The Thais Gibson Podcast

The Fearful Avoidant’s 12 Core Wounds


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Do you often feel intense emotional reactions but can’t always pinpoint why?


In this powerful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais unpacks the 12 core wounds that most commonly affect individuals with a Fearful Avoidant attachment style—alongside the emotions they spark. Whether you identify as a Fearful Avoidant or love someone who does, this deep dive will help you understand, name, and ultimately transform the subconscious beliefs that cause inner turmoil and relational tension.


What You’ll Learn in This Episode:


✔️ Why Fearful Avoidants tend to have the most core wounds of all attachment styles

✔️ How childhood trauma imprints emotional "landmines" in the subconscious

✔️ The top wounds—like I will be betrayed, I am bad, I’m unworthy—and their emotional patterns

✔️ What subconscious emotions are really trying to tell you

✔️ How core wounds like I am unsafe, I am stupid, and I’ll be attacked show up in adult relationships

✔️ The link between shame, hypervigilance, emotional outbursts, and perfectionism

This episode offers a clear, compassionate guide to recognizing your pain points so you can finally start to heal them at the root.


Meet Your Host:

Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leading voice in attachment theory and emotional healing. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience, she’s helped over 70,000 students in 120+ countries reprogram their subconscious patterns and build thriving relationships.


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