Scott Cone and Chris Inman run a sex and porn addiction coaching program for Christian men. 

In this episode, we discuss the aspect of Christianity as it pertains to sex addiction. We also talk about how sexual compulsivity forms in successful men and how they can craft a recovery program that works for them.

All three of us have been personally affected by sex addiction and I think you will find our experiences helpful as you are crafting your own sobriety and recovery plan.

If you want to learn about Chris and Scott’s coaching program, visit their website here: https://www.sexcessfulmen.com/

And, their podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-got-balls/id1681443004

If you are a high-achiever or entrepreneur looking for a recovery program designed specifically for successful men, visit my website https://successfuladdict.com

Relapse is a dreaded word in the sex addiction world. If you're lucky, your wife will give you another chance. But, typically a second chance is all they will give you. Third or fourth chances are rare and much harder to come back from.

But, relapses don't have to happen to you... as long as you can identify the processes that you are addicted to and remove them from your life.

Sex and porn addiction are classified as a process addiction. It's important that you do your research here as process addiction needs to be treated much differently than substance addiction. 

Most of the sex addiction field has been a 'copy and paste' from substance addiction and the 12-step philosophy. However, there's no evidence that suggests this method is effective. In fact, if you look at the 31% relapse rate, one would suggest that the substance addiction approach is not effective when treating process addictions.

Listen to this episode. I will explain what you can do to get a grip on your process addiction so that you can avoid future relapse.

If you are a high-achiever looking for a sex addiction recovery group. Visit our website here: successfuladdict.com

If you want to overcome your sex addiction, you need to uncover the specific brain processes that you are addicted to and implement strategies that have been proven to promote change. Our program can help you get there.

This episode takes a different approach compared to my usual format. I chose a question-and-answer style to give my guest the opportunity to address some of the more debated and controversial aspects of sex addiction.

Graeme Daniels has a unique approach when it comes to the treatment of sex and porn addiction. His podcast and book use a psychoanalytic framework when examining the causes of sex addiction and the effectiveness of treatment strategies.

In this episode, I ask Graeme about polygraph tests, accountability, check-ins, betrayal trauma, relational recovery, and much more.

As a skeptic, I have always appreciated Graeme’s approach to sex addiction treatment. He shines a light on areas that many people overlook.

If you want to overcome this addiction and avoid relapse, you will want to leave no stone unturned. This podcast episode will help.

If you are looking for Graeme’s podcast, you can find it here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/getting-real-about-sex-addiction/id1631453712

If you want to read his book, you can use this link here: https://a.co/d/azvUPd2

If you are a high-performer looking for a sex addiction recovery group full of other high-performers, visit my website here: successfuladdict.com

Sex addiction seems to sneak up on people. But, what if you could stop it? What if you could feel it coming so early that you were able to prevent it from happening?

Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a therapeutic approach that focuses on the nervous system's dysregulation and how it affects your life. 

High-achievers and entrepreneurs tend to focus on progress rather than what is happening inside them. This can be effective if your goal is to make more money. But, what are you missing?

When I tried SE, it helped accelerate my recovery. But, it also enhanced my ability to sense where I was in recovery and how sober I truly was.

In this episode, I talk with Brian Klink, founder of Living Color Healing. Brian is a pilot and entrepreneur who has been affected personally by compulsive sexuality. He and I talk about our experience with SE and how he is using it to help men overcome their sex and porn addictions.

You can visit Brian's website here: https://www.livingcolorhealing.com/

If you are a high-achiever seeking a recovery group and in-person intensives, visit my website here: www.successfuladdict.com

Your wife isn't enough to keep you sober… Your kids aren't enough… even God isn’t enough. If they were enough, many of my clients would have been sober a long time ago.

For high-achieving men, there seems to be one thing that wakes them up and makes sobriety last. 

In this episode, Donald Zaksek and I discuss the unique challenges that successful men face when recovering from sex and porn addiction. 

This episode is pure gold! Don is a brilliant therapist who has the incredible ability to look deep into a problem and find a solution. If you’re committed to your sex addiction recovery, I know that you will find this episode very impactful.

If you’re a high-achiever looking for a tribe of like-minded men to do recovery with, visit my website: www.successfuladdict.com

Our recovery groups provide men with a deeply connected group of men who hold each other accountable and support them through recovery to avoid slips and relapse. If you think this might be a good group for you, go to our website and fill out an application.

From ages 12-25, young men are sucked into a sexual world. The belief is formed that sex and women are a scarce commodity. This “scarcity” often causes men to pursue sex and women before their time runs out.

It’s really an insane thought process if you stop and think about it. What is sex really going to do for these young men? Is life really going to be that much better when you have all of these sexual experiences?

Novel sexual experiences will not enhance your life. The moments come and go. Then, you need another one. And, another. For some men, this will turn into a sex or porn addiction.

If you want to overcome your sex addiction, you need to look at the beliefs that were formed when you were growing up. These beliefs don’t go away on their own. You need to update them.

Our sex addiction recovery groups focus on changing your mind and the beliefs that drive your compulsive sexual behavior. If you are a high-achiever, entrepreneur, executive, or business professional who is looking for a recovery group full of driven men, visit our website here: successfuladdict.com

Surrender... Every sex and porn addict has heard that word before. But, what does it mean? How do you do it? Why is it so important to surrender if you want to overcome sex addiction?

This episode was fun to record as Debby has a refreshing take on sex addiction and sexual betrayal. Debby Wade is a CSAT (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist) who recently opened a retreat center in Montana for couples who are recovering from infidelity and sexual betrayal. Debby is a speaker and industry expert in the areas of sexual health & sex/porn addiction. As you will see in this video, Debby has a healing energy about her that makes her exceptionally good with couples and betrayed partners.

As a high-achiever herself, Debby and I discuss why surrender is so hard for successful people. High-achievers like to control how others see them (image management). They also tend to be people pleasers and future planners. The combination of all of these elements makes surrendering very difficult. Thus, opening the door to addictive and compulsive sexual behaviors.

Connect with Debby for more information about her couples retreats by sending her an email: [email protected]

If you are a high-achiever looking for a sex addiction recovery group, visit my website at www.successfuladdict.com

Sex addicts are typically people pleasers. Successful men are usually successful because of their ability to please others. The problem is that they tend to prioritize pleasing others over pleasing themselves. This leads to coping, compensating, and striving. The good news is that you can have both... Sobriety AND success.

High-achievers are resourceful, driven, and creative. Sex addiction becomes an efficient way of getting what the addict mind wants. In the beginning, it's easy to hide. Inevitably, the truth comes out and it often wrecks their marriage and the family unit. Recovery is different for high-achievers as their sex addiction is different than the average addict. This episode discusses the differences and what must be done to achieve long-term sobriety.

Crystal Hollenbeck (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist) and I examine what high-achievers need to do if they are going to achieve a full recovery. While many successful men believe that they know who they are, their self-worth is often tied to the number of people who they perceive find them "impressive."

If you are a high-achiever who is struggling with a sex and porn addiction, visit my website: successfuladdict.com

If you live in Florida and want to connect with Crystal: https://crystalhollenbeck.com/

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Sex addiction is what is called a “process addiction,” meaning that the dopamine comes from thinking. If you want to beat this addiction, you need to change the way you think.

Lara Dye (PhD and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist) and I discuss how to navigate a process addiction and what goes into changing how a sex addict thinks.

High-achievers, business professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs have unique brain processes. We discuss where these thinking patterns come from and what successful men need to do to achieve sobriety and long-term recovery.

If you’re a high-achiever looking for a sex addiction recovery group, visit our website: www.successfuladdict.com

The Successful Addict is a program for professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs who struggle with sex addiction and want to save their marriage. We provide men with a deeply connected recovery group using in-person retreats, weekly coaching calls, and daily accountability check-ins.

If you live in Texas and want to contact Lara about treatment options, go here: https://drlaradye.com/#sexaddiction #pornaddiction #sexaddictiongroups #compulsivesexuality

There’s an obsession with triggers in the sex addiction industry. But, it’s not that linear.

Rarely is a trigger sexual. Yet, there’s this focus in the sex addiction industry on arousal templates and men being triggered by women/ sexual imagery.

Sex addiction is classified as a process addiction. You should be looking for what triggers your process addiction rather than a sex or porn addiction.

The triggers and the “why” behind your sex addiction are best resolved in a group setting. Here you can listen to other men describe their process addiction and it will help you get to the root cause of your own.

If you are a high-achiever or entrepreneur and you are looking for a group of like-minded men to recover with, visit our website here: successfuladdict.com

Our program is designed specifically for high-achievers and successful men. Sex addiction presents differently in driven men. They’re outgoing, charismatic, and refuse to settle for mediocrity. These qualities cause a very unique addiction that differs from the men in the general population. For these reasons, high-achievers require a unique approach to sex addiction recovery. 

Our groups cater to these differences and provide men with a peer group of like-minded individuals who they can better connect with.