The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Do you feel like you have not reached your sexual potential? Perhaps our cultural ideas about sex and pleasure are affecting your overall health and happiness. Join us with Neuroscientist and Sex Therapist, Dr Nan Wise, author of Why Good Sex Matters, as she explains scientifically how sexual pleasure affects our wellbeing. She emphasizes that good sex is not just a luxury. It’s not just a cherry on top. Good sex matters. Orgasms matter. Pleasure matters. Take it from a neuroscientist.

Does size matter? For many people, this question brings out a resounding “Hell yes!” And for many penis owners, it’s a matter of length and girth. And for that reason, penis enlargement procedures have become more sought after than ever before. Join us with Dr Joel Pash, CEO of Upsize Clinic, specializing in penile enlargement procedures, as we talk about cosmetic enhancements, injectable fillers, devices, and drugs. We find out which procedures work, which ones are safe and why men want/need them. Whether you have erectile dysfunction, pyrones disease, or just looking for easier and harder erections, the availability of safe and sustainable solutions is real, making this “upsize” industry growing as we speak.

Do you ever wonder why you have specific kinks? Do you feel uncomfortable discussing your kinky fantasies with your partner or close friends? Perhaps you want to add some kink into your boring sex life. Join us with Kink Expert, Dr Lori Beth Bisbey, a Psychologist and Sex & Intimacy Coach, as she explains the ins-and-outs of the kinky lifestyle and why many people’s sex lives are driven by sub/dom relationships and other fetishes. We talk about opening up relationships to explore deeper, more meaningful intimacy and to heal from past sexual trauma

Are you curious about strap-on sex and the intimacy and connection it can provide you and your partner? Do you need expert guidance on how strap-on toys can empower you and enrich your sex life? Join Dr Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy, and Sex & Relationship Coach, Cherish Amber, discussing the sensual world of strap-on sex, the complexities and joys of strap-on play as they delve into topics that range from the emotional aspects of strap-on intimacy to the technicalities of harness selection and usage. Cherish's approach to clarity, communication, consent, and connection provides invaluable insights for those looking to deepen their sexual experiences and understand the transformative power of shared pleasure. Whether venturing into this territory for the first time or looking to enhance your current practice, this episode promises to educate and inspire. Get ready to challenge the myths, embrace the learning curve, and celebrate the diversity of sexual expression with Cherish's compassionate and informed perspective.

Have you ever experienced periods of self-loathing or even self-hatred? Are you still trying to come to terms with who you are or who you want be? Perhaps you were bullied, ostracized or abused as an adolescent and developed a negative attitude towards your self worth? Join us with author, Elizabeth Hendrick, who wrote EXODAI, A Shockingly Honest Memoir of Love, Obsession and Torture, as she explains how and why she had a long-term submissive relationship with a Japanese Dominatrix, in which she received sadistic torture – for the benefit of love. Not for the faint-hearted, this memoir describes what she experienced there and how she found her way back.

Are you playing the dating game and always wondering what is the appropriate amount of time you should wait before having sex with a new partner? Join Sexologist, Dr. Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy, as she chats with Laurie Gerber, a renowned relationship coach and co-president of the Handel Group. Together, they discuss new romantic relationships and the natural instinct to explore sexual connection with any new partner. Laurie shares her insights on the importance of self-awareness and communication in setting your own pace for intimacy, as well as navigating your partner's comfort level. Drawing on her vast experience in helping individuals and couples build healthy, fulfilling relationships, Laurie offers practical tips for assessing your own needs and boundaries and making sure you are on the same page as your potential partner. Whether you've just started dating or are looking to reevaluate your current relationship, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking guidance on the intricate balance of timing and intimacy.

Have you been suffering from orgasm difficulty in silence? Are you too ashamed to talk to anyone about it? Perhaps you think there’s nothing you can do to help your situation? Join us with Orgasm Expert and Researcher, Dr Suzanne Mulvehill, founder of the Female Orgasm Research Institute, as she explains how her research with cannabis has proven to help women with Female Orgasm Difficulty Disorder (FOD). We discuss the need to open-up about orgasms and normalize the conversation in order to help these women, because the percentage of those suffering from orgasm difficulty has not changed in 50 years despite improvements in sex education, gender equality and sex therapy.

Wouldn’t you love to be a fly on the wall at a high-end brothel and watch what goes on during a day in the life of a successful Courtesan? That would be so enlightening, educational and could help to normalize conversations about sex work. Join us as we chat with America's longest-serving female legal brothel owner, Madam Bella Cummins, who is the proprietor of Bella's Hacienda Ranch, a licensed brothel in Wells, Nevada. She has owned and operated the brothel for over 30 years and can speak at length about the ins-and-outs of legalized prostitution in Nevada and what it's like to manage one of these unique businesses. Bella is always advocating for sex workers including her current fight about replacing derogatory terms like ‘prostitute’ which perpetuate social stigmas and stereotypes which lead to further discrimination and marginalization of sex workers.

Are you considering joining The Lifestyle community as a way of spicing up your sex life and strengthening your couple’s relationship? Perhaps you’re wondering if the thrill of the adventure fades over the years. Does The Lifestyle ever become unexciting and ‘same-old’? Join us with a couple of long-time friends whom we met in The Lifestyle over a decade ago as we recount the stories from when we were newbies in The Lifestyle when every party, event or trip was hotter than the last one, and we all had SEXY FOMO. We get into the adventures and the sexy-fun times we shared together and the evolution of our relationships, our friendships and our experiences in The Lifestyle and end up examining where we’re at today… how we keep it hot and spicy in our own ways.

Do you ever wonder what motivates porn stars to expose themselves to judgment, shame, guilt, and objectification, even though their line of work is so much in demand, that there’s never enough sexual content to satisfy the world’s appetite for porn. Join us as we chat with Sadie Summers, the friendly neighborhood MILF, who returned to sex work after leaving the industry for the “wholesome” job of nursing, only to re-establish her previous identity as a porn star and embrace the role with an open minded and sex positive attitude… without shame or embarrassment.