The chaser and the runner, the pursurer and the distancer, the anxious and the avoidant. The push and the pull. This pattern is one of the most common patterns in a relationship and it causes an immense amount of suffering. Jillian teaches that this cycle goes beyond attachement theory and describes how our needs for both connection AND autonomy are the reason behind everyone will struggle with this cycle many times throughout their love lives. 
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The Chaser and the Runner: The Pattern that Destroys a Relationship

Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself. 
Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you.
Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships.
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Jillian finally addresses the trauma associated with being "highly sensitive" and an "empath" and how one's sensitivity impacts their relationships and makes them more susceptible to attaching to toxic people. But, there is a way out. And Jillian explains in detail how.

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The Highly Sensitive Empath and The Narcissist

Relationships rarely end because of a lack of love. They more commonly end because of a lack of connection. And it is the absence of connection that makes us feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. In this important episode, Jillian shares the real reasons why strong, well-aligned couples can easily sabotage their relationship unconsciously.
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The Real Reason Why Relationships Fall Apart

Get ready to learn communication skills you have never learned before. Jillian welcomes former FBI hostage negotiator and bestselling author Chris Voss to the show. Together, they have a fascinating conversation about the art and science of masterful communication. Get ready to take notes and put his techniques to the test as soon as possible.

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How To Become an Incredible Communicator with Chris Voss

In this important episode, Jillian clarifies what makes a relationship UNHEALTHY, and the very things we need to both look for in another and develop within ourselves in order to have a high functioning relationship.

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The Most Important Green Flags Everyone Needs to Have

This episode has one objective: to shed light onto why many people are single despite their best efforts and deep longing to be in a relationship. Jillian dives deep into the seven possible subconscious blocks you may have to finding love.
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The Chaser and the Runner: The Pattern that Destroys a Relationship

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