are our slug wisdom. Our innate body wisdom

The DDC disconnects us from our our slug wisdom.

As children growing up in The DDC, we often experience being shamed or punished for wanting what we want - our YESES. Telling us there's something wrong with our joy, excitement, and the fulfilment and satisfaction we receive from having, doing or being what we really want.

As a result, we may be disconnected from even knowing what we want, let alone being willing for it, and asking for what we want.

This is very common in mothers and leads to resentment and burn out.

We also experience shaming and punishment when we try to say no what we don't want - our NOES. Telling us that our frustration and outrage is wrong, when in fact it's the natural response of our noes not being heard, and is the will energy that gets silted up when our no is not heard.

As a result, we may feel flat, depressed, powerless, helpless. We may often say yes when we feel a no.

The DDC sets us up to feel scared to truly stand in the power of our yeses.

But the yeses are the way in which life comes into the world.

Our noes are what keep us truly safe.

How can we reclaim them?

With The Marion Method:

Loving phrases from our Inner Loving Presences and Life itself, welcome and celebrating our yeses and noes.

Inner Loving Presence Process work, going back to painful times when our yes or no wasn't welcomed, and our Inner Loving Presences listening lovingly to our painful feelings.

Reparative experiences of our yeses and noes being welcomed and celebrated, and our increasing experiences of deep fulfiment.

Our willingness work, where we increasingly live from willingness, what we are wanting and willing for, which is an embodied YES, and seeing the power of that reflected in our experiences.

Our will work, where we increasingly feel safe and free to say no when we have a no, including the power of our Neo No.

Our Outer and Inner Loving Presence work, where our feelings of both excitement/joy and frustration/outrage are welcomed and we become increasingly comfortable with them in our bodies.

In fact, from a MM perspective, I see life as a continual experiment, where every experience we have, we can see whether and what we had a yes or no to, so we gradually refine our choices.

In this way, our personality, relationships, work, and life become a clearer reflection of our Soul!

You can find my Inner Loving Presence Process Course here: https://innerlovingpresenceprocess.com/

You can find my Wonder of Willingness Course here: https://www.thewonderofwillingness.com/

If you want to learn more about The Marion Method, you can do so on my Psychospiritual Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-psychospiritual-podcast/id1344385341

You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/

You can also find me here:

https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/

https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/

https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/

www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

When I added up the listens this morning, there were 3,033,364!

Woohooo!

Thank you SO much to everyone who has listened, whether that was to 1 episode, or all of them!

And a very big thank you to Lael, who was the co-host for the first 123 episodes.

I'm also so grateful to Aletha Solter, PhD, the Founder and creator of Aware Parenting.

In this episode, I talk about the past episodes, the different series, and what's coming in 2025!

If you're wanting to listen to past festive season episodes, those are:

Episode 30: Festive challenges

Episode 120: Christmas feelings

Episode 163: The opposite of overwhelm this festive season

To celebrate the three million, I'll be announcing a sale!

Big love and gratitude!

Marion

xoxox

You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/

You can also find me here:

https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/

https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/

https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/

www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD