In this episode of The Roxanne Show, I sit down with the unapologetically raw Ellina Abovian — journalist, storyteller + woman in the wild process of BECOMING. Together we dive deep into the art of self-discovery, the courage to walk away from what no longer fits, + the beauty of rebuilding yourSELF from truth, not expectation.

They say certainty is safety. I say uncertainty is where your SPIRIT starts breathing again.

Ellina opens her heART about the moment she chose HERSELF — ending a 16-year marriage to step into the unknown + rewrite her story. We talk intuition, self-trust, + the bold act of standing in your authenticity even when the world doesn’t understand your evolution. This is a conversation for anyone standing at the edge of change — scared, curious, + ready.

Take this with you:

• There’s no “right” path — only the one that feels most like YOU.

• Self-trust is built inch by inch, choice by choice, day by day.

• Your rebirth will ask you to let go of who you were to become who you’re meant to be.

• Vulnerability isn’t weakness — it’s your greatest form of power.

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In this Q&A episode, I flip the script on ambition, surrender + SELF-TRUST — showing you why letting go might be the most courageous move you’ll ever make.

They say success is about pushing harder, but the truth is that vitality comes from releasing what no longer serves you + trusting your HEART to lead the way.

This isn’t about settling. It’s about EVOLVING. It’s about building standards rooted in your VALUES, not in the “shoulds” society tries to sell you.

So if you’ve been grinding yourself into exhaustion chasing someone else’s version of success, here’s your permission slip to stop. To trust. To surrender. To choose a life that feels FULL from the inside out.

Maybe you needed to read this today:

• Letting go doesn’t mean giving up — it means clearing space for your DREAMS.

• Your values are your compass. When you honor them, your standards RISE.

• Self-trust is built one BRAVE decision at a time.

• Not everyone is your teammate. Align with those who amplify your SOUL.

• Your heart isn’t just emotional — it’s STRATEGIC. It’s the most powerful guide you have.

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In this microsode, we’re breaking open the heARTwork of self-intimacy + the rebel truth about living in coherence with yourSELF.

This isn’t about fluffy self-love quotes or another “be yourself” pep talk. This is about building a SAFE inner home—where you can be raw, real, + non-judgmental with yourSELF.

Casey, a master at guiding people back to their core values, joins me to explore what it really means to live in alignment. We go deep into dismantling the inherited beliefs + unconscious scripts that quietly run the show in your life.

We’re talking about the DEATH of false identities—the shedding of borrowed values—so you can finally organize your inner world around what’s truly yours. Because that’s where authenticity lives. That’s where peace lives. That’s where YOU live.

KEY REVELATIONS:

• Misalignment isn’t random—it’s your soul waving the red flag.

• Most “shoulds” aren’t yours—they’re hand-me-down beliefs.

• Self-intimacy is the permission slip to meet every part of yourSELF.

• Coherence between your values + your actions is emotional freedom.

• To truly belong, you have to first belong to yourSELF.

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If you’ve ever felt torn between being real and being marketable, this episode is going to hit home.

In this raw + unfiltered conversation, I sit down with Kyle Creek — aka The Captain — to talk about the addictive nature of writing, the tension between art + commerce, and the challenge of staying true to yourself in a world that rewards clicks over authenticity.

Kyle shares what it’s really like to walk away from a comfortable career in advertising to carve out a life as a full-time writer — one that’s both liberating + brutally exposing. We dive deep into the pitfalls of personal branding, the pressure to perform online, and why Kyle refuses to bend to AI-driven content trends.

This episode is for every creator, writer, or human trying to reconcile their need for self-expression with the demands of a noisy, fast-moving digital world.

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This is not another pep talk about “faking it ‘til you make it.” This is about the kind of courage that moves you across the country with no safety net. The kind of self-trust that makes you leave a perfect-on-paper career to follow your SOUL.

In this raw + unapologetic conversation, I’m breaking down why courage does the heavy lifting that confidence gets glorified for—and why TRUST is the bridge to both. I share the moves that scared me most, the moments my intuition screamed louder than logic, and the decisions that rewrote my entire reality.

If you’ve been waiting for the confidence to show up before you make your next bold move—this is your wake-up call: choose courage first.

MAYBE YOU NEEDED TO HEAR THIS TODAY:

• Courage is the REAL catalyst—confidence is just the proof you made it through.

• Your highest timeline will never be built on betraying your HEART.

• Intuition isn’t reckless—it’s your soul’s GPS.

• Every bold choice reinforces your ability to trust yourSELF.

• Freedom requires risk. Playing safe is the fastest way to suffocate your dreams.

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In this high-octane episode, I sit down with former Navy SEAL Commander + author Rich Diviney to dive deep into the art of thriving in UNCERTAINTY. We break down what fear really is (hint: it’s uncertainty + anxiety), how to train yourSELF to face it, + why your potential lives outside the edges of your comfort zone.

Rich shares neuroscience-backed tools like Moving Horizons + DPO thinking (Duration, Pathway, Outcome) to help you navigate chaos with calm + clarity — whether you’re leading a team, pivoting in your career, or simply trying to find your next move.

We also go all in on the power of IDENTITY — because how can you know who the f*ck you are if you never test yourSELF? From courage to confidence to self-leadership, this conversation is a roadmap for building unshakable trust in yourSELF + embracing the beautiful unknown.

HIGHLIGHTS FROM OUR CONVERSATION:

• Fear = uncertainty + anxiety. Reduce one, and you reclaim your power.

• Your potential only reveals itself when you step beyond comfort.

• True confidence isn’t about guarantees — it’s knowing you’ll find a way through.

• Your identity isn’t fixed. You get to shape it by the challenges you take on.

• The quality of your life is tied to the quality of questions you ask daily.

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This powerful clip is from episode 325.

They’ll tell you to wait for the right time... the perfect plan... the guaranteed outcome. I say—fuck the guarantees. The right time is the moment your SOUL says go.

In this microsode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to leap into the unknown + trust yourSELF enough to fly without a net.

After one of our listeners asked me how I made one of the biggest decisions of my life, I took a trip down memory lane—to the moment I walked away from a thriving career in the makeup industry to follow my dharma into creating, writing + speaking.

No map. No guarantees. Just the gut-deep knowing that my future SELF needed me to say yes.

And then, a conversation with another community member opened the question: Does trusting yourself mean you always make the “right” decision?

Spoiler—it doesn’t. True trust is about honoring yourSELF, learning through every outcome, + never abandoning your dreams in the face of uncertainty.

MAYBE YOU NEED TO HEAR THIS TODAY:

• Uncertainty isn’t a threat—it’s the open door to your true path.

• Self-trust is built in the fire, not in the comfort zone.

• The EXPERIENCE is the reward—even when the result looks different than you pictured.

• The most empowering decisions are the ones that align with your SOUL, not your fear.

• Every challenge is a training ground for the next level of yourSELF.

  
  

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In this new episode, I sit down with renowned Relationship Coach, Stefanos Sifandos, to unravel the truth about Masculine & Feminine energies + what it really takes to create authentic relationships.

If you’ve been craving a deeper connection—within yourSELF or with someone else—this conversation is for you.

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In this episode, I’m inviting you to come home to your Original SELF- Your Spirit—the truest, most unedited version of you.

I share what it means to be on your own team and why surrounding yourself with soul-aligned “teammates” can amplify your mission, your joy, and your whole experience of being alive.

From Blondie to Bruce Lee, I call on iconic spirit guides to remind us that authenticity isn’t static—it’s a living, breathing force that will evolve you if you let it. This is my rally cry to live from desire, choose hunger over comfort, and build relationships that meet you on your soul’s frequency.

If you’ve been living a life that looks shiny from the outside but feels flat on the inside, here’s your permission slip to start playing full out.

Some Thought Seeds I Dive Into:

• Why your spirit is the “OG you” and how to reconnect with it.

• The power of being on your own team—and what that actually looks like day-to-day.

• How aligned relationships can expand your vision and accelerate your evolution.

• The danger of chasing aesthetics over essence—and how to flip it.

• What it means to live with hunger, desire, and a willingness to evolve.

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In this conversation with Spiritual Psychologist, Best-Selling author, and Master Coach Christine Hassler, we dive into the raw, beautiful truth of what it really means to LOVE yourSELF—to heal the inner child, to face what hurts, and to grow into the next version of your authentic spirit.

Self-love isn’t about liking every part of you. It’s about accepting them. It’s about boundaries. It’s about finally doing the thing your inner child has resisted for years.

Christine and I open up what true integration looks like, why safety is the gateway to freedom, and how masculine + feminine energies must move together if you want to live fully alive.

If you’ve been stuck in Self-criticism, childhood wounds, or the myth that purpose equals vocation, this episode is your permission slip to rewrite the story + come back HOME to love.

Maybe you needed to hear this today:

• SELF-love isn’t about liking yourself—it’s about accepting yourSELF, even the parts you judge.

• Boundaries aren’t about controlling others—they’re about regulating YOUR energy + honoring YOUR capacity.

• Your inner child is still driving more of your decisions than you think.

• Healing is meeting them with compassion.

• Integration is where transformation actually happens—not just the “a-ha” moment.
  Spiritual evolution means moving past fear + judgment into LOVE.

• Purpose isn’t only what you do—it’s who you BECOME.

That’s exactly what Christine Hassler + I dive into in this week’s episode.

The messy, powerful truths of love, safety, integration, and becoming the most authentic version of yourSELF.

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