The Super Human Life by Frank Rich

July 28, 2025 The Hard Truths About Fatherhood & Why Most Men Are Failing At Home w/ Larry Hagner | Ep. 298

Pre-order Larry's new book - https://thedadedge.com/legendary-fatherhood-book/

In this powerful and raw episode of The Super Human Life, Coach Frank Rich is joined by returning guest Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge, host of the globally-ranked Dad Edge Podcast, and author of the new book The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood. Together, they unpack the hard truths most men never hear about being a father in today's culture.

From breaking generational cycles to leading your family with faith and intentionality, this conversation is a deep dive into what it really means to pursue legendary fatherhood. Larry opens up about his own upbringing, how faith changed the way he leads at home, and the transformative moment with his son that shifted everything.

Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned father, or a man working to heal his father wound, this episode will speak directly to the man you are and the man you're becoming.

🧠 Expect to Learn:

The biggest lie men believe about being a father today
Why fatherhood is a skill, not just a role
How your relationship with your own father shapes how you parent
Simple (yet powerful) daily questions to build deep connection with your kids
Why men need to master communication before they can lead
What to do if your wife isn't growing at the same pace you are
The real reason most men drift and how to stop it
Why faith and community are essential for modern fatherhood
What it truly means to pursue legendary fatherhood

👤 Guest Bio: Larry Hagner

Larry Hagner is the founder of The Dad Edge and host of the globally ranked Dad Edge Podcast, with over 1,000 episodes focused on helping men become better fathers, husbands, and leaders. After growing up without a positive male role model, Larry committed to breaking generational cycles and building a community where men are equipped with the tools and accountability to lead with strength and purpose.

Larry is a keynote speaker, high-performance coach, and author of multiple books, including his newest release: The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood, launching September 16, 2025. He leads a powerful men's community with programs focused on fatherhood, marriage, communication, and business leadership.

🔗 Learn more at https://thedadedge.com

🔑 Key Takeaways:

Fatherhood Requires Training: Just like jiu-jitsu or building muscle, fatherhood demands intentional skill acquisition, not assumptions.
Clear Communication Builds Connection: Without clear, connected communication, you lose influence as a father and leader.
The 3 Daily Questions: Skip "How was your day?" Instead, ask:

What made you smile today?
What did you fail at and what did you learn?
What are you most excited about tomorrow?

Faith Must Be Modeled, Not Outsourced: Larry shares a deeply personal story of realizing he hadn't led his son spiritually and how he's now walking that journey alongside him.
Victim to Hero Shift: You can't lead your family while living in a victim mindset. Legendary fathers embrace the pain of growth to break generational patterns.
Marriage + Fatherhood Are Interconnected: Your wife and kids both need to feel seen, heard, and safe. What works in one area often applies to the other.
Lead With Action, Not Instruction: If your wife isn't on the same growth journey, lead by example, not correction.
Don't Die With Regret: The pursuit of legendary fatherhood is messy, but it's the only path worth walking. End each day exhausted knowing you left nothing on the table.