An honest consideration of the indecision between choosing your spouse or your affair partner, based on the personal experience and professional work of Tim Tedder, LMHC.

EPISODE NOTES

00:00 Introduction
02:05 A Story of Indecision
05:45 The Damage of Indecision
07:35 What Keeps You Stuck?
11:30 What I Wish I’d Known
12:40 Questions to Ask Yourself
14:40 Making Space to Consider
16:05 Regret and Opportunity

LINKS & EXTRAS

Need personal help? Set up a video session with Tim: https://www.affairhealing.com/tim-tedder-coaching

Download: Reclaiming a Marriage Perspective (exercise for Involved Partnters): https://www.affairhealing.com/blog/reclaim-perspective

Tim’s full affair story: https://www.affairhealing.com/affair-stories/tim-affair-story

Article: Is It Affair Fog or Real Love? https://www.affairhealing.com/affair-recovery-articles/affair-fog-or-real-love

Article: Making Change that Lasts (motivated by who you will BE) https://www.affairhealing.com/affair-recovery-articles/change-that-lasts