Why you keep getting blindsided:

Reason 2- You are not adjusting your standards & non-negotiables accordingly. You’re comparing each new man you date to your ex instead of comparing new men to a new list of your requirements.

This episode will help you to recognize this pattern & give you steps on how to change it.

You’re trying to see the best in him.

Reason 1-you are not a good judgement of character or you refuse to judge him period. You find yourself trying to see the best in him & give him the benefit of the doubt (when you should be doubting him).

This episode I dive into how to break out of the habit of “trying to see the best” in a man & see him for who he’s really showing you.

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You know your worth, you’re just taking it personal that he doesn’t.

Don’t.

Why want a man who doesn’t value all of who you are?

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It’s time to center yourself & de-center men for good. It doesn’t mean you hate men or never want a man again, it just means you’re not losing yourself in a man or a relationship.

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I’ve recently been in my disciplined, go get it girl era & I feel sooo much better about myself & my life! Being more disciplined works y’all lol.

If I had known the other side felt like this, I would’ve been started.

So, I’m sharing how I got unstuck & just got up!

A major part was getting out my damn feelings & helpless state.

I hope this episode is the mindset shift you need to GET UP 👏🏽

Bonus episode on my Patreon here:

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Detached dating doesn’t mean you’re aloof or cold & not wanting love, it means you’re detached until you have the proper information about that man to know it’s safe to securely attach.

This episodes dives more into what detached dating is & how it can benefit your dating life.

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BONUS EPISODE on how men can fake being emotionally available just to get you attached here:

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Setting boundaries with family can be the hardest because you love them. and not to mention they sometimes equate you setting boundaries with them as disloyalty or disrespect.

Greenflags he has good intentions and truly wants to get to know you.

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Prepare to be called out--but in a loving, empathetic way.

I've been this girl too--feeling stuck or feeling behind in life.

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You can't always vet that a man is going to betray you...

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