Counselor Tim Tedder considers the line between fidelity and infidelity and examines two affair stories to gain insight into when and how the lines are crossed.

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast213

Counselors Tim and Sharon Tedder talk about common affair recovery myths including: affairs are evidence of a bad marriage; the first step in affair recovery should be marriage counseling; hiding painful information is better than causing more hurt; forgiveness requires trusting; an affair is too personal to talk about; the betrayed spouse will feel relieved once they get an answer to WHY the affair happened.

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast212

Counselors Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras talk about affair healing issues of worthiness, shame, and grace in their discussion of the book Loveable by Kelly Flanagan.

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast211

Three counselors, Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras, discuss eight truths about affair recovery that betrayed partners wish their partners understood.

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast210

Affair recovery counselor Tim Tedder explains the steps necessary for couples who, after an affair, want to experience intimacy and trust in their marriage again. He interviews Ryan and Jen who talk about their satisfying marriage seven years after Ryan confessed having multiple affairs.

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast209

Continuing in the Relationship Renewal strategy for couples building a new marriage after infidelity, Tim Tedder explains the fourth stage of Cooperation in which couples form a cooperating partnership to work toward agreed goals. (Relationship Renewal Stage. For earlier stages of Exposure, Reaction, and Clarity, listen to podcasts #118 and #120.)

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast207

Counseling is often an important part of affair recovery, but not every counseling choice or experience is a good one. Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, counselors who specialize in affair recovery issues, discuss eight important issues to consider when seeking therapy after infidelity.

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast205

After an affair, betrayed spouses often find themselves wanting to ask countless questions about the affair while the unfaithful spouse responds with resistance or anger. Counselors Tim and Sharon Tedder talk about each partner's role in affair recovery when it comes to questions and answers, offering specific strategies for couples to help them through this period of healing.

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast204

Counselors Tim Tedder and SharonTedder discuss the potential benefits of prescription medication in helping in the affair healing process and consider reasons some people are hesitant to consider using them. This episode includes comments from listeners who share their experience with taking meds.

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast203

Counselors Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras talk about forgiveness following an affair. What is forgiveness? What is it not? What gets in the way of forgiving infidelity? What are steps to help you move toward forgiving an unfaithful partner?

Episode Info & Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast202

[This episode also includes comments from listeners and a reading from The Hiding Place written by Corrie ten Boom. The following songs, available at ccMixter.org, were used in this recording: “ Virtutes Instrumenti” and "Reaching" by Kevin MacLeod, used with permission under Creative Commons License]