The Positivity Xperience

The Psychology of Avoidance: Why You Put Things Off (And How to Finally Stop)


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Do you constantly delay tasks, avoid hard conversations, or put off things you know would improve your life? You're not lazy—you’re human. And the truth is, avoidance is often a trauma-informed, fear-based coping mechanism that your brain uses to keep you “safe.”

In this powerful episode, we’re breaking down: 🔎 The psychological roots of avoidance (it’s not just procrastination) 🧠 How your brain links discomfort with danger (and how to override it) ⚠️ The real reason you’re stuck in self-sabotage, indecision, or overwhelm 🚫 Why avoidance creates more anxiety over time ✅ And how to shift from emotional avoidance to aligned action—without shame

If you’re tired of feeling behind, emotionally drained, or stuck in cycles of inaction, this episode will show you how to break the pattern with science-backed strategies and mindset shifts that actually work.

🎯 You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of yourself and clear, practical tools to stop putting things off and start showing up for your life—even when it’s uncomfortable.

👉 Listen now and take your power back.

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