Beyond Success

The Inner Game of Instagram and Dating Apps


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Following dating app advice from online dating gurus only works if you want to attract superficial hookups. And if you’re even semi-successful in your career, you’ll drown in gold diggers looking for a free meal.

Not only does this suffocate your wallet, but it can make you lose faith in all women — even emotionally mature ones who are capable of unconditional love.

But finding a loving relationship through Instagram or dating apps is easy when you understand the inner game of using these apps.

In this episode, you’ll discover the 3-part recipe for using Instagram and dating apps to find suitable, long-term partners. Listen to the episode now before you repel too many of these emotionally mature women away.

Show Highlights Include:

  • The sinister way using Tinder advice you find online ruins your chances of finding unconditional love (8:33)
  • Why taking professional pictures for your Tinder profile drives away potential matches (even if you think they make you look more attractive) (13:03)
  • The “Light and Fun” approach for your Tinder bio that makes you irresistible to the opposite sex (18:44)
  • Why enjoying your life helps you get more Tinder dates than any sneaky pickup artist trick in the world (20:08)
  • How being vulnerable helps you find unconditional love (and why leading with your vulnerability only lures women attracted to your weaknesses) (20:16)
  • Why texting a girl “what’s up?” almost guarantees she ghosts you (and what to text instead to build rapport) (24:51)
  • The “Snippet Secret” that “ethically forces” Tinder matches to reply to you (even if it’s been a few days since you talked) (26:43)
  • How therapeutic healing transforms your insecurities into attractiveness (43:18)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

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