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You didn't fail at being "a good girl." The standard was impossible from the start. ADHD women spend their whole lives playing a game they can't win—then get blamed for losing.
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What You'll Take Away:
ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® cuts into ADHD stigma for women in entrepreneurship to expose where internalized shame does the most damage.
The episode drills into expectations of perfection, masking, and why so many ADHD Entrepreneur women feel broken before they even get a diagnosis. Social norms demand women do everything effortlessly—plus mask every ADHD trait. That pressure erases real identities.
André rips into how these standards lead to losing track of who you are. Perfection, masking, and chasing what others want cost ADHD entrepreneurs time, confidence, and mental health.
If you're sick of being told you're failing someone else's test, this one's for you. Listen close—because no one wins by playing by rules made to keep you out.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
Books by Dr. Hinshaw
The Triple Bind: Saving Our Teenage Girls from Today's Pressures and Conflicting Expectations - https://www.amazon.ca/Triple-Bind-Pressures-Conflicting-Expectations/dp/0345504003
The ADHD Explosion: Myths, Medication, Money, and Today's Push for Performance - https://www.amazon.ca/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
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00:00 The Cost of Being a Good Girl
02:37 Stigma and Psychological Branding
05:07 Perfectionism and Societal Expectations
07:51 Empowerment and Ownership for Women
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
What did being a "good girl" cost you? Stigma isn't a buzzword — it keeps ADHD women silent, unseen, untreated. The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Stephen Hinshaw rip into why society still isn't catching ADHD in girls — and what it's costing all of us.
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What You'll Take Away:
GUEST BIO Dr. Stephen Hinshaw is a psychology professor at UC Berkeley and UC San Francisco. He led the largest long-term study of girls with ADHD, rewriting what we know about women's ADHD and why it matters right now.
www.hinshawlab.berkeley.edu
Books by Dr. Hinshaw
The Triple Bind: Saving Our Teenage Girls from Today's Pressures and Conflicting Expectations - https://www.amazon.ca/Triple-Bind-Pressures-Conflicting-Expectations/dp/0345504003
The ADHD Explosion: Myths, Medication, Money, and Today's Push for Performance - https://www.amazon.ca/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0
ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® exposes how stigma trains girls and women with ADHD to hide — not seek help. The Impulsive Thinker® talks with Dr. Stephen Hinshaw, a leading ADHD and stigma researcher.
They break down the triple bind: perfection, nurturing, achievement. ADHD women can't win, so they mask harder and break sooner. The cost? Crushed self-worth, missed diagnoses, and internalized shame.
This isn't about awareness — it's about how false expectations get under your skin and block your growth as an ADHD Entrepreneur. Social media plays both sides: validation and a tidal wave of noise. Real stakes, real impact.
If you feel like you're faking it to "pass" and burning out anyway — you need this episode.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
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00:00 Understanding Stigma and Its Origins
08:38 The Triple Bind: Societal Expectations on Women
18:52 The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health
23:46 Navigating ADHD and Gender Dynamics
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
You keep your head down, play nice, and still get steamrolled by everyone else's expectations. ADHD isn't the problem — it's the world that ignores how you operate. The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Stephen Hinshaw call out what everyone else misses about masking, silence, and the cost of being invisible.
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What You'll Take Away:
ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® puts a spotlight on ADHD in women and girls, breaking down the silent damage masking causes. The Impulsive Thinker® pushes the conversation past clichés to show how suffering in silence compounds over years. Real data, not empty reassurance — everything discussed has lived experience and research behind it. If you've been told you're not trying hard enough, or if hiding has become your norm, this is why it matters in your business and life. Built for ADHD entrepreneurs tired of invisible struggles. Hit play and hear what nobody else is saying.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
Books by Dr. Hinshaw
The Triple Bind: Saving Our Teenage Girls from Today's Pressures and Conflicting Expectations - https://www.amazon.ca/Triple-Bind-Pressures-Conflicting-Expectations/dp/0345504003
The ADHD Explosion: Myths, Medication, Money, and Today's Push for Performance - https://www.amazon.ca/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
📃Download The Sh!t List™, my weekly planning tool.
📰Join the Impulsive Thoughts newsletter.
🔗Connect with me on LinkedIn.
👣Follow me on Instagram.
💻Check out our website.
👂🏼We want to hear from you! Send us your ideas, questions, or feedback Here.
00:00 Understanding ADHD in Women and Girls
05:04 The Impact of Masking and Societal Expectations
06:23 Changing Trajectories and Finding Support
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
What if your "train wreck" 20s and 30s weren't failure at all — just everyone missing your ADHD diagnosis? The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Stephen Hinshaw destroy the old stereotypes on women, masking, and why success leaves so many suffering in silence.
In This Episode:
What You'll Take Away:
GUEST BIO Dr. Stephen Hinshaw is a psychology professor at UC Berkeley and UC San Francisco. He led the largest long-term study of girls with ADHD, rewriting what we know about women's ADHD and why it matters right now.
www.hinshawlab.berkeley.edu
Books by Dr. Hinshaw
The Triple Bind: Saving Our Teenage Girls from Today's Pressures and Conflicting Expectations - https://www.amazon.ca/Triple-Bind-Pressures-Conflicting-Expectations/dp/0345504003
The ADHD Explosion: Myths, Medication, Money, and Today's Push for Performance - https://www.amazon.ca/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0
ABOUT THIS EPISODE The Impulsive Thinker® sits down with Dr. Stephen Hinshaw to break down the real ADHD experience for neurodivergent women and Entrepreneurs. Hear why most research ignored girls and what that cost in missed diagnoses, shame, and chaos. The episode digs into masking, self-injury, unplanned life consequences, and why classic ADHD stereotypes hurt more than help. Resilience, masking, and entrepreneurial strengths are redefined — no fluff, just blunt reality. This is for ADHD Entrepreneurs sick of society's measuring stick and shallow advice. If your chaos was survival, not failure — hit play.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
📃Download The Sh!t List™, my weekly planning tool.
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💻Check out our website.
👂🏼We want to hear from you! Send us your ideas, questions, or feedback Here.
00:00 Understanding ADHD in Women
03:56 The Longitudinal Study Insights
08:43 Consequences of Untreated ADHD
13:21 The Importance of Early Diagnosis
18:12 Masking and Societal Expectations
22:50 Finding Strengths and Coping Strategies
27:53 The Path Forward for Women with ADHD
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
You don't have to obey every urge your ADHD brain throws at you. Most therapy wasn't built for your wiring. The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down DBT for ADHD Entrepreneurs — and why the system doesn't fit until the neurobiology lines up.
In This Episode:
What You'll Take Away:
ABOUT THIS EPISODE This solo episode of The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down Scott Spradlin's approach to DBT for ADHD Entrepreneurs. The real question: What does it take to make therapy work for a brain that rejects most systems?
The Impulsive Thinker® digs into DBT's structure and why clinicians miss the mark without ADHD-specific training. He calls out the giant gap — nobody answers, "Is it me or my ADHD?" and most systems ignore real neurobiology.
Key takeaways include why you don't have to obey every impulse, how crisis pressure tricks your brain, and what genuine self-directed work looks like for ADHD adults. No waiting for the right therapist, group, or diagnosis — start with the workbook now.
If you've been told to "just do the work," but nobody talks about the real pain behind it, this episode pulls no punches. ADHD Entrepreneurs ready to stop obeying every urge — this is your episode.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
📃Download The Sh!t List™, my weekly planning tool.
📰Join the Impulsive Thoughts newsletter.
🔗Connect with me on LinkedIn.
👣Follow me on Instagram.
💻Check out our website.
👂🏼We want to hear from you! Send us your ideas, questions, or feedback Here.
00:00 Understanding DBT and ADHD
02:40 The Importance of Neurobiology in Therapy
05:48 Self-Help and Empowerment through DBT
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
Standard DBT isn't built for your ADHD brain. Structure, shame, and overwhelm — sound familiar? The Impulsive Thinker® and Scott Spradlin call out where therapy misses neurodivergent entrepreneurs.
In This Episode:
What You'll Take Away:
GUEST BIO Scott Spradlin is a Kansas-based licensed counsellor and co-director at North Star TCC. He's co-authoring the first DBT Skills Workbook built for adult ADHD brains.
www.wisemindwiselife.com
www.northstartcc.com
Books by Scott
The DBT Skills Workbook for Adult ADHD, with Mariah Spradlin (2026, New Harbinger)
Don't Let Your Emotions Run Your Life (2003, New Harbinger).
Follow Scott
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dbt4adhd
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisemindwiselife/
You might also be interested in: 🤔 ADHD Entrepreneur Blocked by Emotions? Get Unstuck Now! | Dr. Alexandra Philipsen | EP235
ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode breaks down why classic DBT does not work for most ADHD Entrepreneurs. The Impulsive Thinker® challenges therapy frameworks with Scott Spradlin, who is rewriting DBT for real neurodivergent adults. They get specific about why structure and homework overload flop for ADHD brains. The conversation uncovers the guilt, shame, and endless "just try harder" messages pushed by society's measuring stick. They cover how adapted DBT flexes for ADHD — and why flexibility and radical acceptance are what actually help Entrepreneurs. If therapy has ever felt like another system built to kick you out, hit play now.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
📃Download The Sh!t List™, my weekly planning tool.
📰Join the Impulsive Thoughts newsletter.
🔗Connect with me on LinkedIn.
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💻Check out our website.
👂🏼We want to hear from you! Send us your ideas, questions, or feedback Here.
00:00 Introduction to DBT and ADHD
02:36 Understanding the Shortcomings of Traditional DBT
05:27 Adapting DBT for ADHD: The Neurobiological Perspective
09:47 Balancing Structure and Flexibility in DBT
12:02 Validation vs. Shame in Therapy
12:55 The New DBT Workbook for ADHD Adults
17:09 Distress Tolerance and Radical Acceptance in ADHD
21:05 The Importance of Understanding ADHD in Therapy
23:27 Conclusion and Resources
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
You keep doing everything yourself and wonder why nothing gets finished. ADHD isn't the problem—being measured by society's stick is. The Impulsive Thinker® gets real about why visionary brains stall and what's missing.
In This Episode:
The ADHD debate around medication and side effects Why every visionary needs a finisher — and what happens without one How belief from someone else actually changes outcomes
What You'll Take Away:
Medication isn't one-size-fits-all—try it, then decide for yourself Being both the idea generator and finisher is unsustainable for ADHD Entrepreneurs Hiring finishers isn't a luxury—it's how your business gets built You need people who see you and actually have faith in you Society's measuring stick doesn't fit your brain—stop chasing it
ABOUT THIS EPISODE This solo episode of The Impulsive Thinker® tackles ADHD Entrepreneur realities most won't admit. André Brisson challenges medication myths and the lost value of proper support in business.
From medication attempts to building personal systems, ADHD entrepreneurs hear why staying unmedicated isn't always about stubbornness—it's about impact and brain wiring. Visionary thinking gets examined: The Impulsive Thinker® explains why execution fails when you don't have the right finisher beside you.
The grind, the lost steam, and the missed outcomes are real. André gets blunt about hiring and why society's measuring stick screws with your sense of progress. If you never had someone who saw you—and believed you—the episode speaks straight to you.
Built for ADHD Entrepreneurs fed up with the "do it all yourself" lie. Press play if you're done being measured by standards that aren't yours.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
This conversation was based on my Substack article: Still Putting Lipstick On A Pig - have a read!
You might also like: 🚫 ADHD Entrepreneur: Is Medication Fear Keeping You Stuck? | Dr. William Dodson | EP383
Dr. William Dodson is one of the first psychiatrists to focus on adult ADHD. His insights punch through the surface noise for real ADHD Entrepreneurs who want respect, not pity.
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
📃Download The Sh!t List™, my weekly planning tool.
📰Join the Impulsive Thoughts newsletter.
🔗Connect with me on LinkedIn.
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💻Check out our website.
👂🏼We want to hear from you! Send us your ideas, questions, or feedback Here.
00:00 Navigating Medication and ADHD
02:33 The Visionary-Finisher Dynamic
05:33 The Importance of Support and Belief
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
You can't fake being neurotypical. Meds might help, but systems matter more. If you're tired of hearing "just try harder," this is your episode.
In This Episode:
What You'll Take Away:
ABOUT THIS EPISODE The Impulsive Thinker® questions the world's measuring stick for ADHD Entrepreneurs. Dr. Bill Dodson confronts what systems and medication actually can — and can't — do for the ADHD brain in business.
They rip open "importance" and expose why urgency moves you — not to-do lists or neurotypical pressure. Partnership, awareness, and owning your difference run through every minute.
This isn't a pep talk. It's a breakdown of what works, what never will, and why you need to toss out everyone else's templates. The rules are different, and pretending otherwise keeps you stuck.
If playing by their rules is burning you out, hit play now.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
This conversation was based on my Substack article: Still Putting Lipstick On A Pig - have a read!
You might also like: 🚫 ADHD Entrepreneur: Is Medication Fear Keeping You Stuck? | Dr. William Dodson | EP383
GUEST BIODr. William Dodson is one of the first psychiatrists to focus on adult ADHD. His insights punch through the surface noise for real ADHD Entrepreneurs who want respect, not pity.
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
📃Download The Sh!t List™, my weekly planning tool.
📰Join the Impulsive Thoughts newsletter.
🔗Connect with me on LinkedIn.
👣Follow me on Instagram.
💻Check out our website.
👂🏼We want to hear from you! Send us your ideas, questions, or feedback Here.
00:00 The Role of Medication and Engagement in ADHD
00:46 Understanding ADHD: The Inner Distractions
02:03 Medication vs. Non-Medication Strategies
03:50 The Importance of Finding the Right Clinician
05:39 The Role of Medication in Managing ADHD
06:51 Unique Strengths of ADHD Minds
09:06 The Need for Advocacy and Support
11:09 Entrepreneurship and ADHD: A Unique Challenge
13:44 The Power of Diverse Teams
15:01 The Value of Coaching and Support
16:34 The Importance of Awareness in ADHD Management
20:04 The Role of a Cheerleader in ADHD Success
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
ADHD isn't a superpower. It's not a deficit. The world is coded for the wrong operating system — and you're paying the price every day as an ADHD Entrepreneur.
In This Episode:
Smashed myths about superpower and deficit labels in ADHD Why interest — not importance — drives ADHD Entrepreneurs Society's measuring stick and how it warps your self-perception
What You'll Take Away:
ADHD is a brain wiring difference — not your identity School and business systems measure you against the wrong standards Interest is a requirement for action, not a preference Success depends on setting up your own measuring stick The system isn't changing, so you build your own environment
ABOUT THIS EPISODE This solo episode of The Impulsive Thinker® tears down the "ADHD is a superpower" myth and sets the record straight. The Impulsive Thinker® exposes why labeling ADHD as better or worse misses the reality for neurodivergent Entrepreneurs. The episode covers how society's measuring stick punishes difference — and why interest, not importance, controls your motivation. André Brisson explains the impact on business, education, and personal identity for ADHD brains. These topics matter because the system isn't built for you, and you need tools to build your own way. If you're ready to stop apologizing — this episode tells you how.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
This conversation was based on my Substack article: Still Putting Lipstick On A Pig - have a read!
You might also like: 🚫 ADHD Entrepreneur: Is Medication Fear Keeping You Stuck? | Dr. William Dodson | EP383
Dr. William Dodson is one of the first psychiatrists to focus on adult ADHD. His insights punch through the surface noise for real ADHD Entrepreneurs who want respect, not pity.
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
📃Download The Sh!t List™, my weekly planning tool.
📰Join the Impulsive Thoughts newsletter.
🔗Connect with me on LinkedIn.
👣Follow me on Instagram.
💻Check out our website.
👂🏼We want to hear from you! Send us your ideas, questions, or feedback Here.
00:00 Debunking the ADHD Superpower Myth
02:54 Understanding ADHD as a Different Operating System
06:02 The Importance of Interest-Based Motivation
08:16 Creating a Personalized Measuring Stick
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
Tired of "ADHD is a superpower" platitudes? So is The Impulsive Thinker®. This episode tears the mask off what holds ADHD Entrepreneurs back — and what drives them forward when the world has a problem with difference.
In This Episode:
What You'll Take Away:
This conversation was based on my Substack article: Still Putting Lipstick On A Pig - have a read!
You might also like: 🚫 ADHD Entrepreneur: Is Medication Fear Keeping You Stuck? | Dr. William Dodson | EP383
GUEST BIODr. William Dodson is one of the first psychiatrists to focus on adult ADHD. His insights punch through the surface noise for real ADHD Entrepreneurs who want respect, not pity.
ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® is a raw look at ADHD strengths, the double-edged reality of out-of-the-box brains, and why forcing yourself into a neurotypical mold never works. The Impulsive Thinker® sits down with Dr. William Dodson to ask why the world still judges ADHD Entrepreneurs by someone else's measuring stick. They tear down the myth that ADHD is a deficit or a strength — it's a difference the system refuses to accept.
The discussion reveals survival strategies for ADHD Entrepreneurs. From the system's obsession with conformity to the true sources of ADHD motivation — interest, challenge, novelty, urgency, and passion — nothing is sugarcoated. Real-world failures. Burnout. Hyperfocus at a cost.
If you're tired of repackaged affirmations and want the truth about why your brain and business clash with society's expectations, this episode delivers. Built for ADHD Entrepreneurs who are done apologizing for not fitting in. If you've ever been told your way is wrong — hit play.
Email me about it at [email protected]. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
🧠Check out the ADHD Simplified® online course - coming soon! Join the waitlist for a special discount!
📃Download The Sh!t List™, my weekly planning tool.
📰Join the Impulsive Thoughts newsletter.
🔗Connect with me on LinkedIn.
👣Follow me on Instagram.
💻Check out our website.
👂🏼We want to hear from you! Send us your ideas, questions, or feedback Here.
00:00 Understanding ADHD: Beyond the Superpower Narrative
02:46 The Positive Aspects of ADHD
05:31 The Challenges of ADHD in a Neurotypical World
08:32 The School System and ADHD: A Mismatch
11:13 Engagement Factors for ADHD Individuals
13:51 Managing ADHD: The Intraspace Nervous System
16:45 Finding Your Unique Path with ADHD
19:41 The Role of Medication and Engagement in ADHD
23:49 The School System and Workplace Challenges
© 2025 The Impulsive Thinker®. All rights reserved. The Impulsive Thinker® and ADHD Simplified® are registered trademarks of Objective Engineering Inc.
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