In this gripping episode of Millennial Mind, I sit down with Kirat Assi to delve into her harrowing experience of being catfished for almost nine years by her own cousin, as documented in the Netflix series 'Sweet Bobby'.

Kirat recounts the emotional and psychological impact of the deception, the role of family dynamics, and the challenges she faced in seeking justice. This conversation also explores themes of coercive control, the importance of having a support system, and the healing journey post-trauma. We highlight the complexities of recognising manipulative behaviours and the societal pressures that can exacerbate such situations. An essential watch for anyone looking to understand the nuances of online abuse and the resilience required to overcome it.

02:12 Kirat's Story: The Netflix and Podcast Experience

03:37 The Complexity of the Catfishing Scheme

06:55 The Evolution of Online Relationships

09:59 The Emotional Manipulation Tactics

13:52 The Elaborate Web of Deceit

21:29 The Turning Point: Bobby's Marriage and Aftermath

35:29 Family Struggles and Support

35:45 Navigating Relationships and Traditions

36:15 From Friendship to Romance

38:25 Balancing Work and Personal Life

42:43 Witness Protection and Complications

47:07 Emotional Turmoil and Relationship Dynamics

01:05:07 Marriage Expectations and Cultural Pressures

01:08:05 Balancing Tradition and Modernity

01:09:20 The Catfishing Revelation

01:10:46 Unraveling the Deception

01:12:42 The Emotional and Legal Aftermath

01:14:32 Seeking Justice and Accountability

01:16:06 The Impact of Sharing the Story

01:18:47 Healing and Moving Forward

01:41:40 Advice for Others and Final Thoughts

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