Jared Freid joins Rory and they listen to an unconventional 'ghost' story from Carly... the two discuss 'hurt people, hurt people', being afraid of breaking up, icks, the problem with 'if he wanted to he would" and so much more.

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In honor of Spooky Season, October's theme is GHOSTING and today Rory sits down with OG love and dating podcasters Julie and Yue from DATEABLE. Together, they swap wild ghost stories, advice on dealing with rejection, thoughts on falling in love with yourself and so much more! You can listen to Datable HERE. To follow Dateable on IG click HERE.

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In honor of Spooky Season, October's theme is GHOSTING and today Chino shares a wild *in person* ghost story & guest Nick Norcia weighs in. Plus! Nick and Rory discuss bad dates, learning to release shame, Nick's three date rule, avoidant attachments and soooo much more.

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If you're interested in reading the books mentioned you can click on either: The Velvet Rage or The Ethical Slut.

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In honor of Spooky Season, October's theme is GHOSTING & we are kicking things off with an absolutely wild story from Ashleigh... and epic ghosting turned revenge story. And Bree Essrig joins to help discuss whether Ashleigh is the victim or the villain and so much more. The girls discuss dating siblings, cheating, bouncing back and how to be a professional sugar baby. To follow Bree on IG click HERE or Tiktok click HERE or check out her website here: https://linktr.ee/lilsummerhoe

For more insane stories from Ashleigh follow her on IG HERE or Tiktok HERE.

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In this episode, Rory Uphold speaks with actress Alisha Wainwright about how to win the breakup in the most bizarre way possible. And let’s just say Step #1 is to stop checking your ex's account at 5:10 in the morning. Special thanks to TikTok’s @bellafoofellah for sharing her chaotic breakup saga! To listen to Alisha's new podcast click HERE. To follow her on IG click HERE. And to learn more about Bella follow her on IG or TIKTOK.

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Baby daddies? Epic revenge? Coming out as queer? Marrying the love of your life? This weeks episode of Crimes of the Heart has it all! Plus, pop singer Betty Who stops by to give us tips on monogamy and her take on a WILD Australian "crime".

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In this episode, Rory Uphold tells quite possibly the craziest Grindr hookup story in the history of Grindr hookups. Let’s just say it involves TikTok’s @n0tjeffrey and more than your average whips and chains…Plus, New York Times best-selling author Jedidiah Jenkins drops by to give his take on kinks, fetishes, kidnapping and more!

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Rory Uphold tells the most insane story about a girl's quest for the perfect one night stand that turned into what could quite possibly be described as anyone’s worst nightmare. Plus, comedian Akilah Hughes drops by to give her take on this jaw-dropping tale and even gives some BJ advice for those of you who also have penis phobia.

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Rory is joined by lifelong/second generation matchmaker Tammi Pickle from Elite Connections Intl. to talk about dating trends, do's & don'ts and the 411 on using a matchmaker. If you're interested in learning more about Tammi or Elite Connections feel free to reach out to here here: https://www.eliteconnections.com/

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Rory Uphold is joined by Alexandra "Al" Fine, the CEO and Co-Founder of Dame Products to talk about the TABOO topic of female pleasure and how she has made it her mission to help close the pleasure gap. DAME is giving away four toys to Crimes of the Heart listeners. To be included in this giveaway sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/

To check out DAME and their A+ products click here: https://dame.com/

To follow them on IG click HERE or to Follow Al Fine click HERE.

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