The Covert Narcissism Podcast

The Physical Signs You Didn’t Know Were Trauma Responses, Part 2: How to Calm a Dysregulated Nervous System After Covert Narcissistic Abuse


Listen Later

In Part 1, we uncovered the surprising physical symptoms of trauma that often go unnoticed — the jaw tension, the tinnitus, the eye twitching, the constant bracing your body learned to do in order to survive covert narcissistic abuse.

In Part 2, we continue that conversation by focusing on three symptoms that confuse survivors the most:

  • chest tightness — that “heart armor” feeling that makes it hard to breathe

  • digestive issues — nausea, bloating, IBS patterns, or a stomach that shuts down under stress

  • sleep disturbances — difficulty falling asleep, nighttime hyperarousal, and waking in panic

    These symptoms are some of the most deeply misunderstood — and often dismissed by medical providers who see “normal” test results but don’t understand trauma physiology.

    This episode breaks down why these symptoms happen, what your nervous system is trying to communicate through them, and how these reactions form in unsafe emotional environments.

    We’ll also explore the deeper theme underlying it all:
    Your body communicates through discomfort.
    Just like hunger isn’t a malfunction, your trauma symptoms aren’t malfunctions either — they are messages.

    Part 2 gives clarity, validation, and the beginning steps for understanding what your body has been trying to tell you for years.

    DISCLAIMER: THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE.

    THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED.


    Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    ...more
    View all episodesView all episodes
    Download on the App Store

    The Covert Narcissism PodcastBy Renee Swanson, Bleav

    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8

    4.8

    671 ratings


    More shows like The Covert Narcissism Podcast

    View all
    Betrayal Trauma Recovery by Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

    Betrayal Trauma Recovery

    1,420 Listeners

    Love and Abuse by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert

    Love and Abuse

    852 Listeners

    Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse by Abuse Survivor Network

    Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

    753 Listeners

    The Game EXPOSED: Narcissist & Narcissistic Abuse by Yaz

    The Game EXPOSED: Narcissist & Narcissistic Abuse

    443 Listeners

    The Mental Healness Podcast by Lee Hammock

    The Mental Healness Podcast

    1,167 Listeners

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs by Lisa A. Romano

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

    778 Listeners

    No Visible Bruises by Caroline Strawson

    No Visible Bruises

    517 Listeners

    Decoding Narcissism, Manipulation And Toxic Ideas, with Frederik Ribersson by Frederik Ribersson

    Decoding Narcissism, Manipulation And Toxic Ideas, with Frederik Ribersson

    142 Listeners

    Waking Up to Narcissism by Tony Overbay LMFT

    Waking Up to Narcissism

    693 Listeners

    Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani by iHeartPodcasts

    Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani

    1,746 Listeners

    Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse by Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.

    Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

    286 Listeners

    Surviving Narcissism with Dr. Les Carter by Dr. Les Carter

    Surviving Narcissism with Dr. Les Carter

    549 Listeners

    NARCISSISTIC ABUSE RECOVERY | Narcissist, Co-Parenting, Grey Rock Method, Boundaries, Healing, Toxic Relationship by Christy Jade - Narcissistic Abuse Coach, Grey Rock Coach , Gaslighting Expert,  No Contact Mentor

    NARCISSISTIC ABUSE RECOVERY | Narcissist, Co-Parenting, Grey Rock Method, Boundaries, Healing, Toxic Relationship

    81 Listeners

    You Are Not Crazy by Jessica Knight

    You Are Not Crazy

    87 Listeners

    Perfect Prey: A Coercive Control Podcast by Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola

    Perfect Prey: A Coercive Control Podcast

    131 Listeners