You’ve seen the quotes.

“You can have it all.” But what does that even mean?

In this unfiltered episode, Rachel and David unpack the myth (and reality) of “having it all” as high-performing parents, business owners and health leaders.

Here’s what we dive into:

• Why “having it all” is relative and why most people are chasing someone else’s version
• The identity shift required to actually get the results you say you want
• Why your standards (not your schedule) dictate whether you win in health, business, and life
• The hard truth about motherhood, burnout, and building a life that actually feels good
• Why most women over 35 are living boring, disconnected lives and how to fix it
• The concept of “social atrophy” and how it’s quietly eroding your joy and confidence
• How to run a business, raise a family, and still feel sexy, free, and powerful

If you’ve ever felt behind, resentful, or like you’re constantly dropping the ball somewhere in your life, this one’s for you.

Because yes, you can have it all. Just not if you're living by someone else’s rules.

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At Chase Life Consulting our mission is to empower half a million female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically. 

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life. 

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader and high value woman.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team - www.chaselifeconsulting.com xx 🦅💫🤍

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: [email protected]

IG - @therachelgodfrey / @dxgodfrey

You don’t need another planner. You don’t need another reset. And you definitely don’t need another “motivational” morning routine. 

If you’re a high-achieving woman who’s done every program, every protocol, and STILL finds herself stuck in an all-or-nothing cycle, this episode is for you!

Rachel & David Godfrey go all in on: 

• The real reason you can’t stay consistent (and no, it’s not your willpower) 
• Why “completion addiction” is killing your results 
• How tying your self-worth to productivity keeps you chasing, never arriving 
• The toxic lie of hustle culture masked as “discipline” 
• The truth about motherhood, business, and maintaining your body without burnout 

You’ll learn how to break the identity loop that’s keeping you stuck and finally embody the version of you who doesn’t fall off, because she no longer negotiates with her old self. 

This is about performance, identity and finally living like the woman you say you want to be.

CONNECT WITH US!

At Chase Life Consulting our mission is to empower half a million female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically. 

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life. 

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader and high value woman.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team - www.chaselifeconsulting.com xx 🦅💫🤍

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: [email protected]

IG - @therachelgodfrey / @dxgodfrey

In this episode of the Chase Life Podcast, Rachel and David Godfrey reveal the deeper reasons high-performing women struggle with consistency in health, fitness, and life.

It’s not your calendar.

It’s not your to-do list.

It’s your identity.

If you’ve ever felt like no system is “the system” that will help you stay in shape year-round, or that you’re always just one launch, one crisis, one deadline away from dropping your standards—this episode is your mirror.

Rachel and David break down two of the biggest patterns sabotaging high achievers:

• The Human Doing: Tying your self-worth to how productive you are.
• Completion Addiction: Obsessing over getting things finished before you “deserve” to rest, eat, or live your life.

They share how these patterns played out in their own careers, what really changed things, and why most people confuse perfectionism with high standards (spoiler: they’re not the same thing).

You'll also learn:

• Why your “flow state” might be bullsh*t
• How Rachel launched the ONYX app without burning out
• The one concept that separates A-players from overwhelmed overachievers
• Parenting, productivity, and finding the sweet spot between ambition and presence
• Why most people delay their goals in the name of being "smart"... and just end up stuck

This episode is for the woman who’s done with the excuses, the stress addiction, and the all-or-nothing mindset—and is ready to win across every area of life.

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Website: chaselifeconsulting.com

📲 Connect with David (if you must 😉)

Instagram: @dxgodfrey

WHAT WE DO AND HOW WE CAN HELP

At Chase Life Consulting our mission is to empower half a million female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically. 

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life. 

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader and high value woman.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team - www.chaselifeconsulting.com xx 🦅💫🤍

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: [email protected]

In this powerhouse crossover episode of The Chase Life Podcast and The Mastery Podcast, Rachel Godfrey and Mark Coles unite to deliver an unfiltered, real-world conversation on what it truly takes to thrive in business, body, and life.

Together, they pull back the curtain on nearly four decades of combined experience in high performance coaching and entrepreneurship—sharing personal stories, professional pivots, and the behind-the-scenes struggles no one talks about.

🔥 In this episode, we unpack:

• The myth of "balance" and why chaos has a role in growth
• How to know if entrepreneurship is really for you
• The power of emotional stability and identity in scaling a business
• Building a business and a body with the same discipline
• Navigating marriage, family, and ambition without sacrificing yourself
• Why personal evolution is the real strategy behind business success

Whether you're scaling your business, rebuilding your identity, or breaking free from hustle culture, this episode will hit deep and challenge you to rise.

🔗 Connect with Rachel: Website – chaselifeconsulting.com Instagram – @therachelgodfrey

🔗 Connect with Mark: Instagram – @markcolesm10

CONNECT WITH US!

At Chase Life Consulting our mission is to empower half a million female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically. 

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life. 

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader and high value woman.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team - www.chaselifeconsulting.com xx 🦅💫🤍

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: [email protected]

IG - @therachelgodfrey / @dxgodfrey

In this episode of The Chase Life Podcast, Rachel and David break down perfectionism, why high achievers fall into its trap, and how it's secretly sabotaging your success in business, health, and life.

They cover:

• Why perfectionism is NOT high standards (and why it's actually the lowest standard)
• How perfectionism keeps you stuck in self-doubt, stress, and overwork
• The ‘campaign lifestyle’ trap that causes burnout & inconsistency
• How perfectionists sabotage their health, weight loss, and body goals
• The difference between high-achievers who thrive and those who burn out
• How to raise your standards WITHOUT self-sabotage
• Why identity shifts are the key to lasting transformation
• The practical mindset shifts to overcome perfectionism for good

If you’re constantly feeling like you’re falling behind, not doing enough, or stuck in an all-or-nothing cycle, this episode is for you. Break free from perfectionism and start winning—on your terms.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: Why perfectionism is the biggest A-player trap 02:16 – Perfectionism vs. High Standards—They Are NOT the Same 07:42 – The real reason high achievers get addicted to stress & overwork 12:52 – Why perfectionists feel like they’re always failing (and how to stop) 16:37 – How perfectionism kills business growth & personal branding 19:55 – Masculine ‘push’ energy vs. Feminine ‘attract’ energy in business 23:00 – Social media & perfectionism: How being ‘too vanilla’ is losing you clients 28:24 – The difference between high standards and perfectionism in elite careers (doctors, lawyers, CEOs) 33:25 – The discipline of non-negotiables: Why you need a clear ‘minimum standard’ 37:11 – Personal integrity: Keeping promises to yourself is the key to success 42:09 – Fat loss & fitness: Why most people aren’t doing the BASICS 46:15 – The truth about weight loss plateaus & why people quit too soon 47:02 – Identity shifts: The only way to create permanent success 48:18 – Why successful people always get criticized—& how to deal with it 48:36 – Final thoughts + How to work with Rachel & David

CONNECT WITH US!

DM Rachel on Instagram:  @therachelgodfrey

Email:  [email protected] [email protected]

www.chaselifeconsulting.com

In this episode of The Chase Life Podcast, Rachel and David dive deep into the power of identity shifts, energy, and manifestation, sparked by David’s recent experience at Dr. Joe Dispenza’s workshop in Switzerland.

They discuss:

• How science meets spirituality in transformation and high performance
• The importance of identity change before achieving success
• How subconscious beliefs shape relationships, business, and health
• The role of energy, frequency, and intention in creating reality
• Stories of medical miracles, financial breakthroughs, and unexpected success
• Why problem-oriented thinking holds people back from their goals
• Practical psychology vs. woowoo manifestation—are they really different?
• How Rachel and David manifested each other (and how you can apply the same principles in your life)

They also share client case studies, including how a simple shift in energy turned a five-year struggle into an overnight success.

If you’re ready to step into abundance, confidence, and alignment, this episode is a must-listen.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: David’s experience at Dr. Joe Dispenza’s workshop

01:24 – Science vs. spirituality: Why identity change comes first

03:56 – How subconscious beliefs sabotage relationships

07:20 – Defying physics? Medical miracles and mind-body transformation

10:46 – Energy, frequency, and how to hold the vibration for success

16:08 – Why unlucky people stay unlucky (and how to break the cycle)

17:32 – How thoughts create illness (real talk from a neurologist)

21:06 – The power of prolonged meditations and brainwave training

28:39 – A client’s 5-year struggle turned into an overnight success

30:47 – How manifestation actually works (and why people get it wrong)

37:12 – Emotional fitness: The key to regulating your energy

39:22 – The biggest mindset shift to own your power unapologetically

42:48 – Why high-achieving women are told to “dim their light”

48:20 – Owning your power without turning life into a fight

55:18 – Rachel & David’s manifestation story (from opposite sides of the world)

56:19 – Final thoughts: No regrets, just stories—seize your opportunities

CONNECT WITH US!

DM Rachel on Instagram:  @therachelgodfrey

Email:  [email protected] [email protected]

www.chaselifeconsulting.com

Many trainers and coaches in the fitness, weight loss and dieting space will sell you the dream of being able to lose weight without giving up your favourite foods and wine.

This is unfortunately a recipe for failure, frustration, and misery in the long term.

In this episode we discuss the claims and arguments you’ll frequently hear, why these claims only work short term, and the physiological and psychological reasons why they fail long term.

We also discuss why developing emotional fitness and emotional freedom is the path to weight loss that lasts and even feels effortless – without having to suffer from FOMO ever again.

CONNECT WITH US!

At Chase Life Consulting our mission is to empower half a million female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically. 

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life. 

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader and high value woman.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team - www.chaselifeconsulting.com xx 🦅💫🤍

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: [email protected]

IG - @therachelgodfrey / @dxgodfrey

In this episode, we’re diving into the incredible story of Karen – a top-tier expert witness with an extraordinary career and a lifestyle that many would envy. On the outside, everything seemed perfect... but behind the success, Karen was struggling with self-judgment, self-punishment, and a deep sense of being lost.

Like so many high achievers, she was constantly striving for something, yet nothing ever seemed to fill the void. But here’s the twist: just a few months later, Karen’s life is completely unrecognizable. She’s moved to a new country, landed a new job, and feels more fulfilled and at peace than ever before. Oh, and by the way – she’s also dropped two dress sizes…without even trying!

In this episode, Karen opens up about the profound epiphanies that turned everything around for her. These life-changing insights might just be the spark you need to make your own transformation.

You don’t want to miss this one!

CONNECT WITH US!

At Chase Life Consulting our mission is to empower half a million female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically. 

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life. 

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader and high value woman.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team - www.chaselifeconsulting.com xx 🦅💫🤍

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: [email protected]

IG - @therachelgodfrey / @dxgodfrey

Planning ahead and being organised with food is a non-negotiable if you want to be in shape year-round.

However, this is something a surprising number of people struggle with.

This becomes even more important for the typical high achiever who is already time poor, stressed, frequently has the day run away from them, and is already on the verge of decision fatigue.

As James Clear said, “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”

In this episode we discuss how to build a system that is as easy and automated as possible, freeing up your brain space, whilst giving you the consistency you need to succeed in your body and health goals, and be in shape year-round, regardless of how busy or stressful work and life become.

We also dive deep into the underlying psychology, and how to overcome the blockages, resistance, and self-sabotage mechanisms that prevent people from being able to build a reliable system.

CONNECT WITH US!

At Chase Life Consulting our mission is to empower half a million female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically. 

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life. 

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader and high value woman.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team - www.chaselifeconsulting.com xx 🦅💫🤍

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: [email protected]

IG - @therachelgodfrey / @dxgodfrey

Identity is one of the most important elements in weight loss.

It means the difference between temporary weight loss followed by rebound – and lasting weight loss that completely transforms your life.

Over the long term, all your habitual thoughts, feelings and behaviours will come into alignment with your sense of identity.

Which is why so many people can force behaviour change in the short term, but it doesn’t last long term.

In this episode we dive deep into identity and identity change, including:

• Why it doesn’t take 66 days to form a habit, and why mindless repetition on its own doesn’t form lasting habits.
• Why identity change needs to precede, or at the very least coincide, with behaviour change.
• Why most personal development and self help backfires and only reinforces inadequacy and not feeling good enough.
• How identity change makes weight loss go from feeling like a fight, to feeling almost effortless, and how it eliminates resistance, internal conflicts and self sabotage.
• The HOW: The 3 step process for transforming and upgrading your identity and wholeheartedly embodying the next level iteration of your limitless self! 

CONNECT WITH US!

At Chase Life Consulting our mission is to empower half a million female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically. 

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life. 

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader and high value woman.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team - www.chaselifeconsulting.com xx 🦅💫🤍

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: [email protected]

IG - @therachelgodfrey / @dxgodfrey