In this episode, I talk about dealing with things as a means to becoming a better communicator... how to become clearer, have more understanding (of yourself and others), deal with conflict, be more curious, get out of your mind and make decisions faster.

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In this episode, I talk about finding yourself in the contrasts of life and 4 things you want to consider...

1 - The fastest way to figure out who you are is to know who you are not

2 - What you don’t like, doesn’t belong to you, it just reminds you more of what you are… it’s opposite

3 - When something comes up in your personal lives… don’t get defensive or strike back… learn to listen on multiple levels

4 - What you see in others could be telling you something you need to deal with in yourself

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In this episode, I talk about how nobody wants to tell you why discipline is so important and that it's the strongest form of self-love... it’s loving yourself enough to give yourself everything you’ve ever wanted.

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In this episode, I talk about our obsession with outcomes and how we might already be successful when we step back to see what's really going on.

I talk about a story between my father and I when he was in the hospital and I was at my lowest point from "losing everything" and rebuilding my life. In that moment, he gave me some of the greatest advice on...

1. "Success"
2. Why getting back up is the single most important thing we can do
3. How parents may view success of their children differently from the children themselves
4. Being in the game is where the success is, not the ending

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In this episode, I talk about not letting the human in you talk you out of the soul in you. I then go over 8 observations you can use on yourself.

1. You’re not uncertain, but you might need practice.
2. When you’re honest, things move faster for you.
3. When you don’t know if you’re reading the “signs” right from God, ask for the “billboard.”
4. Developing trust with ourselves is a marathon, not a sprint.
5. We have to detach from “needing” anything so we can learn to “be.”
6. Allow people into your life who hold you accountable to your purpose.
7. Don’t let the limits of being a human stop you from the limitlessness your soul can provide.
8. Spend 5 days in your purpose, even if it’s a vacation from your other life, and the contrast will be so great that the choice will be made for you.

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In this 1st intro episode I talk about why the Niche is You... not being defined by external roles and titles, understanding our purpose, gifts and talents, and how your soul is here to be so much more.

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