Real leadership isn’t about being perfect.
It’s about being true to yourself and others.

In this episode of The Roxanne Show, I answer your powerful questions about self-respect, emotional leadership, and the courage to show up authentically, even when it’s messy.

I dive into the realities of maintaining high standards in relationships, the truth about being perceived as “strong,” and how to lead with compassion without losing yourself in the process.

This episode is for you if you ever felt guilty for raising your standards or walking away, struggles with being seen as “the strong one”, wanted to lead without abandoning your softness, or wondered how to connect with a powerful, secure woman from a place of truth and integrity.

💎 What it really means to have high standards – and why it’s not about being “too much”

💎 How to release shame from past relationship choices and reclaim your clarity

💎 Why emotional responsibility is the real strength in leadership

💎 How to be Self-sufficient without becoming emotionally unavailable

💎 The difference between performing “strength” vs. embodying your power

Gems In This Episode:

This powerful clip is from episode 298 with Dene Logan—therapist, truth-teller, + author of the incredible book, Sovereign Love.

We flip the script on what we’ve been taught about love, power, + personal wholeness.

We discuss the wounded Masculine paradigm, the reclamation of your Feminine intelligence, + the one radical truth sovereignty in love starts with.

• Love doesn’t come to complete you – it comes to mirror you.

• We’re not here to play out power dynamics. We’re here to heal them.

• Masculine + feminine are sacred energies – waiting to be remembered, balanced, and embodied.

• Self-trust isn’t optional. It’s the assignment.

• True connection begins with the courage to be fully seen – first, by yourSELF.

HIGHLIGHTS OF OUR TALK:

•  How love doesn’t come to complete you – it comes to mirror you.

• We’re not here to play out power dynamics. We’re here to heal them.

• Masculine + feminine are sacred energies – waiting to be remembered, balanced, and embodied.

• Self-trust isn’t optional. It’s the assignment.
• True connection begins with the courage to be fully seen – first, by yourSELF.

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Manifestation isn’t about faking positivity. It’s about owning your frequency and trusting your power.It isn’t about bypassing hard emotions. It’s about becoming fluent in your energy. It’s about integrity – between what you say you want and what you’re actually resonating with, because your frequency doesn’t lie. And when you learn to own it... Everything changes.In this episode of The Roxanne Show, I talk about the real mechanics of manifestation.I debunk some myths and zone in on what manifesting was always meant to be: a practice of Self-leadership, a dance with energy, resonance, and belief, a return to trusting yourself.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:Why “thinking positive” isn’t the key to manifesting (and what actually is)The truth about emotional frequency and personal responsibilityHow belief shapes reality – and what it means to see it when you believe itThe critical role of self-trust in magnetizing your desiresWhy manifesting gets to feel playful, intuitive, and powerful------------------------CHAPTERS:0:00 Introduction: Emotional Frequency and Trust0:37 Demystifying Manifesting Myths2:01 Influence of Optimism and Positivity5:16 Managing Emotional Responsibility12:17 The Role of Self-Awareness in Manifesting13:40 Belief and Identity in Manifesting18:26 Impact of Thinking and Belief Systems22:56 Manifesting Dreams with Intentionality25:03 Understanding Timing and Trust30:57 Closing Thoughts: Trust and Manifesting Fun---------------------------YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Star rating + review HERE: https://lovethepodcast.com/theroxanneshowFREE RESOURCES

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Self-devotion isn't selfish. It's your path to freedom.

I sat down with the brilliant Casey Stevens, a spiritual psychologist whose work spans across personal evolution, emotional truth, and nervous system healing and wisdom.

Highlights From This Conversation :

• How your nervous system holds keys to your authentic path

• The link between self-intimacy and relational intimacy

• Why conditioning isn’t your fault—but undoing it is your responsibility

• The courage it takes to choose yourself (and why it’s worth it)

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This powerful clip is from episode 285.

In this radically REAL microsode, I sit down with one of my best friends, powerhouse entrepreneur, Rachel Scheer. We dive into the power of authenticity, heart-led hustle, and building a life that doesn’t just look good but feels aligned with your soul.

• Your AUTHENTICITY is not a liability—it’s your superpower.

• The life you love won’t come from chasing—it comes from ALIGNING.

• Make your business fit your LIFE.

• You can’t judge yourself + grow at the same time. Be a student of yourSELF.

• You don’t need more followers. You need deeper SELF-TRUST.

• Self-respect is the foundation for every bold decision you’ll make.

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In this “Dear Roxy” episode, I’m answering real questions from how to trust yourSELF when the future feels shaky to what it really means to surrender without selling out your power.

WHY YOU'LL LOVE THIS EPISODE:

• Trusting yourSELF doesn’t mean you’ll always get it “right”—it means you’ll always come back to who you ARE.

• You don’t need certainty to make a move—you need courage + clarity of heart.

• The dance between toughness + surrender isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom.

• Making bold decisions is a form of energetic alignment—one that rewrites your future in real time.

• Hear the truth behind “external success” + why internal thriving is the REAL win.

This new episode was an in-the-moment decision to pivot and record what was on my heart.  You’ll hear the unfiltered truth about navigating hard days, the inner critic, + why choosing mission over mood is the ultimate devotion to your authentic Self.CHAPTERS:0:00 Authenticity and Resilience in Real-Time Conversations5:10 Embracing Challenges and Resilience in Pursuit of Purpose11:35 Harnessing Morning Brain Waves for Success13:58 Authenticity, Self-Love, and Resilience in Personal Growth19:35 Mental Fortitude and Self-Promise in Personal Training22:19 Heart Over Mind in Achieving Personal Goals23:40 Authenticity and Emotional Transparency in Broadcasting24:51 Embracing Challenges as Invitations to Connect with Your True Self31:03 Cathartic Reflections and Positive OutlooksSTAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIEwww.instagram.com/roxylook www.roxanneroxysaffaie.substackcom www.x.com/roxylookwww.roxannesaffaie.com FREE RESOURCES🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook HERE: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/decisivewoman🖤 Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt.🖤 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows🖤 Click HERE: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com/subscribe to join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth, Self-directed living-- laced with FEMININE fire.YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Star rating + review HERE: https://lovethepodcast.com/theroxanneshow

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In this “Dear Roxy” episode, I answer your juiciest questions—about career shifts, creative risk, and the truth about becoming MORE of yourSELF.

Why this episode will hit your heart today:

• You don’t need to “reinvent” yourSELF—you’re not a brand. You’re a living evolution.

• Curiosity is your secret weapon for staying lit up, youthful + soulfully engaged.

• Solitude isn’t loneliness—it’s intimacy with yourSELF.

• Expansion happens when you stop asking for permission + start following resonance.

• You are ALLOWED to outgrow what no longer fits—even if it once defined you.

• Your creativity isn’t random—it’s an energetic experience you’re here to transmit.

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Nicole Vignola | Your Brain, Your Breakups, Your Power

In this episode, I’m joined by my dearest friend and neuroscientist Nicole Vignola for a real, grounded conversation that bridges science and self. We get into the brain mechanics behind how you process emotions, navigate breakups, and rewire the way you respond to life—especially when it gets messy.

We talk about self-respect. Dopamine. Subconscious decision-making. The line between wanting and truly liking. Nicole breaks it down with clarity and lived wisdom.

Whether you're healing from something, stepping into something, or just curious about why you feel the way you do—this one hits. This is science with soul.

WHY YOU'LL LOVE THIS EPISODE:

• Learn how understanding your brain helps you respond (not spiral).

• Discover how your subconscious guides big decisions—and how to access it.

• Hear Nicole’s take on breakups, respect, and identity shifts.

• Reclaim your narrative and feel more grounded in your emotional life.

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In this ASK ROXY Q&A episode, I answer community questions from around the world and initiate personal empowerment, Self-trust, and the courage it takes to live a life that’s truly yours. I dive deep into dismantling false notions of safety and why radical honesty with yourself is the key to your most authentic power. 

WHY YOU'LL LOVE THIS EPISODE:

• Learn how to build real safety—not by avoiding risk, but by creating a secure, unbreakable relationship with yourself.

• Shift from playing not to lose, to playing to win—and what that really means for your self-leadership.

• Discover the connection between honesty and authenticity—and how Self-betrayal quietly erodes your power.

• Hear the truth about fear, entrepreneurship, and what it actually takes to invest in yourself.

• Learn my personal morning rituals that keep me grounded, clear, and connected to my purpose.

• Walk away with practical mindset tools for Self-mastery and decision-making rooted in alignment.

Want to ask a question and have it answered in an episode? DM @roxylook on Instagram with it!

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