Beyond Success

The Secret Strength of Sadness


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Sadness is something most guys struggle with. But it’s the one emotion they repress the most. And this repression leads to increased stress, anxiety, and depression. Not only that, the increase in cortisol associated with stress can lead to changes in heart rate, motivation and sleep. 

Worst part?

Men who repress their emotions are more likely to visit McDonalds, drink Jack Daniels on a Wednesday, and smoke a pack a day — which leads to women finding them unattractive. 

This creates a vicious cycle. 

In today’s episode, you’ll discover exactly how to deal how to overcome your sadness (even if you’ve tried everything before.) You’ll also discover why getting a girlfriend or wife won’t make you happy. 

Listen now!

Show Highlights Include:

  • If your answer is to disown, repress, or wish away your sadness, then you’ll never be able to feel happy (2:20)
  • Why integrating your sadness unlocks fulfillment and satisfaction (and why you’ll be finally able to experience the love flowing from within you) (3:14)
  • How embracing your sadness is the one key to opening up your natural attractiveness and start magnetizing attractive women (4:20)
  • Feel like getting a girlfriend will solve all your problems? Here’s why that’s not the case (and what will provide fulfillment, satisfaction, and happiness) (4:53)
  • Why feeling lonely isn’t sadness (and how the “loneliness text” that’s biologically programmed within you forces you to reconnect with your friends) (7:12)
  • How to win friends and influence people (8:36)
  • Under 30 and didn’t have sex in 2022? Don’t worry, at (10:21) you’ll discover how 1/3rd of people (men and women) under 30 didn’t have sex for the whole year

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

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