The BPD Bunch

Xannie, Alex, Georgette, Madhurima, Jay, and Katja continue their conversation about the favorite person (FP) phenomenon, this time covering warning signs and how they know they're starting to form an FP attachment to someone.

The BPD Bunch is back!!

Join Xannie, Alex, Georgette, Madhurima, Jay, and Katja in this exciting episode as they dive deep into the concept of the favorite person (FP). Alex kicks off the discussion by explaining what exactly an FP is. Together, they explore the impact of an FP relationship on BPD symptoms and how it can influence other relationships. Plus, don't miss out on their invaluable tips for effectively managing the attachment to an FP. Get ready for an insightful and engaging conversation that everyone can relate to!

Come back on Friday for an FP minisode: “How Do I Know If I Have a Favorite Person?“

Next week we’ll be back to discuss what a “BPD Episode” is. Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tears on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode today!

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Episode terms (the ones we mentioned but didn’t expand on)

1. Schizotypal personality disorder: Schizotypal personality disorder is a psychological condition where a person experiences eccentric thoughts, behaviors, and difficulties in social interactions. Individuals with this disorder may have peculiar beliefs, unusual perceptual experiences, and struggle with maintaining close relationships.

2. "Checking the facts" (DBT skill): "Checking the facts" is a useful skill from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) that encourages individuals to examine and validate the accuracy of their thoughts and perceptions. By carefully questioning and gathering evidence, this skill helps people challenge their assumptions, minimize distortions, and make more informed and rational decisions. It promotes a balanced and objective perspective, leading to healthier and more effective problem-solving.

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About Us: 

The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!

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Disclaimer:

Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. 

Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️‍🩹

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Xannie, Andrea, Katja and Jay make lists of things they love to look back on when times get tough. Join us in this activity!

**Part 2 is here!** Xannie, Katja, Darren, Raf and Jay continue their conversation on dating with borderline personality disorder (BPD), this time focusing on the challenges associated with online dating.

Join Xannie, Katja, Darren, Raf, and Jay as they navigate the rollercoaster of dating with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Listen to their personal stories, get tips for overcoming challenges, and reflect on the complexities of relationships.The group explores everything from recognizing red flags to managing intense emotions, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and therapy in personal growth. Uncover strategies for effective communication, setting boundaries, and achieving balance in the dating world.Don't miss out on this insightful conversation that touches on embracing patience, self-compassion, and the unique journey each individual experiences. 🌟

Although this is our last episode of the season, we do have a mini episode on BPD and the favorite person coming out next week, on February 7. Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tears on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of episode 11.5 Today!

Come along with us as Xannie, Georgette, Raf, and Lena delve deep into a raw and honest exploration of shame and how it affects people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). 

The Bunch delve into the complex relationship between judgment, shame, and self-defense mechanisms. They also challenge societal expectations and judgments that may not be fair, and discuss the importance of learning to embrace self-compassion and your core values.

Whether you're personally dealing with BPD or just curious about it, this episode encourages you to think about the impact of shame and consider the changes you want to make on your journey of growth and healing.